You know the old saying: cash is king. Continue reading for everything you need to know about having a cash wedding registry.
Last updated September 10, 2024
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You know the old saying: cash is king. Well, when it comes to a cash wedding registry, this rings truer than ever. A cash registry has become an increasingly popular option, and there are a lot of advantages to it. If you’re considering having one or are in the process of setting one up, our guide to having a wedding cash registry will help you with all aspects, including the delicate etiquette rules you need to know.
When it comes to wedding planning, the conversation every modern couple eventually turns to is what will be on their wedding registry. For many, this is the most fun part. You get to pick out a wide range of items you both want and need. But what if you already have everything you need?
A cash registry is just what it sounds like:It's aa money-based registry. The money is designated to a specific goal that the couple has: a honeymoon, home down payment, or even charitable donations. The choice is yours!
Zola offers one of the best registries out there, and it comes with various easy-to-use features. It allows you to ask for a variety of gifts, such as cash, a honeymoon fund, and even physical gifts, making it the trifecta of wedding registry websites. It is easy to use, and once it's up and running, your guests can simply go to the website and search for you.
If you don't already have a wedding registry with Zola, setting it up is simple. Then add a cash registry option and honeymoon registry. Wedding guests can contribute to your traditional gift registry or you can receive cash from them. Having multiple cash wedding registry options is easy with Zola—you can even registre for gift cards, and folks can pay via credit card.
Usually, couples create a profile through a gift registry service, like the ones that Zola offers. Once the profile is set up, the couple will input information, including their financial goals. Whatever the goal of your cash registry is—from home renovations to a honeymoon fund—setting it up is the next big step. Zola offers a variety of great options. By answering just a few quick questions (name, wedding date, cash money goal, etc), your registry will be up and running.
Today many couples are older and have lived together prior to marriage. As a result, they may already have the big household items they need. Part of this shift may also have to do with a change in people asking for what they need versus what they want. Having a cash registry can help potentially alleviate some financial issues like student loan debt. Social media and the popularity of traveling is also a possible motivator. Many couples want to travel and see the world before settling down to have a family.
It's very important that you and your partner have a conversation about this, so you’re on the same page. If you’re unsure about what you might want to use your registry for, don't worry.
For example, purchasing a new home, doing home repairs or building a cash reserve are all valid reasons to ask for cash as a wedding gift. Other times, couples choose to use the money from their cash registry to fund wedding day-related expenses, like the dress, wedding venue, and wedding vendors.
Once you've made the decision that you want to move forward with a cash registry, there are a few things you should keep in mind. Some people think asking for money can come across as rude or uncomfortable, but cash wedding gifts are more common than you might think. Still, you’ll want to follow the right etiquette when requesting monetary gifts, so follow our dos and don'ts below.
The sky's the limit. The average wedding guest spends anywhere from $100-$500. That's a decent amount of money, and depending on how well the guest knows you, they may even spend a bit more. While traditional gifts are great, being able to take that money and put it towards something you really need or want could be even better.
Verbiage is important. So, depending on your personalities, use the following cash registry wording options as a springboard to pad your bank account or save up for something.
Being transparent about what you intend to use the money for is important and will also make your guests feel included. However, your guests choose to give money, whether it be cash, electronically, or via check, it may all feel a bit impersonal. To avoid that, being transparent about what the money will be going towards will make your guests feel included. And be sure to give updates via your wedding website.
Remember to be polite. You never want to ask for gifts or cash anywhere on your wedding invitations—it will come off as rude to your guests. This also includes any mention of your registry in general.
Instead, you can have a link to your cash registry on your wedding website. The most polite and efficient way is to include the address of your wedding website on the invitation or include it as an insert. This way guests will have a hub of information for all your wedding updates that will also clue them into what you are doing gift-wise.
When you’re setting up your cash registry, it’s important to get everyone on the same page, including your parents and bridal party. When it comes to getting the word out to the rest of your guests, however, this may take a little more finessing.
One of the most delicate approaches is to ask your parents to let guests know what you want. The odds are guests will ask your parents and members of your bridal party what you want, so having them be in the know about your cash registry will really help move things along. Clue this group into what your goal for the money is. This way they can explain to guests why you’re asking for monetary gifts.
For some couples, having a completely cash-based registry may not be the way to go. If you find yourself in that position, that's fine. Plenty of people do a combination of both.
It can also offer you the best of both worlds. If you’re trying to save up for something big but also still really want specific gift items, doing a hybrid may be the best solution. It also offers a middle-of-the-road approach for some people who are uncomfortable with just asking for money. And for guests and relatives who may have an opinion on an all-cash registry, this also gives them more options to consider.
Using Zola's wedding registry system to set up your cash registry is fast and easy. You can choose what your funds are going towards, allow people to give various amounts, and include updates about your wedding all in one place.
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