Best Man
Blake is my brother and best friend. He has a quiet spirit (unless he's on the basketball court) that draws others to him. He also really hates being the center of attention so I have insured that he will be giving a speech with all eyes on him. What is a brother for? If you challenge and beat Blake in 1 on 1 basketball or Halo 3 I will give you $5. Limited time offer.
Maid of Honor
Grace is one of my earliest childhood friends. We've spent the majority of our lives together, from classes and playing three of the same sports together kindergarten to senior year, and fun travels whenever we get the chance ever since high school graduation. Grace is pure joy in human form. Her bright smile, charismatic nature and ability to chat with a brick wall draw people to her effortlessly. You couldn't find a more fiercely loyal friend.
Groomsman
Ryan is my cousin and great friend. We were the same year in school and pushed through k-12 with heavy reliance on one other. Ryan is one of the kindest, light hearted, and goofy guys around. He never fails to make me laugh. We also played soccer together growing up. You wouldn't know it upon meeting him but he did obtain the nickname "Red Card Ryan" after he punched a kid in the face on the soccer field.
Matron of Honor
Molly is my cousin and the closest thing I have to a sister. We spent our childhood summers together, forcing our parents to watch little performances we created; we spent the worst of COVID lockdown sharing a bed together (even though there was space to have separate rooms); and I couldn't imagine spending my wedding day without her by my side. She is creative, goofy in the best way and has a gift for beautifying life.
Groomsman
Brooks has a few distinguishing qualities. This part time space cadet does way cooler stuff than anyone else I know. He owns two companies, is a heli-ski videographer, skydiver, and currently obtaining his helicopter pilot rating. Brooks also has an ability to be the life of the party and have incredibly deep conversations all in 10 minutes, giving him the ability to connect with anyone he meets and show them the love of Jesus. Brooks is always pushing me to have more fun and take more risks and is a huge reason I am who I am today.
Bridesmaid
Taylor Ryan approached me during our first week of Pepperdine at Zuma Beach just to say hi, and we instantly became close friends. Taylor is human sunshine- one of the most constantly kind, caring and intentional people I have ever known. The cute little smartie pants literally cares for people for a living as a nurse at Children's Hospital in Dallas. Also, there are few people that can get me worked up into a silly, weird mood like Tay, which is my all time favorite mood to be in.
Groomsman
Ryan is incredibly humble and exemplifies the character of Jesus. He has this way of inviting people into his life and showing them how important and loved they are. He started and manages a multimillion dollar fund and is a full time youth pastor in Redondo beach. Engage Ryan in conversation at the wedding and notice the questions he asks you and what percentage of the time you spend talking. He cares way more about you than he does talking about himself. He also got barreled at Uluwatu.
Bridesmaid
Hannah and I first met as roommates in Pepperdine's study abroad program in London. The last two years, we've been roomies yet again, living in our cute lil Santa Monica apartment. This post-grad season of cooking meals together, working from home and figuring out our mid-20s has been incredibly sweet, primarily because of Hannah. She is incredibly thoughtful and intentional in every aspect of her life– she's the best gift giver, a driven travel PR girlie, and the kind of listener you want around when you've had a bad day. She's wise, confident and generous. The list goes on-- I love HP!
Groomsman
Jack's number one concern in life is telling people about who Jesus is and the power that faith in Him comes with. He is constantly reminding me of what we are on earth to be doing. Jack used to be in some really dark places with drugs. He wouldn't have escaped if it weren't for the Holy Spirit. If you're struggling with anything like that and don't know if it's possible to get out, chat with Jack. He loves to dance but he would WAY rather spend his evening helping you get your head above water and giving you hope.
Bridesmaid
I met Savannah the first week of school at Pepperdine– we sat by each other on the bus ride back from Zuma Beach and I was struck by how articulate and just.. interesting she was. I've been consistently struck by that ever since. Sav is passionate, an independent thinker, and always on to something new and exciting. At the same time, she holds her people close and loves them fiercely. Whenever I see her, I love to hear about what new topic is occupying her mind or what epic trip to the Middle East or an Indy Race is coming up. Life is never boring with Sav!
Funniest Groomsman
Skye has earned the very competitive title of Funniest Groomsman by unanimous decision. His quick wit and dark humor can be weaponized into lung busting for me sometimes. Skye has a double major in economy and philosophy with a masters in philosophy which makes for incredibly interesting conversation. In my current phase of life I spend more time with Skye than anyone else. We work from coffee shops together two days out of the week and I am pleasantly interrupted with Skye asking my thoughts on Universalism, Argentine inflation as it relates to bricks, and if I have seen X youtube video.
Bridesmaid
Before I knew my own name, I knew Hayden! We "met" as tiny babies and engaged in countless playdates before we even hit Kindergarten. After which, we attended Covenant and played all the same sports until graduating from high school. Hayden has such a confident, sparkling personality which I've always adored-- the root being that her identity is firmly planted in Christ. From camping with the Fox family as kids to years of soccer practices to standing by her side at her own wedding, I treasure this long-standing friendship and am so excited for more memories to come.
Groomsman
Brandon and I met in Kindergarden and he's has been eating all my mom's food ever since. He is a jack of all trades when it comes to athletics, which he constantly reminds me of through our 20 years of facing off in ultimate frisbee, basketball, volleyball, etc.. I've become okay with coming in second and he's a big reason for that. Brandon would like everyone to know he asked a girl out for me in 4th grade because I was too scared.
Bridesmaid
Waverly and I got to know each other as roommates during our freshman year at Pepperdine, the entirety of which we were attached at the hip. Pretty much every single one of my memories from my first year of college has Wave in it. She made the huge transition of moving away from home to somewhere where I did not know a single soul feel easy, because she immediately felt like family. Wave is an incredibly strong, smart and caring person. She's currently in med school (quite the ~pivot~ from her Art Major freshman year), because she felt called to help people.
Groomsman
Carter and I grew closest in our high school years. We bonded over dry humor and our similar demeanor. I've never seen him get angry and he's always in for difficult conversations. Carter is currently a Wall Street guy but just got into NYU for Law School with which he is hoping to impact public policy for the better. Maybe don't talk politics with him at the wedding, but if you're ever in New York you will need to grab a coffee with him and see how he is going to change the world.
Bridesmaid
Rachel and I became closest during our year abroad. We spent our sophomore year biking through Hyde Park, brunching in Notting Hill, and having the time of our lives running around London. In every season of life– from abroad to the following years of college to post-grad– I have been inspired by Rachel's faith. She is constantly, earnestly seeking a deeper relationship with God. This goes hand in hand with her characteristics of wisdom and peace, making her a very grounding presence to be around.
Groomsman
Adam and I grew closest in college when we were bunk mates. His consistent wisdom and humility through out college shaped my decisions. One night Adam and I were on our bunks falling asleep and Adam said "Spence, I think you and Mary Cate are too close. Y'all do everything together and spend so much time alone that if you eventually start dating someone else it'll be hard to change that friendship. I think you should distance yourself from her or consider dating her." Then I started dating her three weeks later. Thanks Adam.