FAQs
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Have you reserved blocks of rooms at one or more hotels?
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Yes, we have reserved blocks of rooms at our venue, details are on the Travel section of the site.
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What date should I RSVP by?
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October 1st
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How do I RSVP?
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RSVP on the RSVP tab of the site, you will be prompted to RSVP to the events you were invited.
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Do you have a registry?
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https://www.myregistry.com/wishlist/katherine-dougherty-and-alex-mezheritsky-brooklyn-ny/3506124/giftlist
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Where should we bring/send our wedding gift?
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Cards can be brought to the wedding, physical gifts can be mailed. Address is in registry or please contact Alex or Katie for the address.
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Is there a dress code?
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We are asking guests to wear semi-formal attire. There is a Semi Formal Examples section on this site that has examples if you need help visualizing. :)
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Will your wedding be indoors or outdoors?
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The ceremony, cocktail hour, reception and after party will all be indoors at the same location so no need to travel outdoors in between.
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What is the weather like in the area in early November?
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Cozy fall weather, (in Fahrenheit) 40s in the evenings and 50s/60s during the day.
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Am I allowed to bring my children?
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We're looking forward to celebrating our big day with you. Please note that our wedding is an adults-only event, with the exception of children in the wedding party. If you would like to bring your kids down with you to Cape May but not the event itself, the venue did give me the names of 2 babysitting services in the area. 1. https://guardianangelssittingservice.com/in-home-vacation-sitter/ 2. https://sittersattheshore.com/rates/
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Am I allowed to bring a plus one?
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Your invitation will be addresses accordingly if you get a plus one, or you will be prompted to provide your dates information when RSVPing.
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What type of food will be served at your wedding?
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You will be well fed! There will be pasta stations, a Tuscany table and passed hors d'oeuvres at cocktail hour. Followed by dinner (you will choose dinner when RSVPing). Dessert during the party. And some snacks to soak up the alcohol at the after party. :)
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Will there be meal options for guests with dietary restrictions or allergies?
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If you have dietary restrictions, please indicate that when RSVPing so we can ensure you are accommodated.
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Will there be an open bar?
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There will be an open bar for guests to enjoy throughout the cocktail hour and reception. The after party will be a cash bar.
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What is the wedding day itinerary for guests?
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4:30pm Ceremony 5-6pm Cocktail Hour 6-10 Dinner & Reception 10pm After Party
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What time should I arrive at your wedding ceremony?
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4:15pm ET
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What time will your wedding reception end? Is there an after-party?
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The reception ends at 10pm, there will be an after-party to follow at Hemmingways downstairs.
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Will there be other events to attend on the wedding weekend?
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Alex and I will be in town until Sunday 11/3, we will be gathering at local spots with others staying for the weekend.
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Where will wedding updates be posted?
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We will utilize the website announcement banner feature for updates.
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I have more questions about your wedding, who can I contact?
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Prior to the wedding you can contact Katie or Alex. Day of the wedding please contact Rachel Norris (MOH) or Denis Kaplun (Best Man).