OUR STORY We met on our job he was the culinary coordinator aka Head Chef. and i was working in administration at the same job. One day Ben asked me to help him with computers and the conversations began. I gave him my number and told him when he was ready for my help to let me know. A week later i entered the kitchen for lunch, he looked at me and said Claudia pescatarian right? i was surprised that he remembered but i was also impressed that he remembered. Later that month he asked if i would go clothes shopping with him because he wanted a woman’s point of view. That weekend we went shopping for his new wardrobe and after shopping he offered to take me to lunch and since i was a pescatarian we chose Red lobster. ( good choice). Once our food came to the table he reached out to hold my hand and say grace. omg he touched my heart, however i just wanted to be platonic friends. We continue to enjoy each others conversations. mainly over the phone. late night laughter and truth sharing was the highlight of our Platonic relationship. Now after 2 years later here we are preparing for our wedding Day and putting God first in this relationship.