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46 Best Wedding Gift Ideas 2024

Can't decide between an open bar, cash bar, or no host bar? Maybe you're considerig a dry wedding? Find expert-approved guides to bar services for weddings, signature drink ideas, and everything else libations and drinks.

At Zola, we believe that your wedding day is a sacred event intended to celebrate the commitment between you and your partner. While other wedding sites may be in the business of referring to your wedding reception as "one big party," Zola understands that your wedding is as relevant as it is celebratory. 

That being said, celebrating is an integral part of what will undoubtedly be one of the most important days of your life. We don't like to overemphasize the "party" aspect of your wedding celebration. Still, we’d be lying if we said that your reception isn't going to be one of the most fabulous celebrations you ever attend.

When it comes to celebrating your wedding, having a substantial selection of adult beverages is key. So, enough beating around the bush—here is the ultimate alcohol list for your wedding.

Just for fun, here is our ultimate wedding alcohol list power rankings:

1. __Champagne.__  You can't have a wedding without it.
2. __Red Wine.__  You can have it during cocktail hour, it will be served with dinner, and it pairs well with chocolatey desserts. Plus, there aren't many people who flat out refuse to drink it. 
3. __Vodka.__  It's easy to drink on its own, and it mixes well with almost everything. If you're going to choose only one spirit, Vodka is it.
4. __Beer.__  Whether it's domestic or craft, beer is always a great option for a party.
5. __Bourbon.__  There's the casual whiskey drinker, and then there's the bourbon drinker. Every party has a few of them. Bourbon can be substituted for whiskey, but not the other way around. When in doubt, bourbon over whiskey.
6. __White Wine.__  More of a cocktail hour beverage than an all-night drink, white wine is a staple for those who prefer something light on the palette.
7. __Gin.__  It's vodka's partner in crime. This distilled spirit is very en vogue at the moment and opens up a world of cocktail options, such as martinis, gimlets, and, of course, the classic gin and tonic.
8. __Whiskey.__  Much like vodka, whiskey pairs well with a lot of other beverages. Whiskey is a top requested spirit at any event with a bar, but with only a small range of flexibility for cocktails, it's lower on our list.
9. __Rum.__  A great liquor for mixed drinks, and a solid depth option to round out any bar.
10. __Liqueurs.__  This generalized group includes spirits such as triple sec and Bailey's, and are absolutely necessary for creating [wedding signature cocktails](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/choosing-signature-wedding-cocktail).

## Liquor
Distilled spirits are a foundational building block for any wedding alcohol list. As Willy Wonka once said, “Candy is dandy, but liquor is quicker.” If you’re planning on serving alcohol at your event, we strongly recommend that you include some version of liquor.

For many couples, there are questions and concerns surrounding [wedding caterers and bartenders](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-bar-services) serving liquor, and understandably so. __The biggest question regarding liquor at your wedding is not whether or not it should be served, but rather what kinds of liquor should be provided, especially at a limited bar.__

As a method of making your decisions easier, Zola recommends using a tiered system for choosing the liquor you will serve at your wedding. Our tiered system involves choosing two liquors at a time. The idea behind choosing two at a time is all about encouraging you to make selections that will offset one another. Using this selection method will provide your guests with the greatest possible variety for standalone spirits and mixed drinks. 

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*Photo Credit* // Mikey Harris

### Separate your liquors into clear and colored options. 

While it may seem simplistic, separating your hard liquor into clear and colored means that you will secure a broader range of alcohol for your guests. For the most part, clear liquors, such as __vodka, gin, and tequila,__ are a completely different flavor profile than dark liquors, such as whiskey, bourbon, and rum. 

1. __Vodka and bourbon__. These are the two most common liquor choices for any wedding. On the one hand, you have a clear liquor with vodka, and alternately you have a colored liquor in bourbon. Both are easily drinkable on their own, and both are used in signature cocktail beverages, such as the vodka martini and the Old Fashioned. 

The reason for choosing bourbon over a different kind of whiskey is somewhat subjective, but there is logic behind the choice. All bourbons are whiskeys, but not all whiskey is bourbon. Usually, bourbon is easier to drink on its own, and, far more often, a whiskey drinker will ask for a bourbon over an alternate variety of whiskey. Choose whatever you and your guests will prefer, but bourbon is the safe play here. 

2. __Gin and rum__. Gin is a popular choice for fancy cocktails, and rum is great for fun mixed-drink varieties. While rum can be light or dark, we recommend choosing a lighter rum that still has some color to it, such as Mount Gay. Because vodka and bourbon are more mainstream, it’s wise to include gin and rum as your tier two options to increase the versatility of your cocktail bar.

3. __Irish whisky and tequila__, to __vermouth and cognac__. Unless you and your guests are avid tequila drinkers, best to skip it for your wedding. Shots are never encouraged at a wedding, and tequila practically demands to be taken as a shot. Steer clear of this polarizing beverage as it tends to bring out the wild side of any party.

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## Champagne
When it comes to your ultimate wedding alcohol list, Champagne should be at the top of it. While liquor is a foundational staple for any wedding, a wedding just simply isn't a wedding without some bubbles and a Champagne toast. For those who are Champagne purists, we should clarify that we are talking about sparkling wine, not necessarily Champagne. 

