Margo & Chethana
Traditions
Chuppah
The ceremony takes place under a marriage canopy (the chuppah) that symbolizes the home that Margo & Chethana will build together. The sides are open to show that friends and family are always welcome.
Poruwa
The Poruwa also represents a home. It is a beautifully decorated, elevated platform with four pillars and a roof. The four lamps at each corner are lit to illuminate the couple's steps into the future.
Kiddushim / Blessing of Wine
The first part of the ceremony is the reciting of the Kiddush, a blessing, which begins many Jewish observances and celebrations. We will use sparkling juice instead of wine.
Kiribath / Milk Rice
Chethana's mother will present a plate of kiribath (milk rice) to the brides, who will feed each other a piece. This act represents the love and care they will show one another throughout their marriage.
Sheva Brachot / Seven Blessings
Margo & Chethana will be wrapped in Margo's tallit (prayer shawl) while the seven blessings are recited, giving thanks to the beauty of the moment and the blessing of life. Each blessing will be written and read by close family members.
Sarana Bandanaya / Tying the Knot
A golden thread will tie Margo & Chethana’s little fingers, symbolizing the unity of marriage. Water is then poured over the couple’s fingers. Traditionally the ground the water lands on is a lasting witness to the union.
Breaking the Glass
The Jewish marriage ceremony concludes with Margo stepping on/breaking a glass. This ritual reminds us that love, like glass, is fragile and must be protected. When Margo breaks the glass, the ceremony concludes and everyone shouts "Mazel Tov!" (Congratulations!)
Breaking the Coconut
As the newly married couple steps down from the Poruwa, Chethana's uncle breaks a fresh coconut signifying auspicious new beginnings.
Ketubah / Jewish Marriage Contract
The legal contract of Jewish marriage was signed by Margo & Chethana, the co-officiants, and two witnesses in the presence of family and friends before the wedding.