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Kenneth Graham

and

Emily Rittenhouse

Kenneth Graham

and

Emily Rittenhouse

#myspouseisgrouse

October 12, 2024

Harrisonburg, VA

Kenny's iconic proposal line, "Do you wanna?" perfectly delivered on a rainy day in Kyoto. Emily's response was a very fitting, "Yeah!"

How We Met

The Weird Kid in Elementary School

Once upon a time in a small private Christian school in the greater Philadelphia area, two awkward kids became aware of each other. They didn't interact much until middle school when their mutual interests in band, choir, and theater forced them to spend time together in the same environments. To Emily, Kenny was the annoying kid in band who would regularly halt practice to complain about his saxophone being broken, despite it having been fixed multiple times. To Kenny, Emily was the tall, incredibly talented friend of a friend; a peer whose passion for music and nerd culture was both aspirational and attractive. By the end of middle school, they were friendly acquaintances and had many mutual friends. Once high school came around, their mutual love of music and theater continued to bring them closer together, and they eventually became very close friends who spent a lot of time together. To Emily, Kenny was no longer the annoying band kid, but rather a dear friend she knew she could trust with anything. He made her laugh, boosted her ego, and helped her feel safe in turbulent times. To Kenny, Emily was his closest confidante--someone in whom he found a mutual desire to know and to be known. Someone he could bring his most authentic self and be understood, in return having the privilege to know her. After some time, and much to the surprise of no one but them, one thing led to another (as it often does) and they cautiously stepped into what would become the 7+ year old relationship they continue to have today!

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Events

Saturday, October 12, 2024

Grouse Wedding

4:00 pm - 10:00 pm

The Loft at Liberty Street
76 W Gay St, Harrisonburg, VA 22802

Dressy Casual - Cocktail - Semi-formal

Nearby public parking is free! We suggest parking in the lot in front of the Rockingham County Parks & Rec building, which is one short block away from The Loft. Once you reach the main entrance to the Liberty St Mercantile, follow the sign and head upstairs! Elevators are available, as well.

Sunday, October 13, 2024

Sunday Brunch - Family Only

9:00 am - 11:00 am

Casual

We invite all of our extended family to join us for a casual, come-and-go Sunday brunch at Jim & Kendra’s house! Their address is 202 Grand View Dr, Harrisonburg VA 22802. 9-11am will be a time for family only, and the rest of our guests will be invited to join us from 11am-1pm.

Sunday Brunch

11:00 am - 1:00 pm

Casual

Join us from 11am-1pm for a come-and-go, indoor/outdoor, casual brunch at Jim & Kendra’s house! Their address is 202 Grand View Drive, Harrisonburg VA 22802. As Grand View Dr does not have a curb, please be mindful when parking in front of neighboring houses. :)

RSVP

Please enter the first and last name of one member of your party below.
If you're responding for you and a guest (or your family), you'll be able to RSVP for your entire group on the next page.

Ex. Sarah Fortune (not The Fortune Family or Dr. & Mr. Fortune)

Wedding Party

Emily Rittenhouse

Bride

Kenneth Graham

Groom

Halle Putera

Maid of Honor

Ben Graham

Best Man

Sarah Kratz

Bridesmaid

Steven Taylor

Groomsman

Gallery

Registry

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Hotels

Travel Note

Exclusive Hotel Discounts!

We don’t have blocks at most of these hotels, but please make use of these exclusive discounted prices for local lodging! It’s best to book sooner rather than later.

Hotel

Fairfield Inn & Suites by Marriott Harrisonburg

1946 Medical Avenue, Harrisonburg, VA 22801
 (540) 433-9333

For booking over phone, the event is called “Grouse Wedding.”

Hotel

Hampton Inn Harrisonburg - University

85 University Boulevard, Harrisonburg, VA 22801
 

Hotel

Hampton Inn Harrisonburg - South

43 Covenant Drive, Harrisonburg, VA 22801
 

FAQs

Question

Why Grouse?

