Finally!!!!! We are getting MARRIED!

(Her story) It seems like forever ago! I still remembering hearing that obnoxious noise that came out of this loud crazy man that I could not stand. If anyone knows me I can’t stand people who have to be the center of attention and little miss thing wanted his attention. (Not only that he would wear a tank top to play softball). At this point we were never on the same team and I didn’t think twice about it. There was a few times he would try to say hi to me and I remember saying to him “please stop talking”. Thinking back to that moment I was so unnecessary rude. (It still makes me giggle). So the day came that we were finally on the same team and I remember him walking up to me with a stupid grin. He knew I would at least have to be nice to him right? We were in the same team, how could she be mean to me? Well he discovered quickly that it was very easy for me to ignore him. So what came next shocked a lot of people that night! He came up to me in front of what felt like 100 people and ask how he could become my friend. And I told him to stop talking, just be quiet, and then he smiled and looked me straight in my eyes “I will stay quiet for these two games”. “ I won’t say a word but if I do this then you have to be my friend, my actually friend”. I thought to myself this is going to be an easy win and I won’t have to deal with him ever again! Well it was my turn to be wrong. For the first time ever in his life he didn’t say one word for two and half hours. And keeping to my word I was nice to him. It took about a week before he decided to message me (he caught me at a week moment). We texted for about 3 hours before he told me this classic line “my thumbs are too tired from texting can I just call you”. What went from texting to calling turned into a movie date in my dads basement (we had no money back then) with in days. This is the famous line my dad always says “I’m still waiting for the movie to end.” We spent every second we could together from that point on. And only 96 hours after that first date “laszlo told me he loved me”. I didn’t believe in love at first sight or ever thought I would fall in love again. But I did and it’s been 9 years. I would love to say it’s been perfect but life has been hard. But our relationship has remained the best part. He is truly my best friend, my partner, my equal and my soulmate. I have found my person. I think my soul knew he was the one from the moment I saw him but my head and my heart weren’t ready for it so they told me to hate him. I understand that hate is such a strong word but that’s the only way I can describe it bc as much as I hated him in the beginning I love him so much more and it continues to grow.

Yes. I don’t shut up at softball, but I was able to hold it together for a couple hours. I had seen Gina a couple times at a game or crossing paths, but never talked. I pretty much know everyone, and some friends of mine pointed her out 🤔….. I knew she hated me but couldn’t pin point any of the possible multiple reasons why so I figured I would shoot my shot. For some reason there was a big hang out at the field from a game before so it seemed like there were 100 people. Being myself, I was still trying to talk to her as she kept ignoring me. I figured something so dumb, she may actually go for so I made “the bet”. (I was pretty sure win or lose I was going to win regardless 😉). We started talking…a lot, so to be fair i wasn’t trying to keep messaging so I asked for her number since my thumbs were tired. They really were. I think we were messaging for like 3 hours back and forth. The timeline is a little tricky on the next part, but I may have said I love you after 4-6 day. I tried to take it and “put it in my pocket for later” but the damage was done. I was thinking that I may be on the next episode of curved, but she stuck around. Little did I know that I would fall in love with Gina as well as her amazing son Tyler. 9 years later and all the tough times, struggles and shots from life, I wouldn’t trade a second of it because every moment being with them is amazing.