FAQs

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Are you registered? Where?

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We are extremely lucky to have love, laughter, and a house full of furniture, so if you'd like to help us celebrate with a gift, a cash gift would be very welcome. There will be a card box at the wedding. We will also have Venmo, Zelle codes will be available to scan at the wedding.

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What about traffic?

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We recommend taking off a bit early on Friday. Traffic on the way to Temecula can be unpredictable. Here's some help depending on where you are! Recommended Departure Times: 1:30pm from Orange 1:30pm from San Diego 2:15pm from Valley Center There's plenty to do and enjoy in Temecula if you arrive early. Feel free to go to a winery, the casino, Round 1 (a Dave & Busters type place), or check out old town Temecula. See our "Things To Do" page for suggestions!

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Where do I RSVP?

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The deadline to submit RSVP's has passed so you won't see it here on the website anymore. If you need to change your RSVP please reach out to Ashley directly at 760-504-6916 as soon as possible.

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What if I RSVP'd and said I could go and now I can't? Can I bring someone else instead?

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Please let the bride or groom know as soon as possible so we can make adjustments. We do have a short list of other guests we would love to have attend our wedding if there's room.

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Is there a seating chart?

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Yes! There will be a seating chart. Please let us know about any changes to your party ASAP as there is limited room.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please plan to arrive around 30 minutes early. Around 3:30pm. You can drink, socialize, and most importantly, get a great seat!

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Is there a dress code?

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Semi-Formal: Tuxedos and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses. No jeans or shorts. If you show up wearing white or cream, we've authorized the groomsmen to tackle onsite.

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Can I bring a date?

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Please only bring who you RSVP'd for. If you're not sure please reach out to Ashley at 760-504-6916.

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Are kids welcome?

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We love, value, and cherish little ones. However, we're asking our guests to respect our wishes that babies and children are not in attendance. We wish for all our guests who are parents to enjoy an evening away with great company, excellent food, plentiful drinks, and terrible dancing.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, there is easy, free parking right on site.

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What is an "unplugged" ceremony?

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We are asking that at the start of the ceremony, all guests silence and put their phones away. We would like for everyone to be present and to just enjoy the moment. Once the ceremony closes (Ashley & Nick have disappeared for a few photos), you can feel free to take photos for the rest of the night. We have hired an expert photography and videography team to capture things so don't worry! We'll make sure to send you all ceremony photos.

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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony & reception will be outdoors (unless it rains). The bars & dance floor will be indoors.

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Is there a wedding hashtag?

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Yes, there is! #ASHLEYGOTNICKED and if you post any pictures for the wedding, we would love it if you used the hashtag so we could easily find them.

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Is anyone changing their name?

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No name changes here. We will continue to be Nicolas Hernandez & Ashley Williams, however, Ashley absolutely welcomes being called Mrs. Hernandez.