FAQs

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What colors can I wear?

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For Mehndi event- please wear bright colors. Shades of green, red, yellow or orange are traditional. For Wedding event- please avoid red or maroon. All other colors are okay. For Sangeet/ Reception event- please avoid white. All other colors are okay.

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Can I bring my children?

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While we adore your children, please check if they are listed on the invitation.

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If I am wearing western attire, what does "formal attire" mean?

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This dress code is slightly less formal than a black-tie wedding. So, a tuxedo isn't required, but can still be worn if preferred. If opting for a suit, however, a formal suit, button-up shirt, and a conservative tie or bowtie are acceptable. For women, the outfit choices include a floor-length gown, a fancy cocktail dress, or a dressy pantsuit.

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What is a lehenga?

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A lehenga is a two-piece outfit worn by women that includes a top (usually cropped) with a full, high waisted skirt and a dupatta that wraps across the mid-body.

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What is a saree?

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A saree is a long piece of fabric worn by women, often made of silk, that's used to wrap around the body.

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What is a salwar kameez?

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A traditional outfit worn by women that comprises of a pair of trousers (salwar) and a tunic (kameez) that is usually paired with a scarf (dupatta). This is recommended only for the Mehndi event.

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What is a sherwani?

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Sherwanis, often worn for formal events for men, offer an upscale, elegant look with their rich embroidery and heavier fabric. They are comprised of a longer jacket and pants. This is recommended for the wedding ceremony and reception.

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What is a kurta?

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Kurtas provide casual sophistication for men, making them ideal for relaxed social gatherings or low-key ceremonies. This would only be recommended for the mehndi event.

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Where can I find traditional indian attire online?

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Some sites that we have used before include: Etsy, Pernia's Pop Up, Cbazaar, Laskara, and Ethnic Plus. You can also buy from designers. Popular designers include: Anita Dongre, Sabyasachi, and Manish Malhotra. The biggest thing to watch out for when ordering online is the quality and fit. If you can get custom sizing that would help ensure it fits well. When looking for quality- look for heavy fabrics/ extensive detailing.

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Are there blocked rooms at the hotel?

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Yes! Our wedding will be held at a hotel so it would be very convenient to also stay at the hotel. We do have blocked rooms- when reserving a room ask for the rooms booked for the Desai Wedding.