The difference, for those who are wondering, is sort of like bourbon and whiskey. __All Champagne is sparkling wine, but not all sparkling wine is Champagne.__ Champagne is a region in France where the beverage Champagne was invented, and, as such, only sparkling wine that comes from the Champagne region is called Champagne.

### When Should You Serve Champagne?

Specificity aside, you’ll want Champagne (read: sparkling wine) throughout the day. Perhaps you’ll want to indulge in a mimosa while getting ready, so you'll need to have prosecco on hand. Maybe you'll want a glass of something in the limo on the way to the reception, so be sure to have a nice brut chilling in the ice chest. And, of course, you'll want to have a bottle bedside for when you and your sweetheart arrive home after the wedding reception. 

The point is, sparkling wine and the aforementioned Champagne are a major part of your wedding day. If we have one piece of advice regarding your Champagne selection, it's this—spend up and overbuy. There is no worse hangover than the one you get from cheap Champagne. And, even if you save the good stuff for yourself, you should always have a few more bottles than you think you'll need.

![yutacar-JKMnm3CIncw-unsplash](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3B46SLGc34Eg6afQQ9f59T/748ecb17e38b7e89bd1d03c4569a466f/yutacar-JKMnm3CIncw-unsplash.jpg) *Photo Credits //* Yutacar

## Beer and Wine 
Beer and wine are such essential choices for wedding beverages that some couples choose to serve them exclusively. Beer and wine do what other wedding alcohols cannot in their ability to stand on their own as sufficient. While serving only beer and wine may not be your guests' preferred choice, no one will be outraged if you choose to go with beer and wine only.

## An Open Bar's Best Friends

Beer and wine are also terrific complementary pieces to your wedding bar as a whole. Often, whoever is providing your bar service will offer two different beer selections and two different wine selections. More often than not, the choices of beer will include one __domestic and one imported.__ Similarly, the wine will be offered in the form of __red wine, usually a cabernet, and white wine, usually chardonnay.__

The best part about beer and wine is simplicity. You don't have to overthink it, just pick something that most people like and you'll be fine. When in doubt, pick something you like to drink, and if you're really stuck, ask a couple of guests. 

- The most common beer choices for a wedding include Bud Light—as the domestic choice—and Corona or Heineken as the imported choice. 
- Chardonnay and cabernet are the most popular wine choices, but a zinfandel and sauvignon blanc are good alternatives, respectively. 

## Mixers, Citrus, and Ice
Every ultimate wedding alcohol list should include mixers. While they may not be alcohol themselves, there are very few guests who will want their drinks neat. Be sure to procure a variety of soft drinks, juices, and, of course, fresh-cut citrus to include with the alcohol you’re serving.

You can never have too much ice. People like their drinks to be cold, and many people enjoy their cocktails on the rocks. Every good bartender will tell you how important ice is to a well-stocked bar. Do your guests, and your bartenders, a favor by getting plenty of ice for the booze.

## Specialty Cocktails
Some call them craft cocktails, others call them specialty spirits, but whatever you call these artisanal alcoholic treats, your guests will simply call them delicious. 

### Bartenders vs. Mixologists: Which Should You Choose?

Usually, an average bartender will not be able to create signature cocktails on the spot, so you may need to hire someone with a special skill set who can help curate a unique [wedding cocktail menu](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-drinks-are-served-at-cocktail-hour "What Drinks Are Served at Cocktail Hour?") for the event. We're not saying that there aren't regular bartenders who don't make a superior drink, but we're just saying that for truly artisanal cocktails you’ll need to hire a bonafide mixologist for this type of alcoholic beverage.

If you’re considering a real mixologist for your wedding, we recommend hiring them only for cocktail hour. Having someone to make fancy cocktails is a great way to entertain your guests as they mingle during the [time between ceremony and reception](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-time-should-you-have-between-a-wedding-ceremony-and-reception). However, there is a high probability that the cool aesthetic of craft cocktails will wear off later in the evening. As people begin to drink more, they care less about a hibiscus-infused vodka gimlet and tend to lean more on the standard party beverages, such as beer or a glass of wine.   

![The Ultimate Wedding Alcohol List](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2Wkajj9KjnL5ltyPxzajMD/16168ef8c715b1543d133e8f53579c2b/INLINE_TheUltimateWeddingAlcoholList___.jpg)*Photo Credit //* Unsplash

## Should You Have Alcohol at Your Wedding?

If you have trepidations about serving liquor at your wedding, we’re here to tell you not to worry. While distilled spirits and other alcohols can certainly cause drunkenness, rest assured that your guests will be on their best behavior. It’s a well understood social construct that behavior at a wedding is jovial, yet controlled. Your guests certainly understand that this is a special occasion and they are expected to have fun responsibly. 

- If you’re concerned about overserving your guests, we recommend setting a drink limit for hard liquor. Alternately, a cash bar is always a great way to encourage responsibility as it tempers how many trips to the bar your guests are willing to take. 
- If you’re concerned about serving too much alcohol at your wedding, address your guest list to see whether or not alcohol will be an issue. Alcohol, when consumed responsibly, is a wonderful part of being an adult and an incredible part of your wedding day. 

We hope this list of wedding day alcohol choices will help your planning process, so that come the big day you can sit back and raise a glass to your new spouse and a life of joy together. Cheers!


