our wedding is cocktail attire. guys, you should wear dress pants and a dress shirt, suit, or something like that (you can skip the jacket if you'd like). ladies, think a cute dress or snazzy jumpsuit. just don't wear denim ;) if you want to wear neutral colors, we won't be mad. we live for the *aesthetic* also, you can totally wear black. we know that's kind of taboo for weddings, but we love it!
although we've had plenty of people ask this question, no it is definitely NOT halloween themed *insert laughing emoji here* something tells me that the groomsmen have something up their sleeves for the reception though
we have a strict guest list to stay on budget, and it's RSVP only. your family/date will be listed on your invitation and on your RSVP through this website. if you have any questions or think we missed someone, please don't hesitate to reach out!
we love your kids, but our wedding is going to be an adults-only event so that everyone can relax and enjoy the evening. we appreciate you making arrangements ahead of time and leaving the kids at home so you can celebrate with us!
our lovely venue is offering a valet service, so pull right up! they'll get you taken care of. it is a free service, but we're sure they wouldn't mind a tip if you felt led ;)
in an attempt to not overload our valet crew, we'd ask that you arrive 15-30ish minutes early (meaning 5/5:15pm or so). we want to make sure everyone is on time and we can get the party started as scheduled!
we're having an open bar! we'll be stocked with beer, wine, liquor, mixers, and soft drinks. although it is an open bar, we will have a tip jar for our hard-working bartenders. if you didn't bring cash, we're setting up a venmo account for them. show them some love!
we're having a delicious buffet of roasted chicken, smoked pork, mashed potatoes, green beans, and michigan salad – the whole nine yards. we're doing our best to accommodate some gluten free and dairy free options. if you have any questions, just ask!
we're registered at target and amazon you can click on the registry section at the top of this page or visit the sites listed above.
since we don't have a ton of out-of-town guests, we aren't providing a hotel block. however, there's an extensive list of hotels in the area on the travel tab of this site. if you party too hard, we highly suggest staying at one of the nearby hotels.