Heck no and please do not bring gifts. We welcome your memories and assistance in celebrating.
Can we all be adults or at least pretend that we are? Dress appropriately for mass and the weather as it's March in Cleveland. We don't judge.
Chances are you are related to someone in Cleveland so stay where you like. But given the volatility of family, if there's no room with your relatives, check out the lovely hotel and discounted rate at the Aloft, nearby in Beachwood.
Yourselves. And embarrassing photos particularly from the 70s as I am sure, our kids would love to see them.