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How should I get there?

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We recommend flying into SFO and renting a car, then driving up Highway 1 to where you’ll be staying.

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How far is it?

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The venue is a roughly 3 hour drive from SFO or OAK airports. Most of the time is spent on the winding (and beautiful) road along the coast.

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What time of day should I get in and leave Gualala?

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The short answer: try to drive in/out during the day time while it’s still light outside. The stretch of highway entering Gualala can get quite dark and foggy at night.

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What temperature should we expect for the ceremony?

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The wedding itself will be outdoors in the daytime when it’s warmest, and we will also have heaters available. However, the coastal weather and breeze may become chilly on a moment’s notice. Please take along a jacket or extra layer with you especially if you get cold easily.

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Do I have to attend all the events?

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No, we do not insist that you attend every event over the weekend. We hope that you come for at least the Ceremony and Reception to celebrate our union with us. Everything else is completely up to you. We understand if you cannot or decide not to attend any of the other optional events and we don't love you any less for it.

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Is there a discount at any of the hotels?

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We partnered with Hotel Breakers in Gualala for a special fixed rate of $215/night. They'll be automatically upgrading all the rooms booked by our guests until supplies run out. If our wedding guests end up booking all 24 rooms of the hotel, then you might end up with a "standard" room rather than an upgraded one, but all the rooms are nice. Otherwise, there are 3 other hotels within a 5 minute walk of Hotel Breakers that are under $200 a night: Gualala Country Inn, Seacliff Motel, and Surf Motel. Please see our hotel notes and recommendations under the "Travel" section. Also if you team up with others we believe there are many nice options on AirBnB for groups at very reasonable prices (starting at ~$42/person per night based on 4 people staying together).

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Is there parking at the venue?

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Yes, the venue can accommodate about 50 vehicles. Based on RSVPs we do not foresee any complications with parking. We understand if you prefer or need to have your own vehicle at the venue, and it shouldn't be a problem. Please plan to arrive a little earlier as there is only one driveway in and out of the venue and parking area. We encourage you to consider carpooling with other guests staying in the same lodging as you to help reduce potential congestion in the morning.

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Is there a shuttle service to the venue?

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There is no shuttle service from the Bay Area. From Gualala, based on the answers from the RSVP we will book a roundtrip shuttle from Hotel Breakers to the Wedding Venue. SHUTTLE UPDATE: After much consideration and input, we will not be able to provide a shuttle to the venue. Don't worry, it's not far! Just a quick 15 minute drive which is made even shorter when carpooling with others! Please arrive to the venue early to alleviate traffic congestion and in plenty of time for the ceremony.

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How can I communicate with other wedding guests?

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We have a Slack group! Talk to other guests and coordinate with others who will be traveling to Gualala for the weekend. Carpool together, split a room, or plan the weekend. Don't be shy, nobody bites much. Please go to "Things to Do" and click on the "view" button to automatically join the slack channel.

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I really can't wear my stilettos?

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We fully believe in everyone being able to do exactly what they want but the entire venue is hard-packed soil at best. At worst you'll find yourself on grassy meadows or exploring a redwood grove with woody debris ground cover. You don't have to go full hiking boot by any means but we really recommend sticking to comfortable sandals, platforms, oxfords, espadrilles, or wide-heeled heels.

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Is there cellphone reception?

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NOT MUCH. It is spotty at best but it's more likely that you won't have reception. There is some closer to the main house on the property and on the road. If you need network access while celebrating with us we, you can connect to the WiFi near the main house. We will have the credentials posted for your convenience and this area is easily accessible at any time.

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Can I stay at the venue between the reception and the bonfire?

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Sure! But we recommend you bring a change of clothes and shoes with you as no matter how nice the day is it will get chillier. You are welcome to continue playing lawn games, enjoying the property, and taking in the views. The family is staying in the main residences on the property and unless they invite you to hang with them during the break, there will not be any indoor space available to guests. We're creating an outdoor lounge area to kick back in but there will be no food and drink service after the formal festivities end. Guests will still have access to refreshments and treats. The bride and groom won't be available to socialize during this time.

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Will there be a need to drive around during the day?

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All events on Saturday (ceremony day) will be held at the same venue, so there will be no need to drive from location to location between the ceremony to reception etc. You will need to drive to the venue from where you're staying in town unless you carpool with another guest. Please be aware that Uber (and cell reception) are sparse in Gualala! One caveat is: if you are planning to join us for the bonfire at the venue in the evening and plan to leave and come back between the main events, you will also need to drive or arrange transportation to/from the venue then as well.