We met while working at White Deer Run Golf Club in Vernon Hills, IL. We both worked in the office, so it was easy to get to know one another. One day, I stole a child’s toy that Dave kept on his desk, photocopied it, and left a ransom note for a cheese pizza. Later on, Dave invited me out to lunch at Olando’s Pizza in Round Lake Beach, IL. Knowing that Dave owed me a cheese pizza, I accepted his invite and met him at the restaurant. We had a fun afternoon and went our separate ways. A few days later, Dave asked me out for drinks after work. He picked me up from my apartment and we went to Emil’s in Grayslake, IL. After some appetizers and drinks, Dave suggested we stop by The Vine a few places down. On the short walk from one establishment to the other, Dave grabbed my hand. I looked down in confusion as I realized these hangouts were dates and I had been completely oblivious. Looking back at him, I smiled and grabbed his hand back.