The RSVPs are strictly for the names listed on the envelope. If one of the named cannot attend the wedding YOU MAY NOT BRING SOMEONE ELSE IN THEIR STEAD. The only exception being if you get permission from the bride and groom IN ADVANCE. Plus-ones (labeled as guest on envelope) should be named on the RSVP when sent back to the bride and groom. Plus-ones were giving out sparingly. If your envelope does not say, your name and guest, you do not have one. If you show up with an uninvited guest, you will both be asked to leave. Please respect the fact that weddings are not free, we only have so much food and space available.
While there will be a few kids at the wedding, this is an adults-only wedding. The kids present are the nieces and nephews of the bride and groom. Please plan accordingly to make sure you can get a (mostly) kids free night.
We did not set up a registry, we would like to have the gift you chose to be from the heart. (For the most part, a honeymoon/future fund is more our speed, but we will be happy with anything you choose.)
We would like the event to be semi-formal, but as it is an outdoor wedding, we are not strict to that. Dressy/casual attire for the office is absolutely fine to wear, dresses and suits are not necessary. Please no ripped jeans or farm cloths. It's still a wedding. Also bring clothing for the weather. It can get chilly at night, it can also be sweltering. Plan accordingly.
Yes, there will be a section of the field for those who drive to park. If you have a low riding car or really nice expensive car we suggest not using that one. The field isn't super rutted but, it is a field. Please plan accordingly.
Since we didn't book a floor at a hotel, we did not schedule a shuttle. Please plan accordingly.
Please arrive at the venue no earlier than 1:00pm. If you arrive in town early, please explore the area around the venue and wait till closer to 1:00 or 3:00pm when the ceremony starts. We will be setting everything up ourselves, so the less clutter and bustle we have the better. If you wish to help, please contact the bride or groom beforehand.
As part of the RSVP we added a section to fill out any dietary restrictions. While we will do our best to accommodate any allergies, we will not be taking special requests. The menu is the menu. The wedding party alone has a peanut and tree nut allergy, lactose intolerance, celiacs disease (gluten free) and a vegetarian. Our menu is completely nut free, there will be gluten free options and meat free options.