Maid of Honor
Sister, confidant, and forever friend "I consider myself incredibly blessed not only to have a sister, but to have a sister who is also my best friend. I cherish the memories of sketching out bridal gowns, perusing “Brides“ magazine, and acting out wedding ceremonies in our childhood. Now, all of your dreams are coming true! When I look at Tom and Erin as a couple, I not only see them as lovers or partners, but I see them as soul mates. Throughout your relationship, I have been your number one cheerleader and always will be! I feel so grateful to be able to stand by your side on the big day and forever!"
Best Man
Best friend, almost sibling, and first sleepover - complete with silver silky astronaut pajamas "Tom and I have been best friends since we were 2 years old, when my parents moved us down the street from his house. We went to daycare, elementary, middle, and high school together and had frequent sleepovers, hangouts, and our version of "LAN" parties over the years. I watched Tom and Erin's relationship start from afar while they were away at college, but over the past few years I have been so lucky to really see their relationship grow and turn into the incredible bond and partnership it is today. I am so excited to be there to support Tom and Erin on their big day and cannot wait to see what the future holds for them!"
Bridesmaid
Middle school bestie, Dolly Crew member, and music maker "In seventh grade, while bonding over a shared love of music, Erin and I became instant best friends, and we have been navigating life together ever since. She is a fiercely loyal and loving friend, and I am honored to stand beside her on her special day. After witnessing Tom and Erin’s love story unfold over the past several years, I am overjoyed to watch them take this next step in their commitment to one another.”
Groomsman
Golden Ram, South Campus roomie, and storyteller "Tom discovered Patrick in an abandoned asbestos mine under the ruins of West Chester University. Although the cryptid had proven to be wild, Tom decided it was best to keep the creature near - lest it roam free and cause more trouble. Over time Tom taught it to communicate in a manner resembling human speech. Their continued friendship has saved countless towns from the brink of oblivion and with the triumphant addition of Erin they shall surely save countless more."
Bridesmaid
Middle school bestie, fellow Swope Valley High alumna, and kindred spirit “Dedicated to both musical ensembles and life-long-learning in general, my friendship and sisterhood with Erin was strengthened through music. From middle school ensembles to the halls of Swope at WCU with Tom and Patrick, we have always shared a passion for advocating for all students, and I cherish our friendship every day. Erin and Tom are not only couple goals-but are truly each other's halves. When I think of the phrase 'I'm missing my better half' I think of them because they truly exemplify a supportive partnership. They both think of their other half first and love the process of growing together. Thank you both for kindredship and for including me in your special day."
Groomsman
Childhood bestie, Swope comrade, and fellow artist "Tom was the first friend I made when my family moved to Harrisburg when I was in 2nd grade. From making goofy homemade movies growing up, to living together in college, and to frozen banana contests, we’ve always been there for each other. Watching Tom and Erin’s relationship develop has been a beautiful thing, and I’m so lucky to get the chance to catch up with them from time to time in adulthood. I wish them, some of my closest, longest friends, the best in everything that is to come."
Bridesmaid
Middle school bestie, tabler, and adventure buddy “The day I met Erin I felt an instant connection like we had been friends for years! Staying up late during a girls night back in middle school started it all. Over the years, our friendship grew and Erin has always been someone I can go to for a good laugh, a wild story or a fun adventure. It has been so much fun through high school, college, and into adult life making endless memories together! I love her and I can’t wait for her and Tom to embark on their next adventure!”
Groomsman
Middle school bestie, life of the party, and loyal friend "Me and White Boy Tom have been friends since 8th grade. He has always been my inverse! One winter, I let him borrow my Winter Jacket as we made our way to Turkey Hill at 1 AM. He then fell in the snow and became Turtle Tom. While WBT was in West Chester studying Music, I went into the United States Marine Corps. Almost every trip I made home began with a trip to West Chester to visit Tom, and there I became friends with his amazing Bride-To-Be Erin. I love you both and wish you nothing but the best."
Bridesmaid
Childhood bestie, Golden Ram, and biddy extraordinaire “I have known Erin my entire life. I have grown through each stage of life with her by my side. We share so many memories together. Not only did we grow up next door to each other, but we also shared a dorm room in college. I got to watch Thomas & Erin's relationship grow over our years at WCU. Our college shenanigans are better left unsaid, or at least not in writing! I am forever grateful for the years of friendship, sisterhood, and countless memories – and this is just the beginning!”
Groomsman
High school bestie, Golden Ram, and roommate (thrice!) "I met Tom technically when I was a sophomore in high school. He came up to me telling me good job for the musical and knew who I was…and I had no idea who he was. The following year was when we got to become friends, and it has been a whirlwind of craziness since. I met Erin in college through Tom, and the three of us have had some amazing times together. The friendship that I have with the both of them is something that I will never be thankful enough for. I have gotten to see Tom and Erin’s relationship change and grow over the years, and I am honored to be a part of the next step."
