Aloha formal attire- everything will be outside in the grass, so plan accordingly!
We have a room block with the Aulani! We recommend booking by December if you're interested in staying there. There are also other hotels within Ko'olina which are nearby, but the Four Seasons Ko'olina is unfortunately booked out for our wedding weekend.
IF we have included them on your invitation, then yes! If not, then we're excited to see just you and look forward to meeting them another time!