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We're getting married!

Alexandra Doersch

and

Nicholas Nelson

Alexandra Doersch

and

Nicholas Nelson

August 3, 2024

Oconomowoc, WI

Our Story

Our love story began in a unique way—through a chance meeting at an event hosted by the engineering fraternity I was part of at the time. Fate had us placed in the same group chat, and the rest was history. We started talking and never stopped. Our relationship officially began during our junior year of undergrad, and we've been inseparable ever since. As our connection deepened, we started thinking about our future. We both decided to pursue graduate studies—Lexi in Minnesota, and myself in Wisconsin. That's when the adventure of a long-distance relationship began, with countless road trips filled with podcasts to bridge the gap. Despite the challenges, this period only strengthened our bond. After Lexi's graduation, we decided to start our life together in Madison. I continued my studies while Lexi embarked on her career. She also brought along with her our first furry family member, the adorable Moshi. During our time in Madison, I began looking into engagement rings, and on October 21st, 2022, I asked Lexi to spend the rest of our lives together. Now, we've embarked on a new adventure in Utah, but we can't wait to celebrate with our friends and family in Wisconsin this coming August. It's going to be a day filled with love, laughter, and unforgettable memories.

Order of Events

Friday, August 2, 2024

Welcome Drinks

8:30 pm

North 48º - Lake Country
102 N Main St, Oconomowoc, WI 53066

Post-rehearsal the bride and groom will be at North 48º. If you are in town on Friday evening, feel free to come by and grab a drink!

Saturday, August 3, 2024

Our Ceremony

4:00 pm

Semi-Formal: Tuxes and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses.

Cocktail Hour

4:30 pm

Reception

6:00 pm

Semi-Formal: Tuxes and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses.

Travel

Hotel

Hilton Garden Inn Oconomowoc

1443 Pabst Farms Circle, Oconomowoc, WI 53066
 

Our preferred hotel. Please book through our block using the link below or the discount code. Please book before July 4th, 2024!

Discount Code - DNW

Hotel

TownePlace Suites by Marriott Oconomowoc

1242 Corporate Center Drive, Oconomowoc, WI 53066
 (262) 266-1900

Please book under the Nelson Wedding block accessed via the link. The cutoff date for reservations is July 2nd, 2024.

Flight

Milwaukee Mitchell International Airport (MKE)

For those flying domestically, the Milwaukee International Airport is the closest to Oconomowoc; just a 45 minute drive.

Flight

Chicago O'Hare International Airport (ORD)

Chicago O'Hare is another option but farther away, approximately a 1.75 hour drive to Oconomowoc from ORD.

Flight

Dane County Regional Airport

Dane County Regional Airport may be a bit more expensive depending on your departure location, but is about 50 minutes away from Oconomowoc.

Wedding Party

Meet our family and friends who are walking down the aisle with us.

Tessa Doersch

Maid of Honor

Tessa is Lexi's (not so) little sister. She is currently pursuing a master's degree at UNC Chapel Hill. Lexi always goes to Tessa for style advice, and the pair can communicate almost entirely via memes.

Bianca Dean

Bridesmaid

Bianca is Nick's older sister and a (soon to be) new mom! Bianca works as a nursing education specialist at UW Hospital and is a fiery gal who loves to have a good time.

Helen Keyes

Bridesmaid

Helen and Lexi first met when they became roommates freshman year at UW-Madison, and went on to live together for 3 years of undergrad. Helen is the sweetest lady who currently resides in Minnesota.

Danielle Nemschoff

Bridesmaid

Dani and Lexi met their freshman year at UW-Madison; Dani lived down the hall from Helen and Lexi and quickly became their 3rd roommate! Dani and Lexi have run 1/2 marathons and traveled abroad together.

Paul Davis

Groomsman

Paul and Nick first met in high school and lived together their junior and senior years of college. Paul loves all things Marvel, his dog Ivy, and currently lives in Minneapolis.

Josh Sylla

Groomsman

Nick met Josh in the early days through their mutual friend Andy. Josh and Nick grew closer throughout high school and ended up being college roomies with Paul for a couple of years. Now residing in Milwaukee, Josh is the type of guy you want to pass the aux to or ask for style advice.

