Jarrett and Abi met through a mutual friend group at a Tin Caps game while living in Fort Wayne, IN -- although Jarrett was following Abi on the gram for months prior to ever laying eyes on her irl. The friend group hung out a few times before Jarrett built up the courage to ask Abi on a date. If you know Abi, she is pretty indecisive. So it took persistence on Jarrett's part to get the 'yes' for a date. Jarrett borrowed a friend's car and planned the whole first date himself. The car being clean and put together was very misleading from Jarrett's actual car, the Cobalt. Jarrett knew two things for sure about Abi before their first date, she likes animals and burgers. Jarrett picked Abi up in the very clean car, not missing parts of the door unlike the Cobalt. They went to mini golf, where Jarrett got his butt kicked by Abi, then Red Robin and then to see the movie Secret Lives of Pets 2. The first date went well which led to more and then at Fort Wayne's famous Corner Pocket, Jarrett asked Abi to go steady. How could a girl say no when a boy buys you Spicy Fired Green Beans without having to be asked! The relationship became official the day after Abi's parents wedding anniversary.