*The location of our Rehearsal Dinner has changed to Prominence in Windham, NY.
Laura Alexander
Cara Silverman
Laura Alexander
Cara Silverman
September 28, 2024
Schedule
Saturday, September 28, 2024
Ceremony & Cocktail Hour
4:00 pm - 6:00 pm
40 Princess Nauvoo Rd, Windham, NY 12496
Semi-Formal: Suits and dresses are welcome. It is HIGHLY recommended to wear flats with good traction. The wedding is at a Lake House surrounded by nature and there may be slippery surfaces. We are also kindly asking our guests to wear Fall / Autumn colors. Layers are also encouraged, as the temparture may drop when the sun goes down
Our ceremony will begin at 4pm, directly followed by a cocktail hour with some apps and light bites.
Reception & Celebration with Dinner
6:00 pm - 11:00 pm
40 Princess Nauvoo Rd, Windham, NY 12496
Semi-Formal: Suits and dresses are welcome. It is HIGHLY recommended to wear flats with good traction. The wedding is at a Lake House surrounded by nature and there may be slippery surfaces. We are also kindly asking our guests to wear Fall / Autumn colors. Layers are also encouraged, as the temperature may drop when the sun goes down
Let's get the party started! We will have lots of yummy food, speeches, dancing, some surprises and we cannot wait to make epic memories with all of you!
After Party!
Sat, Sep 28, 2024, 11:00 pm - Sun, Sep 29, 2024, 2:00 am
40 Princess Nauvoo Rd, Windham, NY 12496
*Please let us know if you think you'll be around for the after party so we can plan accordingly. We will have some late night bites and surprises :) Thank you!
Sunday, September 29, 2024
Brunch & Recovery Day
11:30 am - 3:30 pm
40 Princess Nauvoo Rd, Windham, NY 12496
VERY casual - we want everyone to be as comfortable as possible after our big fancy day. Onesies & pajamas are encouraged!
This is meant to be as exactly as it sounds - a very chill recovery day. We are HIGHLY encouraging our friends and family to consider staying until Monday to take in the beauty of the Catskills and of Windham, NY. You can hang with us at the Lake House or go out exploring after brunch, or even head home if you must, but would love for you all be able to unwind and take in the beautiful surrounding nature. We may bring in some massage therapists for some extra relaxation following brunch and ask that you bring cash with you if you plan to partake. Thank you!
Travel
Hotel
Hotel Vienna
Hello Cherished Guests! We are excited to celebrate with you this weekend. We hope you'll enjoy all of the beauty that Windham and the Catskills has to offer! We are strongly encouraging folks to extend their stay to a long weekend to explore and take it all in. Enjoy! Love, Cara & Laura
Discount Code - SA24
Hotel
Kaatskill Mountain Club
Hello Cherished Guests! We are excited to celebrate with you this weekend. We hope you'll enjoy all of the beauty that Windham and the Catskills has to offer! We are strongly encouraging folks to extend their stay to a long weekend to explore and take it all in. *We will have a shuttle pick-up & drop-off for this location the day of the wedding. More info will be shared as we get closer. Enjoy! Love, Cara & Laura
Discount Code - SHUSIL24
Hotel
Beds on Clouds
*We do not have a discount here but the rooms are SUPER whimsy and the prices are pretty reasonable - limited space, so book soon!
Discount Code - none
Hotel
Wylder Windham
*We do not have a discounted rate here and these rooms are a bit pricier than the others, but including as an option for anyone who may be interested!
Discount Code - none
Flight
The nearest airport to Windham is Albany (ALB) Airport which is 37.9 miles away (1h + 15m drive).
*If coming from out-of-state, it's highly recommended to get a car rental for the weekend to get around more easily.
Train
The closest train station from NYC is in Albany, NY.
