Black-Tie Optional/Military Mess Dress I know... what does that even mean? Below is a link from Vogue explaining the most confusing wedding attire to ever exist! https://www.vogue.com/slideshow/dear-alex-black-tie-optional-wedding-dress-code In addition, we are requesting that members of the Armed Forces come in their mess dress attire. We recommend bringing a light sweater for the late night ocean breeze.
As this is a small and intimate wedding, we have reserved a space for the names addressed directly on your invitation. Please reach out with any questions.
We kindly request that your little ones stay at home as this will be an adults only affair.