Aynsley joined Tinder looking for compliments and dinner dates (as any 21-year-old does) and Paul joined looking for Aynsley, of course. Aynsley was on a different coffee date the morning of May 1st, went home, and told her roommates "he was fine, but I wish Paul would ask me out already." So she texted Paul something cutesy about what he was up to blah blah, and after some back and forth banter said "okay let's cut to the chase; are we hanging out tonight or what?" Paul said hell yes, Aynsley picked a seedy little bar in Old Sac for some reason, and the rest is approximately 8 years of history.