If coming from NYC and you don't want to drive the whole time, you can catch a train NY Penn Station in NYC. It takes about 2h 30min by train and should run hourly. You will arrive at Albany-Rensselaer Amtrak Station, which is about an hour away from Windham, NY. The train should cost about $27–95 USD. Then, you will either need a car rental or take a taxi from there.
Travel Note
Local Taxi Information
*Please note, Lyft, Uber and other ride-sharing apps are NOT readily available in the area. There are also not many local taxi services. If you happen to miss the shuttle or want to taxi instead, you must call and book in advance. Direct phone number (texting also works): 518.331.7564
Things To Do
Breakfast by Albergo
The best breakfast around!
Catskill Mountain Country Store - Windham
A charming local spot open for breakfast, lunch and dinner. Open for brunch on Sundays and Mondays!
Julia's Local
Seasonal classic American cuisine ~ with a Scandinavian twist ~ meets favorite family recipes at Julia’s Local, a new restaurant in the northern Catskills.
Millrock Restaurant & Bar Room
One of the best local eats open only for dinner
Alpine Spa At Windham Mountain Resort
Enjoy a spa day at the best local spa around!
The Windham Path
A nice, easy hike to take in some of Windham's beauty. The Windham Path is a family-friendly public 1.5-mile looping trail located off Route 23 just outside the village of Windham. An additional parking lot is located on Route 296 near the intersection of South Street. A third of a mile trail connects the two pathways. The Windham Path provides access to the pristine Batavia Kill stream in Windham. The trail roams through peaceful fields along the woodlands and streams and provides picturesque views of the Great Northern Catskills.
Five State Lookout
Panoramic 5 State Lookout along the Mohican Trail, Rt 23. An area maintained by New York State, views of the Hudson River Valley and 5 states. On a clear day, the panoramic view from this location encompasses the White Mountains of New Hampshire, the Green Mountains of Vermont, the Berkshire Mountains of Massachusetts, the Helderberg Mountains of New York and the Connecticut Valley.
Mountain Brook Farm
This beautiful and unique property has been family owned and operated for over 150 years. The standing barn was built in 1918. It was the first of it's kind at the time, holding twice the head count of other nearby operations. The farm is located in the Northern Catskills, 7 miles from Windham, NY. Residing on over 600 acres and bordered by the Ashland Pinnacle State Forest and Huntersfield State Forest. Beautiful pastures on hilly canvas, with wildflowers and dandelions speckled about combined with the sound of running water around every bend and all the rich aromas that this landscape offers. These things come together to ground you and draw you in, leaving an unforgettable and one-of-a-kind impression!
Mountain Top Arboretum
Mountain Top Arboretum is a public garden in the Catskill Mountains dedicated to displaying and managing native plant communities of the northeastern US, in addition to curating its collection of cold-hardy native and exotic trees. Its mountain top elevation of 2,400 feet at the top of the New York City Watershed creates a unique environment for education, research and pure enjoyment of the spectacular and historic Catskills landscape. The Arboretum trails and boardwalks connect 200 acres of plant collections, meadows, wetlands, forest and Devonian bedrock—a natural sanctuary for visitors interested in horticulture, birding, geology, local craftsmanship & hiking!
Elm Ridge Wild Forest
The 1,355-acre Elm Ridge Wild Forest is located in the northeast corner of the Catskill Forest Preserve. The unit contains a 1.5-mile portion of the Escarpment Trail, the 1.1-mile long Elm Ridge Trail, and numerous other trails totaling more than 25 miles available for multiple uses, including hiking, cross-country skiing, and mountain biking. There are two parking areas that serve the unit, one on NYS Route 23 to the northwest and the other at the end of Peck Road to the south.
Kaaterskill Falls
A magical must see!
The Vineyard At Windham
Enjoy a day at a local winery - cheers!
Windham Fine Arts
Check out, and maybe buy, a piece of local art!
