Wedding Party
Lauren Murdy
Officiant
I mean, C'MON! Look at her! Where's the 'heart-eyes' emoji on this thing?! When I start to question if there is some greater, cosmic plan in this life, I am reminded of my friendship with Lauren. I met Lauren while taking a music class at college. I remember seeing her in class, admiring her style, and eventually, complimenting her doodling skills. I didn't think I would see her again on campus, but then, BOOM! OTHER class the following semester! This time, we exchanged numbers and enjoyed that semester's class as friends. But again, what are the chances we would stay friends? We only had the two classes together, AND we're on two totally different trajectories. Well, as the universe had planned, we ended up getting randomly assigned to the same dorm room the following semester, and have remained best friends ever since. How would I describe Lauren? You ever meet someone that's so f*cking cool, kind, funny, AND brings out the weird in you in the BEST of ways? That's her. - Allie
Leah Bowman
Matron of Honor
What is there to say about Leah? She's my best friend, she's my pal, she's my homeboy, my rotten soldier, my sweet cheese, my good time boy. I first met Leah during our middle school Social Studies class, and we've been inseparable ever since. I vividly remember the excitement I felt after meeting her, and how I rushed home to tell my mom that I had made a new friend. Through the years, we've shared countless experiences - from high school band practice to college exams, odd jobs, questionable apartments, and even adopting different pets. We've supported each other through tough times, including messy breakups and now, marriage. If I had to describe Leah to my wedding guests, I would say that she is like sunshine - radiating warmth, comfort, and humor wherever she goes. I feel incredibly fortunate to have her as my lifelong friend, and I know you will too. - Allie
Alexandria Spencer
Bridesmaid
Look at this cutie. She's nearly pocket-sized but she's spunky as hell. Alexandria is one of the most impressive people you'll ever meet. Life has thrown her some curveballs, but she always rises to the challenge with grace and strength. When I need a comforting and compassionate ear, she's my go-to. I've known this tiny beanie baby since pre-school; We've been through it all together, even rooming together in college. We could've drifted apart, like most childhood and college friends, but our friendship was meant to stay. I fully intend on being roommates with her again when we're old and grey, causing mischief at the local retirement home. I can't wait for you to catch her dance moves on the dance floor! - Allie
Jenny Bowersock
Bridesmaid
NO ONE has ever looked better in red than Jenny Bowersock! Jenny's smile and laugh are absolutely magnetic; You'll see what I'm talking about when you meet her. Jenny is unapologetically authentically herself, refusing to change who she is for anyone, and my God, is she so f*cking cool. I aspire to be a bit more like Jenny in that regard, but for now, I'll simply be thankful that Jenny and I have stayed friends for so many years. Like Alexandria, I've known Jenny since we were in preschool together. We lived just a few short blocks away from each other, and I spent a good portion of my childhood riding bikes, playing outside, and discovering new music with her. Jenny and I may not talk every day, but the moment we do reconnect, it's always as if no time has passed. For that, I'm eternally grateful for her friendship. - Allie
Chris Honefanger
Best Man
Chris has been my best friend for my whole life. Even on day one, he was happy to see me. This is all based on other people's stories, I don't remember due to my brain not being developed to retain long-term memories that day. There is a great picture of him wearing a blue hospital gown and holding my little pudgy ass. He was the cutest kid in the room that day because newborn me looked like a grandpa who just finished 12 hours of gardening. Growing up, Chris looked after me a lot. He has always been the kind of brother I could just talk to. We had our fights and occasional cage match, but we always made up pretty quickly. He was the guy I wanted to be like. We've lived together, worked together, and spent a lot of our lives together. I know if I need anything, he's there for me. Even when I make a giant mistake, he's got my back. He comes in and just helps, no questions asked. Even if he wasn't my big brother, he'd still be my best man. - Ben
Bartley Davis
Groomsman
I had the privilege of meeting Bartley Davis, a man with many talents, during my weekly performances at the open mic. Bartley soon became a dear friend, always present and supportive. He is a kind and honest person, with a passion for adventure and trying new things. Bartley has even worked in Antarctica twice, traveled extensively, and established multiple successful businesses. During a difficult time in my life, Bartley was there for me. We spent quality time together, attending shows, tasting delicious beer, and most importantly, he showed me compassion and care. I consider him to be like an older brother to me, as he is an exceptional individual. I am grateful that he agreed to stand with me on my wedding day. - Ben
Jake Zimmerman
Groomsman
Meet the remarkable Jake Zimmerman, who happens to be my brother and an EXCELLENT dog dad to the very fluffy and often confused, Ryder. Growing up, we knew exactly how to get under each other's skin, as only siblings can. Despite our occasional squabbles, I always knew I could rely on him to have my back. As we've grown older, our bond has deepened into a wonderful friendship, and I feel grateful to have someone like him in my life to share both support and laughter. I'm also grateful that Ben has found a friend in Jake, too. At every family game night, you can find these two mixing drinks, and trying to out-wit the other. - Allie
Jade King
Flower Girl
Meet our lovely flower girl, Jade! She radiates joy and positivity, just like the vibrant colors of a rainbow. She's the perfect embodiment of a flower girl and reminds us of the free-spirited flower children of Woodstock in the 60s. Jade's kindness and generosity know no bounds, always being the first to offer help and support. She and Jake are the perfect match, too! The moment Jake introduced us to Jade, we knew 1. She'd be a PERFECT addition to family game night and 2. She would be an incredible friend for years to come. We're so excited to have her as a part of our special day! - Allie
Wyatt Bowman
Usher/Whiskey-Wyatt
Aw heck - What a good boy! When Leah introduced me to Wyatt, it was apparent that there was an undeniable spark between the two of them. As you know, when a best friend introduces you to their new partner, it's natural to be a little guarded. Typically, you exchange pleasantries while your mind runs through a mental checklist, looking for any red flags that might indicate this person isn't right for your friend. But with Wyatt, all my concerns disappeared because his heart was in it. The love that Leah and Wyatt share is that cozy type of love - It feels so pure and genuine. I am thankful for Wyatt - He has my friend's heart, and nourishes it well. - Allie
Tom Zimmerman
Usher/Liquor-Lad
Introducing Tommy Zimmerman, the oldest sibling among the Zimmerman crew. Despite the nine-year age gap, I always admired Tommy as a cool older brother who I looked up to both for his guidance and because of towering presence. In our youth, we weren't very close due to the age difference, but I owe my fantastic music taste to him as I always listened to his CDs. As we've grown up, we've become closer, bonding over our mutual sense of humor and being there for each other when needed. I'm grateful to have Tommy as not just my brother, but also a great friend. Ben and I can't wait for him to join us on our special day, and keep an eye out for his impressive dance moves! - Allie