Cocktail, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it out a little. Also keep in mind that the evening will be spent on grass so sandals or wedges will probably work best.
We love your kids—we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off! If you need help lining up a babysitter to make that a reality, let us know!
If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.