Wedding Party
Alan Silverman
Father of the Bride
Alan is Cara's Father. Cara is grateful to have such a supportive dad with such a lively sense of humor. Once you have a conversation with him, you will see where much of Cara's silliness comes from. He's also passed along to Cara her work ethic, sense of adventure and hippie spirit.
Alfred Alexander
Father of the Bride
Al is Laura's father. Laura has looked up to her dad since she was a child. He has passed on to Laura his values, including work ethic, morals, kindness and creative problem solving.
Judy Alexander
Mother of the Bride
Judy is Laura's mom. Laura grew up looking to her mother as a role model. Laura's love of cooking, love for animals and love of flowers have all come from Judy.
Jen Silverman-Van Treese
Best Human
Cara's biological sister & one of her Best Humans. Having [literally] been in Cara's life for all of it, she has been there for every major milestone and challenge. Cara is incredibly grateful to have such an amazing sister to stand by her side on her wedding day, and throughout life.
Stephan Keating
Best Human
One of Cara's closest friends and her 2nd Best Human. Cara met Steve under a disco ball on a dance floor and couldn't see his face but was feeling his energy and they instantly became friends. Since then, they've realized they share a brain and a soul and have a beautiful, close friendship.
Matt Rogers
The Best Matt
Matt is Cara's longest & oldest best friend. They have been friends for about 25 (?!) years and have seen each other through some of life's roughest moments. Matt is an honorary Best Man - AKA the Best Matt.
Andrew Alexander
Best Man
Andrew is Laura's brother & Best Man. He has been there for Laura since day one, and continues to be there for her. As one of the most important people in Laura's life, it was important for him to be by her side on her wedding day.
Elliott Spencer VanTreese
Ring Security
One of 3 nephews, and the oldest, of our amazing Ring Security Team. Elliott lives up in Buffalo with his mamas and loves Mario Kart, slimy/gooey things, Ninjas and all things Lego (especially mini figures).
Ethan Jack
Ring Security
Ethan Jack (EJ) is one of 3 nephews of our amazing Ring Security Team. EJ loves monster trucks, construction vehicles and playing hide and go seek.
Calvin James
Ring Security
Calvin James (AKA Cal) is one of 3 nephews, and the youngest, of our amazing Ring Security Team. Cal is a sensitive soul and loves spending time with his parents, any toy his brother has and music.
Haleigh Hauer
Flower Child
Haleigh is like a niece to Cara & Laura and is the 2nd youngest member (right after Mimi) in our Vibe Tribe. Haleigh will be walking with Mimi as our Flower Girl duo.
Amelia Hauer
Flower Girl
Amelia (Mimi) is like a niece to Cara & Laura and is the youngest member in our Vibe Tribe. Mimi will be accompanied by her sister Haleigh as our Flower Girl duo.
Kate Silverman-Van Treese
Bridesmaid
Cara's sister-in-law. Even before Kate officially married Cara's sister (Jen), she quickly became a second sister and has completed the family in such a special and profound way.
Chris Grose
Bridesmate
Chris and Cara have been friends for about 15 years. They met through mutual friends on a dance floor during a Junior Vasquez party and instantly clicked through their silliness and love of vibing on the dance floor.
Peter Arcand
Bridesmate
Cara and Peter met while working together at Piano Due around 2006-ish, about 18 years ago. Once it was discovered that they were both gay (since they were both hiding it at work at the time), their friendship took off and have been embracing shenanigans and creating wonderful memories ever since - on and off the dance floor.
Daphne Kalika
Bridesmaid
Laura met Daphne through Cara and they've grown closer over the years through lots of laughter, a shared love of delicious things and some fun adventures mixed in.
James Burgess
Bridesmate
James (Jimmy) & Laura have been friends since 2002. Although their football teams are rivals, James is like another brother to Laura, and someone she knew she needed by her side on her wedding day.
Jocelyn Shustack
Bridesmaid
A friendship that blossomed in the midst of Covid in 2020, Laura met Jocelyn when her and Cara went to a weekend away with some friends. They instantly bonded through their silly senses of humor and have continued to grow closer since.
