It depends on which one of us you ask. We met through some friends in church, but there was also a case of mistaken identity and love at first (or was it second? or third?) sight. It gets a little complicated, and if you want the full version, ask Alex. His version is best. Mary Beth's version goes like this: He came to a young adult brunch she hosted at her apartment one Saturday morning. He seemed very nice and he laughed at her jokes.