FAQs

Question

What if I don’t own formal attire?

Answer

That’s okay! We won’t have anyone missing our wedding for lack of fancy clothes in vampiric colors. Feel free to reach out to the Bride for resources, or get creative with what you have. (But, for the love of god, please do not show up in jeans. Or khakis.)

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Do I get a plus one?

Answer

As much as we would love for everyone to be able to bring their someone, the nature of the venue has bound us strictly to no more than 50 guests. Because of this, only those to whom the invitations are addressed will be seated at our ceremony and reception. If this is an issue, please contact the Bride directly. Thank you for your understanding!

Question

You’re both sober — will your wedding be dry?

Answer

There is nothing we love more than having fun, and creating and providing an atmosphere of life, love, and celebration is our most cherished goal as we honor our union. As such, we will be offering bubblies, spirits, and mocktails of all kinds. Apollonian and Dionysian honored in equal! Make merry — do as thou wilt.

Question

This is so quick! Are you sure you don’t want to wait to get married?

Answer

Yes it is. And yes, we’re sure. Thank you for your concern, but love like this is holy, rare, and powerful. Like the Greeks said: gnothi seauton. And we know ourselves well enough to make this decision (and are grateful to all those who have nourished our love and celebrated our decision).

Question

I want to fly in, but need a place to stay. Can you help?

Answer

Yes!! I love you all, want you here, and will do anything to make that happen. Shoot me a text and we’ll talk!