Rebecca Hauer
Bridesmaid
Rebecca (AKA Mama Beck) quickly became one of Laura's closest friends. They also met in the midst of Covid in 2020 during a weekend away with friends. Through many video calls, trips away and festivals, their friendship has grown stronger.
Chris James
Bridesmate
Laura met Chris through Cara soon after they started dating. They've bonded over the past 7 years through their wacky senses of humor, heart to heart chats and cooking meals together.
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RSVP
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FAQs
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Are children invited?
Answer
We are limiting children attendees to our bridal party and family and appreciate your understanding.
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Are plus ones invited?
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Yes, each singular guest is welcome to bring a plus one. Invited couples, of course, already count as a pair and cannot bring an additional person. Your RSVP option should include all who are included in your invitation.
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What is the dress code?
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Semi-formal. Suits, dresses, slacks, button downs, etc. We are HIGHLY encouraging our guests to wear flat shoes with good traction. We are getting married at a lake house surrounded by nature and there may be slippery surfaces. We are also requesting guests to wear fall colors. It is recommended to bring a shawl or some kind of additional layer, as the temperature may drop when the sun goes down.
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What time will things start and finish?
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We are asking guests to arrive at 4pm; our ceremony will follow soon after. Our cocktail hour should start by 5pm, followed by our reception which should start around 6pm, followed by speeches, dinner, dancing, etc. For those who have a bit of extra gusto, we will also have an after party that will start at 11pm with late night bites, dance music and more dancing! The after party will go until 2am, which is when the last shuttle will come.
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Will there be parking available?
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Due to the layout of the venue and the vehicles needed onsite by vendors, parking the day of the wedding (Saturday) will be limited to immediate family, bridal party and folks staying on the property. We will arrange shuttles for pick-up / drop-off at our preferred hotels. If you are staying somewhere else, you will need to arrange for a lift or local taxi to get you there before the ceremony. Please arrange this in advance, as Lyft & Uber is not readily available locally. For our farewell brunch / recovery day, parking onsite will be available on a first come, first served basis.
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How do I RSVP?
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There are 4 main areas that require an RSVP which you can access in the menu on the top left: - Rehearsal dinner on Friday (only open to family, bridal party and folks traveling from very far away) - Wedding (ceremony & reception) on Saturday - After party following the reception on Saturday - Farewell Brunch + Recovery Day on Sunday
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When is the deadline to RSVP?
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We are kindly asking our guests to complete all RSVPs by Friday, August 23rd 2024.
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Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?
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A bit of both! We are planning (weather permitting) to have our ceremony outdoors surrounded by trees in a beautiful forest nook. The cocktail hour to follow will also be outdoors. The reception will be in a tent outside, with some components being outside. The after party will also be in the tent. The Farewell Brunch / Recovery Day will be a mix of indoors and outdoors.
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Do you have any discounts at any hotels?
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Yes! We have 2 negotiated rates. We have also included a few suggested properties that we do not have discounts at, but look lovely. Please look into our travel section on the menu for more information.
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What food will be served?
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A lot of delicious things! We kindly ask our guests to: - Select an entree as part of their RSVP - Add any dietary restrictions into the notes *We will have a vegetarian option and gluten free!
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Will there be an open bar?
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You bet! We will have one full open bar and one whiskey specific bar available. Although gratuity is included for our bartenders, having some cash for some extra love for them couldn't hurt.
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Should I bring a gift?
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We really appreciate how thoughtful and generous our humans in our universe are! We will have a place for anyone bringing envelopes, but kindly ask all other gifts be purchased through the registry / delivered to our home.
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I can't attend the wedding in person. Will there be a virtual wedding celebration?
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If you cannot make it, we will miss your presence and understand that life happens, however we will not be live streaming any part of our ceremony or reception. We would be happy to celebrate with you at a different time!