You have received a direct invite to each event.
AirBnB is probably the best option.
We have to travel so please no gifts in person unless they are very small. There is a registry option for Kolanie that will ship directly to Nigeria if you are so inclined however your presence is gift enough!
Food and beverages will be provided at all events, including wine. Drinks or alcohol contributions of your choice are welcome! A « cash bar » option will be available on Friday and Sunday as needed.