We've been together several years and already own our own home. There's not too many items that we don't already own. We know it is tradition to provide a gift list but in our case, we'd suggest a slight twist. Our home is complete with all the usual stuff and the things that we have are really good enough. We hope you don't think of us as being rude and that this, our wedding request, is not misconstrued. In truth, a contribution to our "future dreams" pot would be well used and appreciated quite a lot! We dream of a wedding celebrating with friends, a freshly painted house, and a trip out west again. As we celebrate our transition to husband and wife, we thank you for your share in our future dreams and life.