FAQs

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Do I need to select a meal when I RSVP?

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Yes! After you find your name on the RSVP page, scroll down and click on "EDIT RSVP". You will be prompted to choose from 3 meal options for adults and 2 meal options for children.

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What time should I arrive?

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From 4:30-5 we will be offering appetizers and alcoholic as well as non-alcoholic beverages on the lawn where the ceremony takes place. Please allow time to find your way to a seat even if you don't plan to partake in the refreshments.

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Where do I go on the day?

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Once you arrive at the Resort, enter the Main Doors. There will be signs in the lobby directing guests to the lawn where the ceremony takes place.

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What should I wear?

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Our wedding is not black-tie but we would love to see our guests dressed up! Semi formal/Cocktail is the requested attire. **Please note the ceremony is outdoors while the cocktail hour and reception are indoors**

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What should I NOT wear?

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We ask that you do not wear casual attire ie jeans, t-shirts, flip flops, sneakers, caps etc. As always traditional bridal colors should be avoided ie white, cream, ivory.

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May I bring a date/plus one?

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Invitations will be addressed either to a family or to specifically named guests. Only guests receiving an invitation with "Name & Guest" have a plus one. We appreciate your understanding.

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May I bring my children?

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Yes you may bring your children. We ask for your respect during the ceremony and thank you in advance for promptly handling any disruptions or issues that arise. We will have two babysitters set up in a private room across the hall from the reception space for the entire duration of the wedding ie 4:30-11:30. The room will be set up with snacks, toys, and books. It is up to each guardian/parent if they wish to utilize the room/sitters. You may also leave your child's personal belongings in the room such as toys, activities that will not make a mess or leave a stain, pillows, blankets, etc. We do stress that each guardian and/or parent is ultimately responsible for their child's safety and behavior.

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What if I don't RSVP by the deadline?

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If we do not have your RSVP by September 1st it will be marked as "no".

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Can I photograph or film the ceremony?

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We've hired professionals to do that! While it may be tempting to pull out your phone, keep in mind that you're on camera too. We don't want our wedding photos/video to look like an ad for Apple! Be in the moment!