BEN & OLIVIA
The Crew
Emily
Maid of Honor
Olivia's cousin and ultimate role model. She grew up just a few minutes away from Ben and Olivia and has been there since day one. She has a knack for making celebrations of any kind spectacular, full of confetti and fun. She works as a nurse at NYU and is always taking care of those she loves. Emily is the friend everyone wants in their corner and the go-to party planner (no wonder she was meant for this role!). A Fairfield Stag forever and lover of all things Connecticut. You can occasionally catch her sipping on Blue Moon's at The Sea Grape, re-living her college days!
Matt
Best Man
A man of true style and swagger who knows just how to get the party started! Whether it's his outstanding vocals singing with his band, Charles Warren Orchestra or his distinguished sense of humor, Matt is always the guy that can have a good time. Ben's older (and much wiser) brother, Matt can be seen wandering among the bustling streets of NYC with wife Milena and foxy Shiba Inu, Kit! Just when you think he couldn't be any cooler, he often frequents the slopes of the North East during the winter months to showcase his talents on his snowboard - watch out folks, he can really "shred the gnar"!
Jen
Bridesmaid
Jen is the cooler older sister everyone wishes they had. She is mom to two beautiful daughters, Ellie and Shea and can often be spotted strolling down Greenwich Ave. seeking out the most stylish finds on the block. Jen is always the most generous and selfless person in the room, and you can always count on her for a boost of confidence. Not only is she Kevin’s better (and funnier) other half, but she is also the gal pal you bring to Todd’s Point for a relaxing time. Whether she’s got her head down in a good beach read or giggling about something silly, she’s sure to brighten your day no matter the instance. If you see her at the wedding, be sure to grab her a Spicy Marg – this Mama deserves one!
Kevin
Groomsman
If you can’t find Kevin that’s because he’s breaking it down on the dance floor, drink in hand, belting the lyrics to a classic. Kevin is one of Olivia’s older brothers and the New York Ranger’s biggest fan. One thing to know about Kevin is that he is also a movie fanatic, and he almost always is quoting a line or two from a movie you’ve probably never seen. If he isn’t watching movies, he’s probably taking golf lessons from Christopher on the golf course… we all know he's just there to have a good time with the boys. While he might be the only dad in the group, he’s still down for a good time and can always make you belly laugh. You can always count on Kevin to pick you up when you're down and it's safe to say we all aspire to be as cool as he is one day. Pass him a High Noon and he'll be your best friend for the night!
Missy
Bridesmaid
Everyone needs a Missy in their life. She’s the most supportive person and can always be found lending a helping hand to others… or maybe passing a glass of wine to them – same thing! If she isn’t bopping around near Houston St. she’s probably making her way to Pittsburgh for a long weekend with the fam or down to Ocean City for some sun and sand. Missy definitely loves a good happy hour and you can always rely on her to pick the best spot in NYC for some light bites and delicious drinks. She embodies everything Kathy taught her to be; an honest person, the life of the party, the one with a good Ralph Lauren discount, and the leader of the pack to find the best spot to sit. No matter which way you put it, Missy will always be there for you!
Chris
Groomsman
Chris is Olivia’s second oldest brother and can collectively be described as the free spirit of the group. He loves long drives with the windows down, music blasting making his way to the next golf course on his list. He may be a man of few words, but one too many twisted teas and Twistopher is on the loose. Chris is a Yankee in the south, who’s simply just living his best life. If he isn’t trying to convince you to go out to the bars, he’s probably convincing you to go to the driving range bright and early. You can always count on Chris to make you laugh with his charismatic aura and quick humor. Chris is most notably Ben’s favorite golf buddy and Olivia’s favorite company when he’s in town.
Carrie
Bridesmaid
Meet Carrie, the wild child and youngest of the Pastorius siblings. Carrie is the girl you hang around with if you want to have a fun time. She is the most caring, down to earth, and full of life person you may ever meet. During the summer time, you can catch Carrie enjoying her herself up in Martha’s Vineyard soaking up all the sun and sand. When Carrie sets her mind to something, she does it and won’t let anything get in her way to do so. If she isn’t up in MV, she may be making her way down to Jersey for a notorious Pastorius taco Tuesday or Pizza night – either way, she’s sure to bring the fun! If you see her on the dance floor, grab your drink and join her!
Kenny
Groomsman
Kenny is a man of class and character. He enjoys the finer things in life, and can often be found with a nice cigar and the finest whiskeys. Whether it’s re-enacting civil war battles or participating in foreign affairs battles of the more modern type in D.C., Kenny is an outgoing guy who can always share a good laugh with anyone he is with. If you’re looking for a distinguished gentleman, he’s your guy!
Molly
Bridesmaid
Being one of the older girl cousins in the group, Molly always took on the role of being in charge. She’s always been good at rallying people to do something, no wonder she’s a teacher! Another sucker for an Abba song, she usually can be seen on the dance floor or on an elevated surface enjoying herself. She makes every family function the one you want to be at and when she’s not there, it’s not as fun. Molly’s favorite holiday might be St. Patrick’s Day as she used to be a competitive Irish Dancer in her glory days. She’s a member of the core four girl cousins and blondest one too, although it’s a toss-up on who gets more burnt out of the four of us. She is humble, she is kind, she is smart, but most of all she is important – we couldn’t imagine another person to stand by our side this weekend!
