FAQs

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What should I wear?

Answer

Semi-formal attire. Please dress up for our special day. Semi-formal attire includes cocktail dresses, jumpsuits, suit jackets and blazers, ties, and seasonally appropriate colors. Do not wear jeans. Do not wear shorts. Do not wear sweatpants. Do not wear athletic wear. It should go without saying... DO NOT WEAR WHITE! If you show up in white, you will be asked to leave.

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Can I take pictures/videos during the ceremony?

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In short, no. This will be an "unplugged" ceremony. We want everyone to be present and in the moment during this sacred time. We ask that you kindly turn off your phones during the wedding ceremony and refrain from taking any pictures or videos until the ceremony concludes. We have hired a professional photographer and videographer to capture the moments. We appreciate your cooperation.

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Can I take pictures at the reception?

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Absolutely! We just ask that you 1. Do not stand in the way of the photographer and videographer while they get their shots. 2. Refrain from posting any pictures of the wedding on social media until the bride and groom post first. 3. Don't stay on your phone for the majority of the evening.

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May I bring a plus one?

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Only if they are listed on your invitation. Due to capacity limits we have a strict guest list. Our ceremony and reception are RSVP only. You can only RSVP if you received an invitation. We will only be able to accommodate those listed on your invitation. Please do not bring extra guests. Please do not ask to bring a plus one.

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Can I bring my children?

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No. Due to safety and liability concerns, this is an adults-only (18+) event. The only children permitted are children that are a part of the wedding. Please make child care arrangements and enjoy your night off!

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Can I make a big announcement at the wedding?

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No, no, and no.

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Should I contact the bride with my RSVP?

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No. Do not contact the bride or groom with your RSVP or any questions about the wedding. Please contact Torrina, the day-of coordinator. Her contact information is listed on your invitation.

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What about COVID-19?

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We plan to follow local COVID protocols and protocols of the venue. Please be advised that depending on the situation, things may change. as we approach the wedding date. We reserve the right to add additional protocols and practices to ensure our safety and the safety of our family and guests. To be proactive, we ask that you order your free at-home rapid tests now at: https://special.usps.com/testkits If you have a problem with any of our practices, please feel free to not attend. We are not in the mood for arguing or debating.