The Ultimate Wedding Alcohol List

Whether you’re hoping for something strong and spirit-forward or a light and fruity spritzer, there are plenty of wedding cocktails to choose from on your big day. Below are some of our favorite choices for wedding cocktails (as well as a few tips and tricks to make them your own).

## 18 Popular Wedding Cocktail Recipes 

### #1 __Moscow Mule__
This classic cocktail recipe mix of vodka, ginger beer, and lime is not only a popular pick, but also lends itself to a lot of versatility. For something more customized, consider adding berries, hibiscus, or even some St. Germain. Those who prefer darker spirits can opt for a Kentucky Mule or Dark ‘n Stormy instead. 

Ingredients:

- 1 ½ oz vodka
- 4 oz ginger beer
- ½ oz lime juice
- Lime wedge for garnish (optional) 

### #2 __Manhattan__
This signature cocktail recipe is great for guests who prefer a more spirit-forward libation. While typically made with rye or another American whiskey (such as bourbon), feel free to get creative with your whiskey of choice. Irish whiskies, Scotch, and other blended options make some great alternatives. You can even add a dash of orange bitters to really bring out the citrus notes.

Ingredients:

- 2 oz bourbon or rye
- 1 oz sweet vermouth
- 2 dashes of Angostura bitters
- Orange peel
- Maraschino cherries for garnish (optional) 

### #3 __Margarita__
The ultimate crowd pleasers, margaritas are a clear favorite at weddings (particularly amongst tequila lovers). While a classic margarita is made with lime, you can make one from almost any fruit. Try playing around with infusions (such as pineapple juice and jalapeno) or create a fun salt station where your guests can make something that suits their personal tastes.

Ingredients:

- 1 ½ oz tequila
- ¾ oz lime juice
- 1 oz orange liqueur (typically Grand Marnier, Cointreau, or Triple Sec)
- Salt for the rim

### #4 __French 75__
The perfect fit for a classy affair, this Prohibition-era sipper will appeal to even the most cocktail-averse guests. While typically served with gin, some cocktail connoisseurs prefer swapping the base spirit with Cognac. Served in a Champagne flute, this drink is a great alternative to the classic Champagne toast. Feel free to add a lemon twist for some extra flair.

Ingredients:

- 1 oz gin
- ½ oz lemon juice
- ½ oz simple syrup
- 2 oz Champagne

### #5 __Mimosa__
The simplest of all brunch cocktails, the mimosa is a great option for morning weddings or early festivities. Because of its simplicity, there are a lot of creative ways you can make the mimosa your own, including swapping the orange juice with a grapefruit or guava alternative. You can also consider a Bellini with peach nectar and prosecco if that’s more your vibe.

Ingredients:

- 2-3 oz Champagne
- 2-3 oz orange juice

### #6 __Bees Knees__
Another light and citrusy selection, this cocktail is well-loved by many and makes a refreshingly sweet addition to any reception. Consider it as a cooler alternative to a hot toddy or a fun substitute for a Tom Collins. For creative folks, lavender simple syrup, blood orange, and elderflower liqueur all make great add-ins. 

Ingredients:

- 2 oz gin
- 1 oz lemon
- ½ oz honey syrup
- Lemon twist for garnish (optional) 

### #7 __Old Fashioned__
For those who appreciate a good spirit-forward cocktail, the classic Old Fashioned is a great one to lean on. While traditionally made with bourbon, you can always swap spirits with brandy, Scotch, or rye. Add a bit of orange zest, a cocktail cherry, or even dried rosemary to keep it fresh and seasonal.

Ingredients:

- 1 ½ oz bourbon
- 1 sugar cube
- 2 dashes Angostura bitters
- Orange peel and/or a cherry for garnish (optional) 

### #8 __Mojito__
For an outdoor, summer affair, there are few drinks as refreshing as a minty mojito. Feel free to play around with different types of rum and add berry infusions (such as fresh strawberries or blackberries) to satisfy the fruit-forward crowd. For those who prefer whiskey over rum, the Mint Julep is a great alternative with a similar flavor profile.

Ingredients:

- 1 ½ oz rum
- 1 oz lime juice
- 2 teaspoons sugar or simple syrup
- 5-8 mint leaves (muddled)
- 4 oz club soda

### #9 __Paloma__
Similar to the margarita (though slightly less common), the Paloma is a fun, fruit-forward drink that works for a variety of occasions. The simplicity of the drink makes it easy to add some fun twists, whether it be some agave nectar or a flavored salt rim. Fresh grapefruit juice adds a bit of zest, while the soda route is best if you’re craving something bubbly.

Ingredients:

- 2 oz tequila
- 2 oz grapefruit juice or soda
- ½ oz lime juice

### #10 __Gin & Tonic__
Few cocktails are as classic and accessible as the G&T. While the traditional G&T is made of one part gin and three parts tonic, the perfect gin-to-tonic ratio is completely dependent on the individual. The simplicity of the G&T lends itself to a wide variety of options for customization, such as adding fruit or botanicals that really bring out the flavors of the gin. Using flavored gin or tonic water is another simple way to mix it up. 

