We met shortly after I got to California in October 2015, via a mutual friend while I was living in Rancho Cucamonga until I could get settled closer to my job in Los Angeles. We had some really good conversation that evening so we kept in touch. Oh yes and I will never forget the night I met Andre. It was a great night and when he gave me that hug after walking me to my car.........it was a wrap. I was officially sprung! Natasha's birthday was a week later and we had a blast celebrating her born day. I really do thank God, Raymond and Joyce for her birth because she's an amazing woman with a beautiful spirit. We basically toured Southern California together every weekend for the next couple of months, having a blast and bonding even more! Even though I moved to California with a totally different agenda pursuing entertainment, I'm a firm believer that everything happens for a reason. There is no such thing as coincidence, but things just coincide according to God and universal law. I realized in a short period of time how much Natasha truly cared about me........when she found out I was moving to Compton. OMG I was devastated! I would tell him everyday, "out of all the places why COMPTON!" I made it every weekend to see my boo. We continued touring and our relationship remained strong. Then he got a job offer in Las Vegas! Now at this time Compton didn't seem too bad, but nevertheless I started making phone calls to my family in Vegas( shout out to the Burks) so he could find a nice place. I also immediately put in my vacation request for my Vegas trips. Now I've never had a long distance relationship, but this was going to be my first and last because nothing was going to stop me from becoming Mrs. Ponder! After praying about the situation and seeking counseling from God, I decided not to move to Vegas and now the rest is HISTORY IN THE MAKING!!! #ponderthattimes2now