FAQs

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WHAT SHOULD I WEAR?

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Formal Attire. We suggest that men wear a suit and tie in any color and women wear a cocktail dress/floor length gown, or a nice pantsuit.

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CAN I BRING A DATE?

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If you have a guest option on your RSVP, then yes! If there is not a guest option on your invitation, then we kindly ask you to not bring a guest. Our wedding is strictly RSVP only, and we only will be able to accommodate those listed on your invitation. We will not able to accommodate others that are not on our list. Thank you for understanding!

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ARE KIDS INVITED?

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Our wedding is an adult-only event. We respectfully ask that you make other arrangements for your children so we can celebrate with you!

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CAN I TAKE PICTURES AND/OR VIDEOS DURING THE CEREMONY?

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We hired Tom Russo and his amazing team to capture our special day! Although we appreciate your excitement and wanting to capture the moment- we ask that you respect our "unplugged" ceremony. We will make sure to share lots of pictures and videos with you after the wedding! If you would like to take pictures/videos before the ceremony or after during the cocktail hour/reception, please do so! Make sure to tag us and use our hashtag #TotallyTobey!