Ingredients:

- 1-3 oz gin
- 3-4 oz tonic water
- Lime wedge for garnish (optional) 

### #11 __Whiskey Sour__
Exactly how it sounds, the whiskey sour is the perfect fit for those craving something on the tart side. With a fine balance of whiskey and lemon, the cocktail is fairly spirit-forward (and best prepared by a bartender who knows how to work with egg whites). Consider this a citrusy alternative to an old-fashioned or mint julep.

Ingredients:

- 2 oz bourbon
- 1 oz lemon juice
- ¾ oz simple syrup
- 1 egg white

### #12 __Martini__
Few cocktails are as iconic as James Bond’s signature drink, making it the perfect pick for a black-tie affair. While the classic martini was made with gin, many bartenders have adopted a modern twist by opting for vodka instead. Consider playing around with flavored vodka or fun garnishes, such as edible flowers and other botanicals.

Ingredients:

- 3 oz gin or vodka
- ½ oz dry vermouth
- An olive for garnish

### #13 __Aperol Spritz__
Much like the French 75, the Aperol spritz is a great option for those who favor sparkling wine over a more spirit-forward cocktail. The zesty, orange flavor is great for summer celebrations, while the bright hue adds a fun visual element. If you’re getting married in the off-season, it’s worth considering alternatives such as a cognac, apple cider spritz, or rhubarb spritzer.

Ingredients:

- 1 ½ oz Aperol
- 2 oz prosecco
- 1 oz club soda

### #14 __Gimlet__
The sweet and citrusy cousin to the martini, a classic gimlet adds a touch of class while still being endlessly refreshing. While traditionally served with gin, there are no spirits restrictions when it comes to the gimlet. In addition to swapping gin with flavored vodka, basil, elderflower, and rosemary all make great inclusions.

Ingredients:

- 2 oz gin
- 1 oz lime juice
- ½ -1 oz simple syrup (to taste)

### #15 __Negroni__
If you find yourself loving Manhattans or the bittersweet, spiced notes of Campari, then the negroni may be for you. The botanical flavors of both the gin and vermouth are complemented by the mix of cherry, clove, and cinnamon that are often found in the Italian aperitif. While an acquired taste, the negroni is a great addition to any bar (particularly when paired with other, lighter options).

Ingredients:

- 1 oz gin
- 1 oz Campari
- 1 oz sweet vermouth
- Orange peel for garnish

### #16 __Daiquiri__
If you’re someone who loves rum, but may be overwhelmed by the mint flavors of a mojito, then a daiquiri may be just the thing for you. More of a family cocktail than a singular drink, the daiquiri pairs well with a wide variety of summer-inspired flavors, including strawberry, peach, lemongrass, coconut, and more.

Ingredients:

- 1 ½ oz white rum
- 1 oz lime juice
- ½ oz simple syrup

### #17 __Irish Coffee__
As the weather cools, offering Irish coffee is a great way to warm your guests throughout the reception. Try adding a whipped cream station, or let guests pick their spirit of choice. Hot toddies and hot buttered rum are a couple of other warm drinks that make great alternatives, particularly if coffee is not your cup of tea (no pun intended).

Ingredients:

- 1 ½ oz Irish whiskey
- 1 oz cream
- 1 tbsp brown sugar or maple syrup
- 3-4 oz hot coffee

### #18 __Bloody Mary__
While traditionally a brunch libation, the bloody Mary complements a wide range of celebration styles, making it a fun alternative to the classic wedding cocktail. This is the perfect pick for couples who want an engaging cocktail station, allowing guests to select from an abundance of additions, ranging from bacon to cilantro and other herbs.

Ingredients:

- 1 ½ oz vodka
- 3-4 oz tomato juice or tomato-vegetable cocktail mix
- 2 dashes of Worcestershire sauce
- 1 tsp salt
- ½ oz lemon juice (optional) 
- 1 dash of hot sauce (optional) 
- 1 stalk celery and/or green olives for garnish

Cocktails are uniquely personal, which is why it’s important to put some thought into what you want to choose for your big day. In addition to keeping your guests and seasonality in mind, make sure to choose drinks from [wedding vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors) that really resonate with you as a couple. After all, you’re likely going to want something tasty to sip at your [wedding venue](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-venues) and reception.

18 Popular Wedding Cocktails

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As your wedding attendants are busy planning their __[toast speeches](https://zola.app.link/dxLaAGyN71)__, you’re deciding what to pour into their glasses, and that not only includes the drink for the toast, but also the [bar options for the entire reception](https://zola.app.link/SiNeuzyN71). Dollar signs click away as your budget increases. An [open bar wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/open-bar-weddings-a-guide) can often be attached to a lot of dollar signs; however, you can save money by having a __[beer and wine](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-host-a-wedding-with-no-hard-liquor)__ only wedding reception or a cash bar at your wedding. From wording your __[wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop)__ to limited bar etiquette, here are our top tips for successfully pulling off a cash bar.

![Zola: How to Save Money With a Cash Bar at Your Wedding](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/74XxTvMMbYgx5gBJ7yhaKr/c7a899e46d38a936c4bbb923bd8181a3/inline_Tall___Small_Event.jpg)
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## How Does a Cash Bar Work? 