Spencer
Groomsman
Meet Spencer one of Ben's high school buddies and track teammate, he always knew how to make the best of a long day at a track meet by keeping Ben company. The true definition of grit, Spencer decided to move down to Texas after high school, and has been working in the construction industry since. If that’s not enough, after working for hours in the Austin heat, Spencer is a gym rat too. A blue collar man, but when he does kick back he is enjoys the finer side of life and is a cigar aficionado. Give him a cigar and a bourbon and Spencer is as happy as a clam.
Erin
Bridesmaid
In case of an emergency, you want Erin by your side. She is always the one to be calm, cool and collected but get a few drinks in her and she can be seen from time to time dancing to the lyrics of Dancing Queen. Erin is one of the most trustworthy and loyal people you could ever meet. She loves a good stroll down the Avenue for GNOAB (girls night out and Ben) nights sipping a Vodka Cran and cracking jokes. While not only being the comedic of the group, she always loves to find a good deal - if you need a shopping buddy, she's your go to for a good BOGO.
Joe
Groomsman
If a 76ers jersey was acceptable to wear to this function, we all know Joe would be representing. A Philly boy at heart and another teammate of the Pitt Rugby crew, Joe is sure to wear his colors wherever he goes. Sports aside, Joe is a goofball and sure to make you laugh. Just like Louis, he probably has countless stories of Ben during his glory days. Despite having to put up with Ben as a roommate for a year, he's still one of Ben's best buddies and loves to have a good time. Give him a twisted tea and he's sure to let loose.
Serena
Bridesmaid
Serena is the friend you rely on for anything and everything. She wears her heart on her sleeve and always drops what she’s doing for her friends – even if that means leaving work early for a country concert. Even though Serena is from Long Island, you might mistake her from being from the south. She may or may not have turned Olivia into a country fan and more respectfully Ben into a Dan & Shay fan. She loves a good country song, anything camo, cowboy boots and a drive in her jeep on the beach. Some of our favorite times with her are ones where we’re drinking trashcans from Arooga’s or running up a tab at a private table at Daisy’s. Don’t piss her off though, if you couldn’t already tell – she’s a feisty one and will give you the honest truth – that’s why we love her.
Louis
Groomsman
If you ask Louis, it's always sunny in Philadelphia. A Philly boy through and through, who would go to the ends of the earth for the birds. This Eagle for sure flies high, but instead of football he can often be spotted playing rugby with the boys. If he's not trying to start a friendly fight with Joe or Will, he's probably making everyone else late to go out. Louis is one of Ben's closest friends, rugby teammate and roommate from Pitt, he sure has had his fair share of drunk Ben stories. Start the "Fly Eagles Fly" song and the guy will for sure be your buddy for the night.
Danielle
Bridesmaid
If you don’t know Danielle, you’re missing out. She’s the DIY-er of the group and always has a side hustle she’s pursuing after her teaching job ends for the day. Whether you’re looking for a friendship bracelet, t-shirt, soap or charcuterie board, Danielle has you covered. Not only is Danielle the most reliable, but you can almost always count on her to be down to do whatever. She is often spotted with some form of coffee or tea and possibly Grandma Kate’s biscotti in hand. Danielle is Olivia’s sidekick and has also been simultaneously planning her own wedding this year as well. Say congrats to the newlyweds – we couldn’t have planned this without them!
Jack
Groomsman
Jack was Ben’s other roommate and rugby teammate at Pitt. Another Philly native, his sports fandom runs deep, and his mood is often determined by if Joel Embiid had a good game. Whether it’s traveling across the midwest for Rugby, going to Vegas after graduation, or even the simple Thursday rotation of Bootleggers wing night to South Side bars, Jack is always down for anything, and can make anyone have a good time. Just ask him what his nickname is.
Nicole
Bridesmaid
No one loves a classic car more than Nicole – just ask her, she’s got 3 of them. A girl who loves proving people wrong with what she’s capable of and a master of determination. She may or may not love the beach as much as she loves her cars. The best times we’ve had together are ones where we’re up laughing crying in the same room down the beach over something silly. She always makes sure everyone feels included and is always genuinely interested in what other’s are talking about. If Nicole is not at a car show she’s most likely trying new recipes in the kitchen. One of the many things we admire about Nicole is how she always becomes the magnet for any children in the room – there’s something about her nurturing nature that the kids just gravitate toward her (we're sure Ellie will be hand in hand with her at some point this weekend)!
Patrick
Groomsman
Patrick is Ben’s older cousin, and the West Virginia transplant of the group. Growing up, Patrick and Ben shared many interests, most importantly video games, with which they’ve bonded across any iteration of console or game. Patrick has always been methodical and detail oriented, and carries that forward with him today as an Aviation Mechanic. However, when he is not working on helicopter and plane engines, he is refining his craft of being a beer connoisseur. The more exotic or unfamiliar a beer is, the more eager Patrick is to try it.
Ellie & Shea
Flower Girls
Ellie and Shea are Olivia's two favorite nieces and also her look a-likes. They love Bluey, the Rangers, stickers and the beach but most of all, Aunt Liv and Uncle Ben. These two cuties will be sure to make you smile as they walk down the aisle!