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The Wedding Website of Cailin Mayer and James Cook
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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by April 19th.

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Is there a dress code?

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We'd love to see our family and friends dress up with us! We are requesting black-tie optional attire. We ask that men wear a dark suit and tie or a tuxedo and women wear an evening gown or midi or knee-length cocktail dress. Our ceremony will be outside, weather permitting, so please plan your shoes accordingly.

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Can I bring a date?

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Due to very limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you received a plus one, they will appear under your name when you RSVP. Thank you for understanding!

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Are kids welcome?

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We love your little ones! However, we have decided to keep our ceremony and reception an adults-only event with the exception of our flower girl and ring bearer. We encourage you to use this evening as a date night!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please arrive between 5:00 pm and 5:20 pm as we promptly begin at 5:30 pm.

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Can I take photos/videos during the ceremony?

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We would love for all of our family and friends to be fully present in the moment with us, so we are having an "unplugged" ceremony. We ask that our guest silence/turn off their phones and refrain from taking photos/videos during the ceremony. Our professional photographer will take care of the photo coverage. You are more than welcome to take photos/videos during cocktail hour and reception!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Yes! For more information, please see the "Travel" tab.

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