Think of cash bar service as being like a traditional bar. Patrons come up, order what they want to drink, and either start a tab or pay on the spot—viola! It’s easy, and that’s quite similar to how a cash bar works. It's easy for wedding guests to understand when they can go and order their signature cocktail or multiple [alcoholic beverages](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-buy-alcohol-for-your-reception) during cocktail hour.

However, with a limited selection bar at your wedding reception, there are a few other options. You may not be able to have a [hosted bar](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/the-ultimate-wedding-alcohol-list-power-ranking-the-best-adult-wedding) filled with every selection under the sun. And that’s ok, as there are a few different ways to handle a cash bar.

- __Ticketed Cash Bar:__ Some couples don’t wish to commit to a cash bar fully. However, they need to avoid paying for guests who want a lot to drink. A good in-between option is to have a cash bar with tickets, where guests receive one to two vouchers for free drinks. When their tickets run out, they need to ante up and pay for their alcohol from the full bar. 
- __Limited Cash Bar:__ Just because you have a cash bar doesn’t mean that your bartender needs to offer __[anything and everything](https://zola.app.link/hAcrL9YGq9)__. You don’t necessarily need five different vodkas and specialty vermouths on your wedding day. Talk to your bartender about what spirits he or she recommends, or simply go with __[beer](https://zola.app.link/hnFNhcbm2cb)__, soft drinks, and bottles of __[wine](https://zola.app.link/33xRJvdm2cb)__ to keep it simple.
-__Traditional Cash Bar:__ If you want to go traditional, each drink is paid for by the guests. However, still do Champagne or a signature drink for your toast. The toast should be complimentary, of course. You can save a little bit of money by having staff only fill the __[toasting glasses](https://zola.app.link/ZLPQEMfm2cb)__ halfway—that way, less alcohol goes to waste.

## Cash Bar Wedding Etiquette

![Zola: How to Save Money With a Cash Bar at Your Wedding](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2lx4Q1d0a5uHyXBsALXy1x/e0be967cded57a6c311ccecac9db8afb/inline_Emma_Cleary_Photo_and_Video.jpg)
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### Inform Your Guests That You’re Having a Cash Bar Wedding
Making your guest list aware ahead of time is where it gets a bit tricky. You don’t want to keep your cash bar service a secret, as you need loved ones to prepare in advance. The last thing you want is to surprise your guests and have them scrambling for wallets or their credit card to pay for their own drinks. It’s proper cash bar etiquette to be upfront with your attendees. That way they can determine the amount of alcohol they want to drink.

### Skip the Tip Jar, and Pay for Gratuity Yourself
Also, there is a bit of a debate about having a tip jar. A cash bar is preferable for some guests over a [dry wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-sober-wedding). However, some may balk at having to pay and leave a tip after paying for alcohol. One way to get around this is to pay for the gratuity yourself. Many venues and caterers [include tips](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-tipping-wedding-vendors) in the contract, yet giving each bartender a $50 to $100 bonus is appreciated.

### Give Your Cash Bar Service Provider’s Permission to Cut Guests Off
Unfortunately, you may have some guests who will drink too much, even though they are footing the bill. However, just because they are paying, you still need to create a responsible reception atmosphere. Give your bartender, staff member, or designated relative the authority to talk to individual guests. That way, that individual can cut people off if guests are __[consuming too much](https://zola.app.link/9f8cK8YiI9)__.

## Cash Bar Invitation Wording
When conveying that you have a cash bar service, it’s essential to use proper communication. Place the information on both your __[wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website)__ and your invitations, so that your guests quickly see it. Here are a few examples of how to tactfully say cash bar, ranging from formal to creative. 

- __Formal:__ We can’t wait to celebrate with you and host you for dinner. Unfortunately, we have chosen a cash bar, so please bring cash or a credit card to enjoy bar service.
- __Casual:__ Dinner’s on us. Drinks are on you. So, if you want to consume, bring a buck or two (or a credit card).
- __Two Drink Tickets:__ We are excited to host you for dinner. However, if you would like more than two drinks, please bring cash or a credit card for our cash bar service. 
- __One Drink Ticket:__ Our wedding will be beautiful and our reception fun. With drinks, bring cash if you want more than one.

## Cash Bar Pros and Cons
There are many pros and cons to having a cash bar, and not all of them are about your wedding budget. Weigh these factors when trying to come up with a middle ground while wedding planning for your big day. 

### What are the pros of having a cash bar?
Having a cash bar is very cost-effective for the ones hosting the wedding. If your wedding party or others decide to overdo the bubbly, you aren’t stuck with an expensive bill. As far as guests are concerned, having a cash bar can also be a pro, especially if someone is prone to drink a bit too much white wine if they don’t have to pay. Charging guests can help eliminate over-drinking, which can be a relief for some attendees.

### What are the cons of having a cash bar? 
A DIY cash bar can have some negative connotations and seem a bit tacky for some guests. Of course, you don’t want to come off as cheap, which is what some folks will unfortunately remember. Asking guests to pay impacts the overall hospitality at the event. Plus, having your bartender mix drinks and take payments can also hold up the bar line at your wedding venue.

## 6 Extra Tips to Save Money + With Cash Bar
1. __Allow guests to bring their own alcohol.__ Don’t want to spring for luxe bourbon? Have your guests bring their own. That way, they can have whatever they’d like at their own expense while still having something they enjoy. Just make sure to let them know ahead of time that this is an option.

