FAQs

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What is happening?

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Ryan and I are getting married.

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Why is that happening?

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Because he said yes.

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Do you know this is overdue?

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Yup.

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Can I come to your wedding?

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Physically, no. Virtually, absolutely!

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Why not??????

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There is a GLOBAL pandemic.

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But I had my vaccine...WHAT GIVES???

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Awesome!! We didn't.

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Can I at least send a gift??

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AB. SO. LUTELY.

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Does me not getting an invite to be there physically mean you guys don't love us or we're not hip?

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Get a grip. Please see the 'Why Not' response above.

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BUT I NEED TO SEE YOU ALL IN PERSON! How do i do this???

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We're planning on a stateside post coronavirus get together for our best Judys and family. We dont have an exact date yet. Post coronavirus who knows what people are going to want to do. Will sweatpants replace the business suit? WHO KNOWS!

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Did you consider doing your wedding a different way than how you're doing it?

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You mean like a big party with all our friends and family? OF COURSE. That's not what we decided to do.

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Why are you eloping??

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We're not. Ever heard of an eloping website? Of course not.

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Is gay marriage even legal in Hawaii?

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Same sex marriage, or as we like to call it - marriage - has been legal everywhere in America since 2015 and Hawaii since 2013. Plus they have rainbows on their license plates.

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What is the link to join virtually?

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https://www.wedhawaii.com/ryan-and-corey

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OK. When should I RSVP by?

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No need! Just log-in to the live stream at the time of the wedding. Keep in mind the wedding is at 2PM in HAWAI'I. That's 8PM on the east coast.

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So where are you going to actually be standing?

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We are going to be at the Ho`omaluhia Botanical Garden in Honolulu, Hawaii.

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Can I bring a date?

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That is completely up to you. The more the merrier. #Socialdistancing

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(Whispered) Are kids welcome?

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Why did you whisper that? Its a wedding, not Folsom. Of course the kids are welcome.