FAQs

Question

What time should we arrive at St. Mary's for the ceremony?

Answer

Please arrive at the church by 12:15pm and be in your seats no later than 12:45pm. The ceremony will be begin promptly at 1:00pm.

Question

Kids and babies?

Answer

On your invitation, we indicated how many seats are reserved for you and your family. Lap children and babies were not counted as needing a seat (i.e. if you are a couple with a one year old baby, you would have 2 seats on your RSVP). If you believe you need additional seats), please reach out to Lara and Pat. If you plan to leave your kids with a babysitter, or otherwise won't need the seats allocated to your family, also please let Lara and Pat know. Thanks!

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What is the attire?

Answer

Formal or Black-Tie Optional For men: military uniforms for active duty, (optional for retired), formal or black-tie optional for civilians For women: military uniforms optional, formal or black-tie optional More information on military uniforms: - Dinner Dress Blue (with Dinner Dress Blue Jacket) or service equivalent - White gloves and Combination Covers for sword-bearers