2. __Serve drinks in simple glasses.__ Forget the fancy barware, which can break, anyway. Go with plain glasses for drinking to save on your wedding budget.

3. __Only provide a signature cocktail.__ One way to have your event seem more upscale without spending a ton on alcohol is to serve one or two signature drinks. Voila! With a very limited amount of choices, you won’t break the bank. 

4. __Set specific bar hours.__ Instead of serving alcohol in an open bar, have a specific opening and closing time. Doing so is a great way to limit over-indulgence.

5. __Consider hosting a daytime or weekday wedding.__ If you have a flexible schedule, try an off-time wedding. These events are normally less expensive anyway, which can include a break on bar service.

6. __Have a toonie bar.__ A what? If you haven’t heard of the term, it’s a different take on a traditional cash or limited bar. Basically, guests throw in a few dollars for every drink each time they go to the bar. That way, the bartender doesn’t have to worry about playing cashier, and guests can throw in a few bucks or a twenty.

## One Last Word About a Cash Bar Wedding
We realize that weddings are expensive. A lot of planning and financing goes into one day. However, think about your guests when you’re considering a cash bar. Many are traveling, and there are other expenses to factor in for those who attend. They may purchase new clothing, spring for a babysitter, and—hopefully—__[buy you a gift](https://zola.app.link/eHihVjjt52)__.

Instead of using a tacky cash bar, it may be better to go with a ticketed or limited option. Doing so will let your guests know that you appreciate their attendance. However, having the host spring for some—but not all—alcoholic drinks communicates that you don’t want anyone over-consuming. Most wedding professionals will encourage you to go another route before solely going with cash bar service.

Of course, you know your guests and your finances best. Therefore choose whichever option you and your partner feel most comfortable utilizing. No matter what, your family and friends will enjoy celebrating with you on one of the most important days of your life.

## Zola: Your Place for Wedding Bar Planning
If you like full-service bars, you’ll love Zola’s full-service approach to breaking down wedding bar service. From timely articles to a handy [wedding alcohol calculator](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-calculate-alcohol-needs-for-your-wedding), Zola is at the ready. After all, no one wants to have too much leftover alcohol (hello, expensive!) or run out and cut the party off early. 

Cash Bar at Wedding Explained + 6 Tips to Save Money

Many people know to tip servers and bartenders at restaurants, hairstylists at hair salons, and other service industry members when a service is properly performed. But, did you know that tipping also applies to your [wedding vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors)? When you’re in the process of planning your wedding and booking vendors for your big day, you may find, during the contract signing, that a line item for gratuity is listed; however, many vendors do not include this. If not stated, what do you do when it comes to tipping your wedding bar and bartender? 

When it comes to [wedding planning](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning) your wedding, one thing that people generally don't want to skimp on is [the bar](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-bar-ideas). Bartenders play an important role in a wedding––they keep the drinks flowing. They also make sure that the various kinds of wines, liquors, and soft drinks that you want are fully stocked, while also pouring beverages and making various cocktails. 

Generally speaking, bartenders do a lot of things behind the scenes that you may not even realize. They try to help set the tone for the guests with small talk, keep them happy throughout the event, and also keep an eye on who may be drinking too much, as well as adjust what they are serving as a way of doing some damage control. Given the job that they have, tipping them accordingly is important. Here are several things to keep in mind when you’re getting ready to tip your bartenders.

### How Much Do You Tip? <a id="tip"> </a>
Knowing how much to tip is always something that comes up, and for people who are in the service industry, being tipped well can make a huge difference. A good general rule of thumb is to tip between 18-25 percent. If someone gave you exceptional service, showing your appreciation of them via a good tip is always the way to go. 

Another thing to take into consideration is the vendor's contract. If you hired a caterer and they have bartenders included in their events’ package, double-check to see if gratuity is included in the price. If this is the case, then the tip will be divided up among the various staff that worked your event, but it’s important to find out for sure. If gratuity is not included, then you can apply an 18-25 percent tip onto the total of whatever the catering bill is. If you’ve hired a more expensive catering company and are working out how much to pay various staff, you can also offer a flat rate of gratuity per worker.

According to Jordan Catapano, co-founder of [This Girl Walks Into a Bar LLC](https://www.thisgirlwalksintoabar.com/), “When gratuity is included, it’s important to ask how many people will be splitting the tip. Twenty percent added gratuity can be fantastic for a crew of five, but not so great for a staff of ten. Everyone’s role in the success of a wedding is important, but if there’s one area of service that particularly stood out then tipping more is always appreciated.”

When it comes to tipping bartenders at your wedding, you want to think about the overall job that they are doing and also the level of service being provided. Typically, bars with weddings are extremely busy throughout the reception, and, as such, bartenders will be the members of the service wait staff that will interact with guests the most. These things should factor into the tip. Catapano suggests tipping $100 to each bartender, and to keep in mind that the average length of most bar shifts are six to 10 hours. 

However, you may decide to hire bartenders separately from a catering company. If you’re hiring bartenders and mixologists separately, be sure to negotiate an hourly rate that both you and they are happy with. From there, you can apply a similar equation as stated above, where you can tip 18-25 percent of the total bill. 

