They say you can’t find love in a bar. We decided to prove that theory wrong. When I saw her at The Social Club in Santa Rosa I quickly decided I would ask this girl to dance with me. Although she was just as quick to deny me I wouldn’t be shut down that easily. I stayed persistent and was motivated to prove I wasn’t just “another guy” trying to buy her a drink. She was quick to make me laugh and I felt she wasn’t just a regular at that bar. What really pushed this realization was the fact that after we had a couple dances, as well as the night seemed to be going she still wanted to go home. I persuaded her to stay out and we had a couple more drinks and continued to dance and learn more about one another. Then finally came the time when we had to say goodbye. I knew this goodbye wouldn’t be for long so I told her I’d see her soon. After 3 months of texting back and forth we went on our first date. We’ve been together ever since.