Sandy met Ray at a mutual friend’s house on an unassuming night filled with casual conversations and laughter. Ray was drawn to her immediately, and a few weeks later, he invited her out for his birthday. Sandy, intrigued by Ray’s persistent yet easygoing charm, decided to go. Their first date was at Pacific Catch, where Ray’s energy lit up every moment. Afterward, they stopped by the Continental Bar before ending the night at VIP, a cozy Korean bar. Each step of the evening felt like an adventure, thanks to Ray’s infectious enthusiasm and constant effort to make Sandy smile. Though Sandy had her doubts, Ray kept showing up, always finding ways to see her and make her laugh. He was persistent but never pushy, gradually winning her over. Eventually, Ray surprised Sandy with a spontaneous trip to Disneyland, turning an ordinary Tuesday into a magical escape. They spent the day riding roller coasters and sharing laughs, but it was back in the quiet of their hotel room after a long, magical day that Ray finally asked Sandy to be his girlfriend. In that intimate moment, away from the crowds and excitement, Sandy said yes, touched by the thoughtfulness and care that Ray had shown her. Eight years into their relationship, Sandy and Ray had faced countless ups and downs, overcoming roadblocks that tested their bond. On this year, they planned a random trip to Kona, Hawaii, with some of their closest friends, just hoping for a fun getaway. On one of the evenings, Ray arranged a sunset boat trip on a catamaran. As Sandy enjoyed the beautiful views, she thought it was just another memorable moment with friends. But as the sky turned shades of orange and pink, Ray surprised her once more, dropping to one knee during what she thought was just a photo op. With their friends cheering around them, Ray asked Sandy to marry him, turning a simple trip into one of the most unforgettable moments of their lives. Now, ten years later, Sandy and Ray are more in love than ever, grateful for every twist and turn that brought them here. What began with Ray’s steady pursuit blossomed into a beautiful partnership, proving that love, when nurtured with patience and a bit of persistence, can lead to the most extraordinary moments.
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Hotel
If you’re looking for a hotel near the venue, Hayes Mansion is about 10 minutes away.
Matron of Honor
Sandy’s older sister of two years. Sandy is excited to have her a part of this new journey!
Maid of Honor
Sandy’s ride or die best friend since high school, over 20 years of friendship!
Bridesmaid
Sandy and Lauren went from being peers, working as make up artists at Sephora to long time friends of almost 10 years!
Bridesmaid
Sandy met Jen in 2019 through one of Ray's longtime friends, and over the years, their friendship naturally blossomed!
Bridesmaid
Sandy met Vanessa through working as peers at Sephora. 8 years ago Sandy attended Vanessa’s wedding and 8 years later Vanessa is now a bridesmaid for Sandy’s wedding!
Bridesmaid
Sandy and Sabrina met through Sephora in 2018 and quickly formed a friendship. 6 years later Sandy is excited to have her as a bridesmaid!
Best Man
Ray’s younger brother of 4 years
Groomsman
Ray’s closest cousin
Groomsman
Ray’s future brother-in-law
Groomsman
Ray met Taylen through coworkers 13 years ago and have been close friends ever since
Groomsman
Ray’s car wrenching buddy of almost 20 years
Groomsman
Ray’s high school friend of almost 20 years
Groomsman
Sandy introduced Eugene to Ray when they first started dating. They’ve been close friends ever since
Officiant
Ray met Steven through coworkers 13 years ago and the godfather of his daughter Savannah
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Ceremony begins at 4:00pm doors will open at 3:30pm.
Parking will be available at the venue. There will be an open lot right in front of the venue entrance. No cost or shuttles needed for parking.
Reception will begin at 5:30pm
Yes! Drinks on us but please drink responsibly!
Cocktail hour begins at 4:30pm.
Dress to impress! We request to see you in your best formal wear! You may wear any color, but please no white!
We have hired an amazing photographer named Josh. He will be there to capture all the moments of the ceremony! We do kindly ask that phones be put away during the ceremony. Feel free to take as many photos/video once the ceremony is finished!
Due to limited space at our venue. We are only able to accommodate those formally invited. If you receive a plus one, it will be noted on the invitation.
We love your little ones! However, due to the limited space at our venue we have decided to keep our wedding adults only. We encourage you to use this as a night to get out and have some fun!
Please make sure to RSVP "yes or no" by January 1st, 2025. This allows us to give our vendors a correct count prior to the wedding.
Your presence is more than enough! However, if you wish to gift us something we would appreciate any help towards our honeymoon. Click on the registry tab to learn more!
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