We will unfortunately not be allowing children at the wedding due to space and invite limitations. 13 and older is fine however.
As we don’t always know a person’s relationship status at the time of invites being sent out, it is fine to add a plus one. As long as we are made aware of this by the rsvp date, they are fine with coming.
We are making the bridal shower available for everyone including children. This way everyone can come out to celebrate even if they aren’t able to for the wedding. We just ask to list their names on the rsvp to let the restaurant know how many people will be coming that day.