Answer

We like to do things our own way! With neither of us feeling very strongly about our last names, and with Rittenhouse-Graham being far too lengthy, we decided to smush our names together into something new. Graham + Rittenhouse = Grouse. Yes, like the bird.

Question

What is the Dress Code?

Answer

The best fitting dress code for our wedding vibe would be “cocktail.” Feel free to wear what’s comfortable, though! Anything from “dressy casual” to formal would be appropriate.

Question

Can I bring a date?

Answer

Yes! Please include the full name of your plus one when returning your RSVP. If RSVPing online, please let one of us know the full name of your plus one.

Question

Where should I park?

Answer

All nearby public parking is free! While there isn’t much parking directly by The Loft, there are a few nearby lots and areas for street parking. For those with mobility issues, there is a small lot that can hold about 12 cars around the back of the building. Please prioritize that lot for those who may need it. For others, we recommend parking in the lot at the intersection of E Gay St and N Mason St - in front of the Rockingham County Parks & Rec building. There is also a small public lot next to the Christ Presbyterian Church on N Liberty Street. If all else fails, there is a parking deck with plenty of space at the intersection of Elizabeth St and N Mason St.

Question

Is The Loft at Liberty St accessible?

Answer

Yes! The small parking lot around the back of the building is floor-level with the building’s elevators. The main entrance has a small staircase up from the sidewalk, but inside there are elevators and bathrooms on each floor.

Things To Do

Ruby's Arcade

Ruby's Arcade

165 South Main Street, Harrisonburg, VA 22801
, (540)615-5351

Great place to hang out, play games, and eat good food!

The Little Grill

The Little Grill

621 North Main Street, Harrisonburg, VA 22802

Our favorite breakfast spot in town! We highly recommend the Breakfast Grinder and a brown sugar latte.

Harrisonburg Farmers Market

228 South Liberty Street, Harrisonburg, VA 22801

Great place to check out on a Saturday morning!

Smiley's Ice Cream

Smiley's Ice Cream

205 Don Litten Parkway, Bridgewater, VA 22812
, (540)271-2805

Our favorite local ice cream!

Kline's Dairy Bar

Kline's Dairy Bar

58 East Wolfe Street, Harrisonburg, VA 22802
The Dayton Market

The Dayton Market

3105 John Wayland Highway, Dayton, VA 22821

Nice place to walk around and check out local goodies.

Shenandoah National Park

Shenandoah National Park

VA

Some of our engagement photos were taken here! We recommend the Stony Man trail for a medium difficulty 1.5 mile hike with a great view, or just a drive along Skyline Drive! There is a fee to enter the national park.

High Knob Fire Tower Lookout

High Knob Fire Tower Lookout

High Knob Trail, Brandywine, WV 26802

Our favorite local hike! Great exercise with a beautiful 360 degree view of the Shenandoah Valley and into West Virginia. 2.6 mile medium difficulty out-and-back (steep inclines!)

Lake Shenandoah

Lake Shenandoah

VA 22801

Very easy and kid-friendly 30-40 minute trail that loops around Lake Shenandoah.

Endless Caverns RV Resort & Cavern Tours

Endless Caverns RV Resort & Cavern Tours

1800 Endless Caverns Road, New Market, VA 22844
BoBoKo Indonesian Cafe

BoBoKo Indonesian Cafe

217 South Liberty Street, Harrisonburg, VA 22801
, (540)434-3542

Indonesian food. One of our favorite local restaurants.

A Bowl of Good

A Bowl of Good

831 Mount Clinton Pike, Harrisonburg, VA 22802
, (540)437-9020

Emily works here!

Mashita

Mashita

105 North Liberty Street, Harrisonburg, VA 22802
, (540)810-1875

Korean fusion! One of our favorite restaurants in town. Kenny highly recommends the kimchi fries.

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