Kraig often tells me that he's so glad "he found me". This is not true! I had all but given up on finding a partner, someone to share life with, someone to love. Reluctantly and skeptically, I signed up for an online dating app. The app put the woman in charge, making only the woman capable of initiating contact. While it is true that Kraig 'swiped right' on me, he did not in fact find me! I found him! (This app was NOT Tinder).