Mollie & Thomas
The Crew
Ben Tockarshewsky III.
Best Man
My older and much smarter brother! You've always been my best friend, best tag-team wrestling partner, best goalie to practice breakaways against, and best person to go to a Ranger game with; not to mention possibly the biggest support of Mollie and I's relationship since day 1, and Billie's favorite camp counselor! You have been absolutely instrumental in watching our love grow and we are both so glad to have you as a best man. -T
Sarah Frascella
Maid of Honor
My big sister, confidant, and my biggest cheerleader- truly unsure where I'd be without you today. Although we are opposites in many ways- you've taught me how to be tough, stick up for myself, and to fight for what I believe in. I'm forever grateful to have grown up with such an incredible big sister. After meeting Tom for the first time, she sent me a text that read " Tom's a total dream boat" -M
Max Tockarshewsky
Best Man
My younger brother, but my biggest inspiration. Although my favorite past-time is poking fun at you, I couldn't imagine our big day without you. Whether its Orange Theory, a run, or just life in general, I can always count on you to push me to be my best. Honored to have you as one of my best men. -T
Matt Schindler
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The one who would likes to say " He called it". My older brother, our biggest supporter. Thank you for always having my back, in good times and in the not so great ones. Thanks for being the one who started dancing in grocery stores aisles with me, because now, Tom is the one dancing with me. We are so lucky to have you by our side today and through life. We hope to be there for you the way you've been there for us. -M
Amanda Turano
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My partner in crime, my twin, my first ever best friend. It has been a privilege to grow up with you by my side. You have been my biggest cheerleader & hype girl. You bring out this silly, goofy side of me that I truly only have when I'm with you. Thank you for bringing so much sunshine into my life for all these years. We are so lucky to step into this next life stage together as we both get MARRIED! Thank you so much for creating & designing our dream Save the Dates! -M
Barbara Ruthaiwattana
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My "Mom"- you've helped me develop, nurture and keep my creative side alive throughout the years. A day out in Patchogue when I was younger always meant a craft of some kind was in store. Thank for always being there when I needed another set of eyes or a new perspective on one of my art projects. You've been an incredible role model not only in the art world, but as a mom, sister and wife. -M
Casey Strube
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One of the best friends a girl could ask for! It's hard to believe I went 20+ years without you in my life, because truly I can barely make it through the day without talking to you. I have learned so much about my adult self because you came into my life. The way you show up and support the people in your life is something I truly admire. Thank you for some of the best memories and I can't wait to make many more as we grow into those old ladies in the nursing homes together. -M
Elliott Orr
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A fellow Platoon Leader, former roommate, and instrumental member of the Aloha Boys crew, I couldn't imagine taking this next step in my life without you by my side. What I value most about our friendship is the amount of fun we've had no matter the situation. We could be embracing the suck out in the field, at "reinstatement camp" at JRTC; or at the Green House playing Mario Party or waking up on the porch couch- we managed to laugh our way through it all! I can't wait to get the Aloha Boys back together in Lake George! -T
Jake Carter
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The founding member of the Aloha Boys and the one who consistently pushes me to expand my boundaries. Serving with you was an absolute honor and I'm so grateful we've remained close despite being on opposite ends of the country. You have my unwavering trust in any scenario, whether its shark diving, camping, or going on a 13 hour hike in middle-of-nowhere Wyoming; so it's only fitting I have you by my side on my wedding day. -T
Jenn Schindler
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My sister-in-law, my ride or die, the one who's always down for a good time. You have been a constant line of love, support, and friendship the last couple of years. You've reminded me of my strength, sparkle, and humor. Tom and I will never be able to thank you for being one of our biggest cheerleaders. We are one of the lucky ones to say we have you in our corner. -M
Jennifer Strunk
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My very own personal shopper and stylist! While we spent many hours shopping and in dressing rooms, you showed little Mollie the beginning of girlhood. During the endless hours of fashion shows and outfit variations, you showed me all the magical parts of being a woman. Being supportive, honest, hyping me up when I needed the extra push of confidence, thank you for helping me become the woman I am today. -M