Bridesmaid
Cousin, hype woman, and partner in crime "Not many people are as lucky as I have been to grow up with the most supportive, loving and hilarious family let alone have a built-in cousin, best friend, and someone to look up to like I have in Erin. Our childhood was nothing short of insane from making up dances to Missy Elliot in the basement, our obscene thanksgiving tradition, and making home videos which were extremely… creative, for lack of a better word, to ice skating at the park and learning how to ski, Sunday play dates, and so much more. I can’t wait to be a part in all that is to come as your dream wedding comes to life and watch you marry Tom, someone who couldn’t be any more perfect for you. Holy macaroni you’re getting married!"
Groomsman
High school bestie, Golden Ram, and game enthusiast "Tom and Alex first met in high school musical and quickly became friends through their love of music, pickup games of ultimate frisbee, and their general love of nerd things. Ever the bad influence, Tom soon became responsible for many nights that Alex only partially remembers, one of which led Alex to reconnect with his future wife. Nowadays, they enjoy playing Magic and Dead by Daylight and, of course, talking tech. Indeed, one can hardly get in a word edgewise when the conversation turns to technology and software development. Alex is honored to be one of Tom's groomsmen and he can't wait to be a part of the celebration."
Bridesmaid
Cousin, first and forever friend, and memory maker “Erin is my cousin, my very first and forever friend. We were born only two months apart and the rest is history. From diapers to adulthood, we’ve just experienced so much together - the happy and the ugly. I love when we overshare stories and, of course, share the best memories. Here are my top three: Sweating through the Appalachia heat on service trips in the summer; Spending our childhood in Perkasie exploring Lenape Park and swimming at Menlo; and celebrating literally everything together - birthdays, holidays, graduations, dog moms, new homes, engagements, weddings. I couldn’t be happier for Erin and Tom. It’s going to be a special day filled with joy and togetherness! Looking forward to all the memories that are yet to come!”
Groomsman
Bostonian roommate, fellow Greek, and Critter "Tom and Dimitri met through mutual music friends in Boston, and it didn’t take long for Dimitri to realize that they needed to be best friends. While it may have taken Tom a bit longer to reach that conclusion, he did seize the opportunity when Dimitri offered to become roommates. From Tom indoctrinating Dimitri into D&D to Dimitri dragging Tom out into the Boston nightlife, it was quite a time. It wasn’t long until Dimitri would unwittingly meet Tom’s future bride!! From there it was a whirlwind of life events. However, Tom and Dimitri would stay connected through it all. Tom would become Dimitri’s koumbaro (best man) at his wedding. To Dimitri, Tom is now counted as family and can’t wait to celebrate this family growing with Erin."
Bridesmaid
Middle school bestie, tabler, and travel partner "My path crossed with Erin’s several times before we finally became friends. First at the slide at Guth Elementary in kindergarten, again in 3rd grade at Sunday School, and finally for good in 7th grade English class. Since then, the two Erin Elizabeth’s have been an amazing balance of friendship – her passionate outgoing nature to my calm introversion. Through Middle School, High School, college and beyond, Disney trips and road trips, I’ve been lucky to witness Erin and Tom together. I am certain there is no other person more perfect for Erin than Tom, and I am so honored and excited to be a part of their special day!"
Groomsman
Adulting friend, Magic enthusiast, and bourbon connoisseur "I invited the guys to a party and I wanted to extend the invite to Tom as he was home on break. Unfortunately, auto correct messed up my message. Instead of saying 'Tom can come too' the message corrected to Tim. I didn’t notice until Tom messaged back saying 'Tom would love to come :)'. Not one to be called out, I referred to him as Tim the rest of the night. This joke has gone on for 7 years and has gotten so far out of control that the whole group now calls him Tim and he is introduced to new people as Tim. Huge congratulations to Tim and Erin! I’m so excited to be a part of your day, Tim!"
Officiants
Christopher Doulgeris and Alison Davis will help us as we tie the knot. Intensely creative and dedicated to honoring others, Christopher and Alison have been such role models to us as we talk about being true to ourselves on our wedding day and in our marriage. Christopher is Tom's cousin and has always been there for him, no matter the distance. His wife, Alison, brings laughter and light into our family. We thank them both for agreeing to craft a meaningful ceremony for this important occasion.
Groomsman
Golden Ram, Ng Studio member, and video game buddy "Even though Tom is one of my best friends, it was really Erin who kindled the relationship I have with them both. We all met as undergrads in Dr. Ng’s studio, became close through all the memories shared on South Campus and 622, and inseparable from the actual (insane) night of Tom’s 21st in Baltimore. After Erin graduated, Tom and I became roommates, bringing us even closer together. Once he moved on to Boston, I knew things would be different, but our friendship still remained strong. I am grateful to have watched these two grow together from the beginning, to be part of their wedding day, and to be along for the ride as they embark on their new adventure."