The Farmhouse


All-inclusive venue

The venue takes care of it all - food and beverage, rentals, the works!

Full wedding (ceremony and reception) pricing

Starting at $7,500 for off-peak dates, and $11,500 for peak dates

Catering services pricing

$120 per person for off-peak dates, with a minimum total spend of $6,000

Guest capacity

Up to 190 seated guests


About this venue

Conveniently located in Wilmington, Delaware, The Farmhouse is family owned and operated and hosts one event per day. The historical estate boasts a beautiful outdoor ceremony site underneath romantic willow trees & four acres of manicured grounds and gardens. Hosting up to 190 guests, the Farmhouse offers numerous indoor spaces for your event including the bright and open main terrace hall, indoor lounge and bar, dressing suites and more. Outside, a large wrap around deck and patio overlook the gazebo bar & gardens. The Farmhouse is proud to be a women-owned business, still managed by the fourth generation of the Murray family. As a small family-run business, the Farmhouse provides a personal touch and flexibility in hosting your dream wedding.


Our event spaces

Entrance & Foyer

Delaware's hidden gem.

Upon arriving at the Farmhouse, your guests will enter underneath a covered front porch, designed with ornate metal railings and overlooking our beautiful front walkway and gardens.

Guest capacity

45-190 Seated

45-190 Standing

Included in this room:

Double doors open to an intimate foyer area, with plenty of options to display your gifts, escort cards, and more.

Indoor Bar & Guest Lounge

The Farmhouse has both an indoor bar and an outdoor gazebo bar.

The indoor bar features dark wood accents, gleaming crystal glassware displays, and a large bar top for guests to spread out across.

Guest capacity

45-190 Seated

45-190 Standing

Included in this room:

Adjacent to the indoor bar, the guest lounge provides additional room for guests to mingle and adds to the intimate feel of the Farmhouse.

Historic Mulberry Room

There is plenty of space to seat up to 190 guests, utilizing both the Main Hall and the Mulberry Room.

The historic Mulberry Room is situated in the original section of the Farmhouse

Guest capacity

45-190 Seated

45-190 Standing

Guests often feel this space is

“Warm and cozy”

Included in this room:

The Mulberry Room features an antique brick fireplace, gleaming hardwood floors, and space for additional guest tables (if needed). The space can also be utilized for indoor portraits or other uses.

The Patio & Gazebo Bar

Located on the lower level of the patio, the gazebo bar is accented by cafe lights and features a full bar setup.

Directly outside the main ballroom, french doors open up to a wrap-around deck and patio that overlooks our gardens and two gazebos. Guests can mingle and enjoy the deck and outdoor space during the entire reception. The deck and outdoor gazebo bar are partially covered, allowing use of the space during inclement weather.

Guest capacity

45-190 Seated

45-190 Standing

Included in this room:

The outdoor tables and chairs provide the perfect spot for cocktail hour or after-dinner conversation. Bistro lights, up-lighting, and candle-lit lanterns provide a lovely ambiance.

Dressing Suites

The Farmhouse offers two separate dressing areas for the wedding party to utilize when getting ready and during the reception. ​

Upstairs suites: situated on the second floor of The Farmhouse, the main dressing room boasts an antique silver floor mirror underneath a beautiful chandelier, as well as an updated private bathroom. The adjoining room features a table and chairs, as well as more room to spread out. Downstairs suite: furnished with a leather sofa, television and table & chairs, there is also an adjoining private bathroom

Guest capacity

Up to 10 Seated

Up to 20 Standing

Main Terrace Hall

Dark wood chiavari chairs and round banquet tables add to its romantic yet modern rustic feel.

Expansive bay windows behind the sweetheart table provide a romantic backdrop for pictures of the wedding couple and countless views of the surrounding gardens. Airy french doors surrounding the dance floor open up to the large wrap-around deck with two pavilions and the outdoor gazebo bar.

Guest capacity

45-190 Seated

45-190 Standing

Guests often feel this space is

“Surprised and delighted”

Included in this room:

The terrace hall features cathedral ceilings, glimmering skylights, hardwood floors, pewter chandeliers and matching wall sconces. Gold baroque mirrors adorn the surrounding walls.

Room cost

Hall Rental Fee, depending on selected date.

Entrance & Foyer

Delaware's hidden gem.

