Our love story began in a unique way—through a chance meeting at an event hosted by the engineering fraternity I was part of at the time. Fate had us placed in the same group chat, and the rest was history. We started talking and never stopped. Our relationship officially began during our junior year of undergrad, and we've been inseparable ever since. As our connection deepened, we started thinking about our future. We both decided to pursue graduate studies—Lexi in Minnesota, and myself in Wisconsin. That's when the adventure of a long-distance relationship began, with countless road trips filled with podcasts to bridge the gap. Despite the challenges, this period only strengthened our bond. After Lexi's graduation, we decided to start our life together in Madison. I continued my studies while Lexi embarked on her career. She also brought along with her our first furry family member, the adorable Moshi. During our time in Madison, I began looking into engagement rings, and on October 21st, 2022, I asked Lexi to spend the rest of our lives together. Now, we've embarked on a new adventure in Utah, but we can't wait to celebrate with our friends and family in Wisconsin this coming August. It's going to be a day filled with love, laughter, and unforgettable memories.
8:30 pm
Post-rehearsal the bride and groom will be at North 48º. If you are in town on Friday evening, feel free to come by and grab a drink!
4:00 pm
Semi-Formal: Tuxes and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses.
6:00 pm
Semi-Formal: Tuxes and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses.
Hotel
Our preferred hotel. Please book through our block using the link below or the discount code. Please book before July 4th, 2024!
Discount Code - DNW
Hotel
Please book under the Nelson Wedding block accessed via the link. The cutoff date for reservations is July 2nd, 2024.
Flight
For those flying domestically, the Milwaukee International Airport is the closest to Oconomowoc; just a 45 minute drive.
Flight
Chicago O'Hare is another option but farther away, approximately a 1.75 hour drive to Oconomowoc from ORD.
Flight
Dane County Regional Airport may be a bit more expensive depending on your departure location, but is about 50 minutes away from Oconomowoc.
Maid of Honor
Tessa is Lexi's (not so) little sister. She is currently pursuing a master's degree at UNC Chapel Hill. Lexi always goes to Tessa for style advice, and the pair can communicate almost entirely via memes.
Bridesmaid
Bianca is Nick's older sister and a (soon to be) new mom! Bianca works as a nursing education specialist at UW Hospital and is a fiery gal who loves to have a good time.
Bridesmaid
Helen and Lexi first met when they became roommates freshman year at UW-Madison, and went on to live together for 3 years of undergrad. Helen is the sweetest lady who currently resides in Minnesota.
Bridesmaid
Dani and Lexi met their freshman year at UW-Madison; Dani lived down the hall from Helen and Lexi and quickly became their 3rd roommate! Dani and Lexi have run 1/2 marathons and traveled abroad together.
Groomsman
Paul and Nick first met in high school and lived together their junior and senior years of college. Paul loves all things Marvel, his dog Ivy, and currently lives in Minneapolis.
Groomsman
Nick met Josh in the early days through their mutual friend Andy. Josh and Nick grew closer throughout high school and ended up being college roomies with Paul for a couple of years. Now residing in Milwaukee, Josh is the type of guy you want to pass the aux to or ask for style advice.
Groomsman
Nick and Nick go way back, back even further than his high school flow. From kicking the soccer ball around to neighborhood shenanigans and both getting married this summer, Nick and Nick are bros for life.
Groomsman
Conner and Nick became close friends during college and spent a good amount of time together in Madison while Nick was in grad school. Whether it be a last-minute round of golf or a trip to the cabin, Conner is always down for a great time.
Our favorite coffee shop in town! Also lots of shopping in the area.
Great brewery with a small-town vibe. Has shuffleboard, TVs, and good beer!
Cute bar near the lake with a large outdoor deck, live music, and tasty drinks. Check website for details.
Mr. Doersch's recommended golf course in the area. Also recommended are Paganica Golf Course and Erin Hills Golf Course.
Catch a baseball game at Wisconsin Brewing Company Park.
Good for a swim in Lac La Belle or paddle board rentals!
Lakeside lunch spot with a great outdoor deck.
Another local brewery with great food.
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We currently have hotel blocks with the Hilton Garden Inn and the Marriott TownPlace Suites in Oconomowoc. Please be aware of the cutoff dates for reservations under these blocks. Additionally, there are a number of rental units around the area on AirBnB or VRBO.
We are kindly asking everyone to dress up for our special day! Semi-Formal: Tuxes and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses.
Yes! Our ceremony and cocktail hour will be hosted outside on grass (weather permitting).
We’re so excited to celebrate this day with our nearest and dearest! While we love your little ones, our wedding is going to be an adults-only event so everyone can relax and enjoy the evening. We appreciate you making arrangements ahead of time and celebrating with us! Please restrict attendees in your party to those listed on your invitation and on our “RSVP” page on our wedding website.
Yes, we will provide transportation from the hotels where we have room blocks to the ceremony and from the reception back to the hotels at the end of the night. Busses will be running continuously from the hotels to The Carriage House from ~2:30pm to 4pm. Busses will be running continuously from The Carriage House to the hotels from 8pm to 12pm.
There is parking at the Carriage House. If you need to leave cars overnight they must be parked in the back overflow lot and removed by 9am the following morning.
Absolutely - we encourage you all to take photos! However, we will be having an unplugged ceremony and ask that you wait to take photos until after the "I do's!" Follow the link below to add to our shared google photos album; we would love to see the day from your perspective! https://photos.app.goo.gl/JYtg765eFHAvf1Mv9
Please reach out to us at doerschnelson@gmail.com.