There are a couple great spots near the church in Kirkwood such as Billy G's, Duffy's, or Amigos. There are also quite a few bars and restaurants that are walkable from the hotel. This includes Westport Social, Drunken Fish, Fuzzy's Taco Shop, Bar 360, Soda Fountain Express, Starbucks, etc.
Cocktail attire. I'm sure you will look great!
Kids are more than welcome to come to the ceremony, but the reception is an adults-only event.
Yes, there will be plenty of parking at the ceremony and reception.
Yes. The hotel provides a complimentary shuttle to Lambert Airport every thirty minutes starting at 5:30am & last pick up is at 10:30pm