When we first met he was married. It was a crazy day like all other days, but I didn't pay any attention to him for the simple fact he was married. As the years went on in 2018 he had gotten a divorce and on his birthday(july28th) we had started dating not realizing his age he had just turned 40. It all started with me posting stuff on Facebook about the relationship I was in and he was giving me advice and so I actually took it and me and the guy I was with broke up and I moved back to town and lived with my best friend and her kids and I was bored one day and wanted to have some company over some I waited till he got of work and he came and hung out with me, this was before his birthday, I was shy and didn't know what to say to him so he kept talking and then I started to open up more and found out he went to school with my family and used to hang out with my grandfather