FAQs

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What’s the best way to RSVP?

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Please visit the RSVP section of our website.

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When should I RSVP by?

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By July 23, 2023.

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I’m visiting from out of town, what can I do in San Diego and La Jolla?

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Check out the things to do section on our website. We’ve listed some of the top recommendations here!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Yes! Please check the travel section of our website. We have a list of suggested hotels but we do not have room blocks reserved. Don't forget to check out Airbnb or VRBO for accommodation options in the area!

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Where are you registered?

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We are registered on Zola, West Elm, Williams and Sonoma, and REI.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The ceremony will begin at 4:15. Please plan to arrive by 4:00.

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Is there a dress code?

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Yes. The dress code is semi-formal. Tuxes and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses.

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Are kids welcome?

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Kids are welcome to all events, except our wedding ceremony and reception.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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La Valencia has a valet. If you prefer to park your own car, there is parking in the neighborhood around the hotel.

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What health and safety measures will you be taking during the event?

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We ask that all guests be up-to-date on their COVID-19 vaccines. We encourage testing prior to the wedding to keep all of our loved ones safe and healthy!

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Will the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception take place indoors or outdoors?

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It’s a mix! The ceremony will be outdoors, and the cocktail hour and reception will be in an indoors/outdoors hybrid space.

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What will the weather be like?

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We encourage you to check the forecast before coming to La Jolla. Daytime temperatures in September average 72 degrees during the day and 65 degrees at night.

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What will your wedding day timeline look like?

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This is subject to change, but for now our timeline is as follows: 9:00 am - Bridal ‘getting-ready’ room opens (family welcome) 11:00 am - Groom’s ‘getting-ready’ room opens (family and friends welcome) 4:00 pm - Ceremony begins 4:30 pm - Ceremony ends 4:30 pm - Cocktail hour begins 5:30 pm - Cocktail hour ends/guests asked to make their way to reception 5:40 pm - Grand Entrance/First Dance/Welcome Toast 6:00 pm - Dinner begins 7:00 pm - Dinner ends 10:00 pm - Wedding ends - after party begins

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How long will the ceremony be?

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We expect our ceremony to take about 30 minutes.

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I have dietary restrictions/allergies. What’s the best way to let you know?

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We have built a menu that we hope leaves everyone with delicious things to eat throughout the night. But please send Gabby or Andy a text if you have dietary restrictions (Gabby: 214-538-3081, Andy: 770-367-0212).

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What type of food and drink will be served during the cocktail hour and reception?

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We'll be serving passed hors d'oeuvres during cocktail hour, followed by a plated dinner and dessert. Premium cocktails will be available during cocktail hour and after and dinner. Beer and wine will be served during dinner.

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Will there be an open bar?

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There will be an open bar during the cocktail hour and after dinner, with beer and wine served during dinner.

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Will there be an after party?

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Yes! For those that would like to join, we might go to another nearby bar when the wedding ends at 10:00pm.

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Can I bring my gift to the wedding?

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Yes! Should you wish to bring a gift to our wedding, there will be a gift table for your convenience.

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What’s the best way to contact you if I have additional questions?

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Send us a text! Andy’s phone number is 770-367-0212 & Gabby’s phone number is 214-538-3081.

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I can’t attend the wedding - will there be a virtual link to the ceremony?

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Our wedding will not be live-streamed. We will miss having you there!