FAQs
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Our Values
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Our love is rooted in justice and equality, and that will be at the heart of this event. Justice is love in action. Those unable to see and act in this manner are not welcome. We ask that our guests celebrate queer love and joy as normal, wholesome, and permanent, as any straight relationship. We respect gender regardless of presentation and we expect you to ask someone's pronouns and receive corrections graciously. We ask and invite you to embody anti-racist values by challenging internal thoughts and stereotypes about race. Please do not talk about your body or anyone else's in a negative way. Listen to your own body about food & alcohol consumption - there will likely be sober individuals and those in eating disorder recovery at this event. Those who cannot meet these expectations will be asked to leave. Our society is rooted in white supremacy, homophobia, and all manner of discrimination. One of the core values of our relationship is to dismantle these systems around and within us and to embody the future we would like to see. This is more than a social media post or soundbite for us - this work takes real time, action, and difficult conversations. We believe in the power of mutual aid, collaboration, and joy in our communities. We expect our friends and family to maintain these values at our wedding, but even more importantly we expect to be held accountable to them for the rest of our lives. Community is the answer our society is searching for. We thank you for being a part of our community. We are honored that you have chosen to celebrate our love and future with us.
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please let us know if you are able to attend no later than September 12th, so that we can plan for you and have an accurate count for our caterer!
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Are you registered? Where?
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Yes! You can find our registry here on our website, which includes our registry with Target as well.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Seating will begin at 3:30pm. Please arrive with enough time for you to find a seat.
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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?
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Yes! Our caterer will provide vegetarian, vegan, and gluten free options. If you have a specific allergy, please let us know and we will do our best to accommodate you.
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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Yes! The Eagan Community Center has a large parking lot with ample space for parking.