and we can't wait to celebrate our wedding day with you
5:30 pm - 11:30 pm
Black-Tie Preferred
Please join us for an unplugged ceremony immediately followed by cocktail hour and reception
11:30 pm
Join us for a post-wedding celebration at the hotel bar
9:00 am - 11:30 am
Join us for a New York bagel and coffee breakfast as a wedding farewell! Located in the Beacon room
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ROOM BLOCK AVAILABLE To book, click "view" below to access the link. This block requires guests to make a reservation for both Thursday & Friday night. Limited rooms available.
Travel Note
Oakdale is located on the south shore of Long Island, just 50 miles outside of New York City, and accessible via Long Island Railroad or a short car ride from JFK & LaGuardia airports. If traveling from NYC, take the Long Island Rail Road from Grand Central or Penn Station to the Ronkonkoma stop. The venue is a 10 minute Uber from the station. If flying from out of state, Long Island has two major airports - we recommend JFK but LaGaurdia is nearby as well. Both have ride share pick-up and car rental options available. For the night of the wedding, complimentary valet parking will be available at the venue. Ubers and Lyfts are easily accessible and are a 10-20 minute drive from your hotel of choice. For additional hotel options, we've listed a few other highly rated nearby hotels below. Please note, we do not have a block reserved at these hotels.
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Dress your best in a tux or gown, but a dark suit or long dress works too! We can't wait to party in style with you. Still not sure? Check out our Pinterest board guide: https://www.pinterest.com/jackallison2024/black-tie-preferred-for-jack-allisons-wedding/
The ceremony will be held outdoors followed by cocktail hour freely flowing throughout the mansion and patio (ladies, no need to worry about heels in the grass). The reception will be held indoors in the ballroom. Should it rain, the wedding will be moved entirely inside the mansion.
The venue will have complementary valet parking. Since our guests will be coming from many different locations, we will not have a shuttle service. If you are not driving, Ubers and Lyfts are readily available and can drop off/pick up inside the gate of the mansion. Should you prefer, Oakdale Taxi Service is available 24/7 via phone (631-593-2090) or online booking https://www.oakdaletaxi.li
A waiter will take your order when the party is sat down for dinner. We’ve curated a menu with lots of delicious options! Bourne is known for their Italian fare. As far as dietary needs, we will have vegan options but please reach out to us directly if you have any other specific concerns.
We kindly ask that little ones stay at home, our wedding is for guests 21 and older.
Due to venue capacity, unless otherwise noted on your invite we need to stick to the people named on your invite.
We kindly ask that you keep phones, cameras, and other devices tucked away during the ceremony. We have a wonderful photography and content team to capture every moment and we will be sure to share once available.
Heck yeah! We’re ready to party
We want to spoil you, but this one will be a cash bar.
We understand you might not be staying for an extended time. Unfortunately the hotel only offers blocks for a two night stay, but you are welcome to book outside the block or with the other hotel suggestions listed in the travel section.
Feel free to reach out to us directly! Allison's cell is 914-906-6417, Jack's cell is 203-517-6200, or you can email us at jackallison2024@gmail.com