Upon arriving at the Farmhouse, your guests will enter underneath a covered front porch, designed with ornate metal railings and overlooking our beautiful front walkway and gardens.

Guest capacity

45-190 Seated

45-190 Standing

Included in this room:

Double doors open to an intimate foyer area, with plenty of options to display your gifts, escort cards, and more.


Available services that can be provided by The Farmhouse

Services & amenities

  • Bar services
  • Catering services
  • Clean up
  • Dance floor
  • Dressing room / Bridal Suite
  • Event coordinator
  • Event rentals
  • Event staff
  • On-site accommodations
  • Pet friendly
  • Service staff
  • Set up
  • Wedding cake services
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Wifi

Transportation & access

  • Self parking - free
  • Shuttle
  • Wheelchair accessible

Accommodations

  • Room blocks offered

Reviews

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  • Fall Fantasy Came True

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    Courtney and N.Nov 25

    From the moment we first reached out, the team at The Farmhouse was responsive, clear, and professional in their communication. Their charming, elegant, and comforting venue provided the perfect backdrop for our special day. The staff's attention to detail and genuine connection with us and our extended family made us feel right at home. We couldn't have asked for a more perfect setting to celebrate our marriage, and we're so grateful to The Farmhouse for helping to make our wedding day so memorable and thank you to Laura who rocked this entire event for us! We could not have done this without you.

    Response from vendorNov 27, 2024
    Thank you for your review! We are SO happy you chose The Farmhouse to celebrate your wedding! Congratulations, it was absolutely beautiful!
  • Great experience for Oct 2024 wedding!

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    Lauren M.Nov 11, 2024

    We had a wonderful experience with the Farmhouse for our October 2024 wedding. Anna, our coordinator, was extremely helpful and responsive, and really put us at ease knowing that things would be taken care of. Our guests raved over the venue and really enjoyed the food and drinks. Plus, the landscaping is beautiful and we got some great photos!

    Response from vendorNov 12, 2024
    Thank you for your review, Lauren! Your wedding was beautiful! We're so happy you chose The Farmhouse for your wedding day! Congrats!
  • April 6th, 2024

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    J + W.Apr 24, 2024

    Getting married is one of the most important choices of your life and we are glad we chose to do it at the Farmhouse. There is no other place we’d want to play a central part of our wedding day. We knew the Farmhouse was special the moment we saw the gold plated mirrors covering the walls in the main reception area! From that moment on, it was clear the Farmhouse and their staff pay attention to detail and are incredible at creating special days and little moments for the couples they work with. We worked with Anna and were greeted with kindness, excitement, and openness to executing our ideas and aesthetics. Anna played a huge role in keeping our spirits high and making it an overall smooth and wonderful planning process. WE LOVED the space: outdoor, indoor, and separate rooms to break up the venue space was wonderful. It was much more intimate and exciting than some of the other venues we have been to that tend to only include one big room. We were happy to be able to float around and dance with our loved ones inside on the dance floor, chat with people near their tables or the various stations, go to one of two bars, or hangout on the deck or in the grass. We saw that a lot of the kids gravitated to playing outside with the games, leaving the party space to the adults. Some of the older individuals floated into the smaller rooms at times. The deck area was loved by all who needed to take a breath or cool off. We highly recommend this venue because it is great in that it gives something for all types of guests to do whether that be drinking, dancing, lounging, playing games, etc. The food was wonderful from our perspective. We asked some of the haters in our life what they thought out of curiosity and they all also loved the food. The Farmhouse did a great job at coordinating with all of our vendors, ensuring we were all in the same area. Our guests complimented the outdoor space, greenery, staff kindness, and experience. Many asked how we found this “hidden gem.” We will never ever ever stop recommending xoxo Jaycie Hricak and Walter Kirby, April 6th, 2024 newlyweds!

    Response from vendorNov 12, 2024
    Thanks again, Jaycie & Walt! We loved your Farmhouse wedding!!! Congratulations!
  • Excellent Venue

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    Elizabeth Jan 25, 2024

    I absolutely love this gorgeous, historic venue in Wilmington! This might be my favorite venue in the area. The reception & ceremony area are a perfect balance of rustic yet refined. The owners & staff are very professional and have everything running smoothly. I highly recommend this venue!

    Response from vendorNov 12, 2024
    Thank you!