### Hiring a Bartender Separately: Tips and Cost Considerations <a id="hire"> </a>

Hiring a bartender separately from a catering company does offer some advantages. If you decide to go that route, you do want to keep several things in mind. Catapano noted that they can use their mixology expertise to help give you and your wedding guests an even more memorable experience. They will also offer “guidance when planning the drink menu, and a specialist behind the bar to execute those drinks,” Catapano said. 

When it comes to the bar, details matter, so you want to work with someone who will think ahead. “We’ve worked too many events where the bar isn’t stocked with the appropriate equipment to create drinks quickly, or where the correct ingredients aren’t supplied for the signature drinks. Fresh lime juice is very different from concentrated lime juice. Lemonade is not a substitute for margarita mix. Cranberry juice and cran-raspberry juice are not always interchangeable. The bar at a wedding is the artery of the party,” Catapano said.

When you’re hiring a bartender separately, Catapano also offered these tips:

- Try to have a 50:1 guest to bartender ratio for the best possible service. There’s some wiggle room here depending on the drink selection.
- Your specialty drink menu should max out at five, but three is ideal. The more specialty drinks offered, the longer the bar line, and the more one will have to buy for ingredients.
- If the bar won’t have sink access, any cocktail that requires muddling is discouraged. If the couple has their heart set on muddled jalapeño and mint margaritas, speak with the bartending company in advance about how to prep for a drink like that in advance.
- Think about having batched drinks. It can not only save time, but also cut down on waste and save a lot of money. They also add lovely, inviting décor to the bar.

The other thing to keep in mind is what the cost of this is and how much to tip.
Often this will be an hourly rate, however the rate depends on your region; a typical hourly rate ranges from $30 to $50 per hour, plus 18-25 percent gratuity. “Negotiating a flat rate works best when the [wedding venue](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-venues) has a hard stop and load out time. If the evening’s end time is fluid, a flat rate could cost the couple more than necessary or short-change the bar staff,” Catapano added. 

There’s also the uncomfortable situation when a flat rate has been negotiated and the staff underwhelms the couple with their service. If a generous gratuity was already given but, in the end, not earned, it leaves a bad taste in the mouth of the couple on a day that should have nothing but warm and positive vibes. 

### Do You Tip at a Cash Bar?<a id="ahead"> </a>

When it comes to a cash bar, when guests are paying for their drinks, various companies have policies about tip jars. However, unless a couple gives the okay for one, the industry standard is not to have one. If guests choose to tip on their own that is up to them. However, the bartender should be tipped by the people hired for the service they provide, regardless if the bar is cash or not. 

### Do You Tip With Cash or on a Credit Card?
Generally, most people consider cash to be king and if you plan ahead you can make sure that you have enough cash to tip your bartender. However, if you don't have cash on hand, tipping on the card is always an option. One thing to keep in mind is that because of credit card transactions it may sometimes take a few days for the bartender and other staff to be able to get the tip from the credit card. The advantage of tipping in cash is that they are able to leave with their tip immediately. 

If you’re tipping with cash, be sure to plan ahead and make sure that you have enough money. Also, you may want to place it in an envelope. Generally, it’s also presented at the end of the wedding reception after the wedding is over. However, if you’re tipping on your credit card, this will usually be done prior to the wedding, due to the contract that is signed. 

Generally bartenders are known for going above and beyond when it comes to customer service. If there’s a lull, they’ll leave the bar to pick up abandoned plates and cups, circulate the party with a bottle of white wine and a bottle of red wine to top off glasses, or bring the couple fresh cocktails when they can’t seem to make their way to the bar. Having a tip that reflects this and how your bartender staff contributed to your big day is important.

How Much Do You Tip Your Wedding Bartender?

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Whether you’re having a summer soiree or high class celebration, [alcohol](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/the-ultimate-wedding-alcohol-list-power-ranking-the-best-adult-wedding) is deeply intertwined with weddings of all kinds. From the champagne toasts to the drinks that provide the liquid courage for your guests to hit the dancefloor, alcohols of various types have found special places amongst wedding receptions.

But this begs one important question amidst wedding planning: Are you planning to foot the bill for your guests to drink on the house? What will that look like? If you’re planning to have an open bar, there’s a lot to consider when determining a budget. Here are aspects to consider when calculating the potential costs.

## The Deal With Alcohol Packages
From full open bars, to limited bars, to signature cocktails, various levels of alcohol packages can land you at vastly different price points—effecting your entire wedding budget. That’s why it’s important to know all the pricing information when including a bar of any sort in your cocktail hour, reception, or both.

There are different lengths to which you can go when it comes to an open bar, like only covering certain types of booze or only offering a particular selection to begin with. Each of these options will effect your bottom line, so it's paramount you know what's what.

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## Types of Open Bars
Typically, there are two types of [open bars](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/open-bar-weddings-a-guide) your venue will allow you to choose from. The first will offer a few beer selections (domestic and premium), a premium red and premium white wine, an assortment of regular or top-shelf spirits (typically vodka, tequila, gin, rum, bourbon, and whiskey), mixers (e.g. tonic water, club soda, juices, and margarita mix), and some non-alcoholic options (e.g. sodas, flat water, and sparkling water). You can also ask them to include a champagne, different bottle of wine (like a rosé), or similar for an additional cost.