Nick Kielty

Groomsman

Nick and Nick go way back, back even further than his high school flow. From kicking the soccer ball around to neighborhood shenanigans and both getting married this summer, Nick and Nick are bros for life.

Conner Funnell

Groomsman

Conner and Nick became close friends during college and spent a good amount of time together in Madison while Nick was in grad school. Whether it be a last-minute round of golf or a trip to the cabin, Conner is always down for a great time.

Things To Do

Roots Coffeebar & Cafe

124 East Wisconsin Avenue, Oconomowoc, WI 53066

Our favorite coffee shop in town! Also lots of shopping in the area.

Brewfinity Brewing Co.

N58W39800 Industrial Road, Oconomowoc, WI 53066

Great brewery with a small-town vibe. Has shuffleboard, TVs, and good beer!

Splash Martini Bar

134 North Main Street, Oconomowoc, WI 53066

Cute bar near the lake with a large outdoor deck, live music, and tasty drinks. Check website for details.

Deertrak Golf Club

W976 County Road O, Oconomowoc, WI 53066

Mr. Doersch's recommended golf course in the area. Also recommended are Paganica Golf Course and Erin Hills Golf Course.

Lake Country DockHounds

1011 Blue Ribbon Circle North, Oconomowoc, WI 53066

Catch a baseball game at Wisconsin Brewing Company Park.

Oconomowoc City Beach

324 West Wisconsin Avenue, Oconomowoc, WI 53066

Good for a swim in Lac La Belle or paddle board rentals!

Lucky Chucky's Beach Bar and Grill

37238 Valley Road, Oconomowoc, WI 53066

Lakeside lunch spot with a great outdoor deck.

SteelTank Brewing Co.

1225 Robruck Lane, Oconomowoc, WI 53066

Another local brewery with great food.

RSVP

Please let us know your plans by June 22nd. We look forward to celebrating with you!

Please enter the first and last name of one member of your party below.
If you're responding for you and a guest (or your family), you'll be able to RSVP for your entire group on the next page.

Ex. Sarah Fortune (not The Fortune Family or Dr. & Mr. Fortune)

Registry

Thank you for your generosity and for celebrating this milestone moment with us. It means so much! Please be aware that while our wedding is being held in Wisconsin, we currently live in Utah. Gifts mailed directly to us are preferred.

FAQs

Question

Do you have any hotel recommendations?

Answer

We currently have hotel blocks with the Hilton Garden Inn and the Marriott TownPlace Suites in Oconomowoc. Please be aware of the cutoff dates for reservations under these blocks. Additionally, there are a number of rental units around the area on AirBnB or VRBO.

Question

Is there a dress code?

Answer

We are kindly asking everyone to dress up for our special day! Semi-Formal: Tuxes and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses.

Question

Will we be outside?

Answer

Yes! Our ceremony and cocktail hour will be hosted outside on grass (weather permitting).

Question

Can I bring my kids or a date?

Answer

We’re so excited to celebrate this day with our nearest and dearest! While we love your little ones, our wedding is going to be an adults-only event so everyone can relax and enjoy the evening. We appreciate you making arrangements ahead of time and celebrating with us! Please restrict attendees in your party to those listed on your invitation and on our “RSVP” page on our wedding website.

Question

Will there be a shuttle?

Answer

Yes, we will provide transportation from the hotels where we have room blocks to the ceremony and from the reception back to the hotels at the end of the night. Busses will be running continuously from the hotels to The Carriage House from ~2:30pm to 4pm. Busses will be running continuously from The Carriage House to the hotels from 8pm to 12pm.

Question

Is there parking at the venue?

Answer

There is parking at the Carriage House. If you need to leave cars overnight they must be parked in the back overflow lot and removed by 9am the following morning.

Question

CAN I TAKE AND POST PICTURES OF THE WEDDING ON SOCIAL MEDIA?

Answer

Absolutely - we encourage you all to take photos! However, we will be having an unplugged ceremony and ask that you wait to take photos until after the "I do's!" Follow the link below to add to our shared google photos album; we would love to see the day from your perspective! https://photos.app.goo.gl/JYtg765eFHAvf1Mv9

Question

Having trouble with your RSVP?

Answer

Please reach out to us at doerschnelson@gmail.com.

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