Jessica Sloboda
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My go to- you've taught me how to ride a bike, how to put eyeliner on, how to straighten and curl my hair and so much more! We spent our childhood & teenage years making up dances, riding our scooters, or playing baseball in the driveway. You have been another older sister I had the privilege to grow up with. Thank you for showing me the ropes of life. -M
Josh Pernick
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Who would've known a decade ago the 5'6 kid at DG raining three pointers over me would turn out to be one of my very best friends. Our UFC watch parties have become the highlight of every month and there is nobody else I'd want pouring me an Old Fashioned. I'm truly grateful we can commiserate about wedding expenses together since you and Jean get married just a few months after us! -T
Larry Frascella
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Technically my brother- in-law, but much more of another older brother I never knew I needed. ( technically never wanted) but very lucky and grateful to have. Thank you for letting me continue to annoy you as it brings me so much joy. We are honored to have your love and support. -M
Lee LaRosa
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There is nobody I feel like I can be my true self around more than you, Lee (except maybe Mollie)! We have grown together from a couple of stupid kids on Bell Blvd to a bunch of.. stupid... adults on Bell Blvd? Either way I am incredibly thankful for our friendship. We've picked each other up during our lowest lows and kept each other level headed through nearly two decades of friendship. Let's hope neither one of us sprains an ankle dancing at the wedding... -T
Madison Ruthaiwattana
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The girl who truly keeps me young! I love learning the latest trends, lingo, and fashion tips from you. You're hilarious, spunky, and it's been a privilege to watch you grow into your teens. I can't wait to see where life takes you as you get older. I'll always be there if you need anything! -M
Mike Strassberg
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The most outgoing and energetic person I have ever met! I can't say enough about our friendship, from our sibling-like rivalry at DG, to being groomsmen in each others' weddings, we've really come full circle and I've been blessed to call you one of my best friends for almost two decades. You, Emily, and Mika compliment Mollie, Billie, and myself so well and it's been amazing watching our little families grow together. -T
Nicole Turano
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Little Nikki! One of the purest souls you'll ever meet. You were the little sister I always wanted. You have grown into an incredible woman. Your compassion, strength, and understanding is something I'm still learning from you today. Growing into adulthood with you has been an incredible journey and I can't wait to see where life takes us next! -M
Olivia and Nick DiGiulio
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I have always thought of Olivia more as a sister than a cousin so I guess that makes Nick the third brother I never knew I needed! Olivia, you have always been the first to give me unsolicited relationship advice and I'll never forget how instantly you and Mollie connected. It was one of the many early moments that made me fall more in love with Mollie because I know it isn't easy to pass the "Olivia" test! Even though you are my younger cousin, you and Nick truly set the standard into what a healthy and loving relationship should be. Watching you two get married this year was one of the happiest and proudest moments of my life. Nick, you have taken such good care of my cousin and I am grateful I can call you family now. Both Mollie and I can't wait to have you both by our side on our wedding day! -T
Olivia Ruthaiwattana
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My mini-me, it has been amazing watching you grow into the young woman you are today. It's truly crazy how fast time goes. You have such a gentle, calm spirit that I know will follow you wherever you go. Please always remember I am only a phone call away! -M
Lorenzo & Rocco Frascella
Lil' Crew
Stinky Butt & Bubbie- The boys who stole my heart from the very moment they were born. Watching you guys grow is one of the biggest honors in my life. I am so beyond happy that Tom is going to be your Uncle Tom. You should know he takes his duties very seriously, as I get asked if his baseball glove is in the car, if we have his goggles for swimming and all the other activities you guys play every time we are going to meet you. We cannot wait to watch you both continue to grow and be there for all of your stages. Please know that Aunt Mollie & Uncle Tom will always be here for you both. -M