Mihkel and I met in high school. He was 2 grades higher and for some unknown reason, asked me to go to a concert with him. It went so badly that he did not ask me out again for 10 years. In our 20's, Mihkel asked me out again. I politely declined. After having not seen or spoken to each other in about 10 MORE years, Mihkel and I became friends again post-divorces, and about a year after that finally came to the realization... 20 years after our first date, that maaaaybe the universe kept throwing us back together for a reason and we should try dating. Needless to say, it worked out pretty well for the both of us.