Weddings by Cathy


Full wedding (ceremony and reception) pricing

Prices start at $100


About Weddings by Cathy

Weddings by Cathy

Hi, I’m Cathy Melando—Congrats on your engagement! I’m a registered officiant in NJ and licensed in NY. I create personalized, meaningful ceremonies that reflect each couple’s unique love story. I also write custom scripts for first-time officiants. Whether you're planning a small gathering or a big celebration, I offer traditional or modern ceremonies for all couples. Since 2010, it’s been an honor to celebrate love in all forms: straight, gay, and lesbian. Let’s make your ceremony as unique and unforgettable as you are!

I write my own personalized ceremonies. Whether you want a classic romantic ceremony or one that reflects your passions, I’m here to make it happen! I’ve crafted Disney-inspired vows, Game of Thrones-style declarations, and even spooky Halloween weddings. Some favorite themes: classic romance, humor, rock or hip hop, fantasy (GoT, LOTR), gaming, Disney magic, and seasonal (Valentine’s, Christmas, Halloween). If you can dream it, I can write it—each ceremony is fully personalized to reflect your story, style, and vision for your perfect day. So whether you are traditionally romantic or looking for spooktacular, I can write it!

In three words: Creative, Flexible, Fun


Services

Ceremony types

  • Civil Union
  • Commitment Ceremony
  • Elopement
  • Interfaith Ceremony
  • Legal License Signing
  • Multicultural Weddings
  • Non-religious Ceremony
  • Religious
  • Vow Renewal Ceremony

Religious affiliations

  • Catholic
  • Christian
  • Interfaith
  • Other
  • Secular
  • Unitarian

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  • Cathy is Great!

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    JoeApr 14

    Weddings by Cathy was a fantastic choice for our wedding officiant. Cathy's communication style was great - she was attentive to every detail and made sure we were informed and comfortable throughout the entire process. Her work was truly exceptional, as she was outgoing, thoughtful, and caring in her approach. Cathy took the time to get to know us and our story, which really shone through in her personalized ceremony that had all of our guests feeling like they were part of something special. I would certainly recommend Cathy to any couple looking for an officiant who will dedicate the time and attention to detail to make your wedding day truly unforgettable.

  • Outstanding Vow Renewal

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    Marie D.Apr 12

    Cathy did our 30th Anniversary vow renewal and it couldn't have been more special. You will not be disappointed if you choose her as your officiant for your ceremony, plus she is one of the nicest people we have ever met.

  • Cathy was AMAZING!

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    Luisa M.Apr 10

    Although we had a small, intimate wedding in a restaurant; Cathy made us feel so special and cared for. We are SO happy we couldn't get our date at City Hall! God brought you to us, Cathy ... and we were so glad! Everyone present said it was one of the nicest ceremonies they ever went to. There wasn't a dry eye in the place. Thank you so much!

  • A Halloween to remember!

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    ChristianeApr 10

    When my husband and I spontaneously decided to get married this Halloween, we could not have predicted how beautiful it would be- and we have Cathy to thank. With her exceptional creativity, she was able to write a customized, Halloween themed ceremony that made both of us cry. Cathy is highly skilled, competent, friendly, communicative, and above all else, she will go above and beyond to make sure your ceremony is PERFECT. You can not go wrong if you chose her for your special day, for anything from completely traditional, or, if you’re like us, completely non-traditional and unique. Thank you, Cathy, for making our special day one we will remember fondly for the rest of our lives!