However, if this top-tier full bar option is out of budget or might not go to good use, you have a second option to consider. Most venues will also offer a limited open bar, which features beer selections (domestic and premium), a premium red and premium white wine, non-alcoholic drinks, mixers, and limited or no spirits. As always, we recommend checking with your venue to get the specifics of what options they have available.

## Beer and Wine Only
As a shock to just about nobody, beer and wine are almost always less expensive than liquor. Far less expensive. So, if your crowd's more the type to sip on a hearty beer or refreshing wine, as opposed to going for mixed drinks, we highly suggest considering this option.

Under this banner, you may also want to check with your venue and see if you're able to [bring your own beer and bubbly](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-buy-alcohol-for-your-reception). Not all venues will allow this—many that include catering and a bar won't allow you to bring in other food or drinks—but you might be surprised at those who do. Buying beer and wine by the case often results in wholesale discounts, which could considerably bring down the cost of your program. All while supplying guests with the option of unlimited booze of their favorite varieties.

## Signature Drinks
Another, often less expensive, route you could explore is offering a signature drink (or drinks). Often, venues can work with you to offer your standard beers and wines, while also including around three signature cocktails in leu of a full open bar of spirits. In this case, guests will then have the option of selecting from the beers, wines, or signature preset drinks included in your bar package. These drinks are typically special to the newly wed couple, with your options depending on what ingredients the bar has available. 

For example, if your bar won't have espresso available, they won't be able to create espresso martinis. If you haven't already been provided one in your venue proposal, request a list of ingredients (beers, wine, spirits, mixers) your bar has and work from there. Deciding on a limited number of drinks—and, therefore, ingredients being used—should considerable help with the open bar cost. Plus, it gives you the opportunity to reminisce on drinks that may be favorable or important to you, then give them fun names.

__Note:__ If you opt for a full open bar, you should still be able to create and advertise signature cocktails. Just ask your venue coordinator for some assistance getting that set up.

## Open Bar for Certain Hours
Say you want a full or partially full open bar, but are expecting to have a lengthy reception. Perhaps your budget can only cover up to so much. If this ends up being the case, don't worry, you still have an option. Many venue bars or vendors will provide you with the ability to have an open bar for a certain amount of time. For example, it will usually open for service immediately as your cocktail hour begins, run through the cocktail hour, then stay open for the first hour or two the reception. After that, it typically becomes a cash bar, in which guests pay for their remaining drinks individually.

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## Other Things to Consider
Now that you've got the basics of an open bar down, let's chat about some important details that shouldn't go undiscussed.

### Who’s Handling Bar Service?
While many traditional wedding venues provide their own alcohol and bar (think hotels and event spaces), many others don't. When discussing your options with potential venues, ask for a description of what they have available. If it's your initial in-person meeting or venue tour, simply ask if the venue provides a bar, bartender, and bar back. If they do, request more detailed information (ingredients, operable hours, etc.) in your venue proposal.

If the venue doesn't have their own bar on site (think parks, gardens, and estates), you'll need to hire a vendor separately. The downside to this is having to coordinate with an extra vendor. However, the upside is that you may be able to further customize your options and hours, costing you less money in the long run.

### What Should Be Included?
We already took a look at what's included in different potential bar packages, but for simplicity and remembrance's sake, we've include a quick cheat sheet below. As mentioned before, this is generally what's included in these kinds of packages. We highly recommend talking in detail with your vendor about what they specifically have available.

- __Full open bar:__ Beer selections (domestic and premium), a premium red and premium white wine, an assortment of regular or premium liquors (typically vodka, tequila, gin, rum, bourbon, and whiskey), mixers (e.g. tonic water, club soda, juices, and margarita mix), and some non-alcoholic beverages (e.g. sodas, flat water, and sparkling water). You can also ask them to include a champagne or similar for an additional cost.
- __Limited open bar:__ Beer selections (domestic and premium), a premium red and premium white wine, non-alcoholic beverages, mixers, and limited or no spirits.
- __Beer, wine, signature drinks:__ Beer selections (domestic and premium), a premium red and premium white wine, non-alcoholic beverages, and a few specifically selected and pre-discussed mixed drinks.
- __Beer and wine:__ Beer selections, a premium red and premium white wine, and non-alcoholic beverages.

Aside from the standard ingredients, your open bar should include the appropriate glasses or cups, bottle openers, shakers, corkscrews, garnishes, ice, ice tongs, ice buckets, coolers, rags, and cocktail napkins.

### How Much Does an Open Bar Cost Per Person?
The price-per-person can vary based on your location, venue, and alcohol package. On average, the standard cost-per-person can be from $11 to $45 a head, with the average being around $20-$30. For a generalized list of what you might expect, look below. These are the average costs per person, depending on your drink package.

- __Full open bar:__ $35-$45/person
- __Limited open bar:__ $20-$25/person
- __Beer and wine only:__ $15-20/person

### How Do You Handle Gratuity?
One important additional thing to ask your venue or alcohol vendor about is gratuity. Depending on the vendor, a gratuity cost may or may not already be added into your bar package and listed in your initial contract. Note that this isn't the same thing as a service fee. If it isn't, you'll need to determine how you plan to calculate and pay it.

If a bar and bartending services are included as a part of your venue or caterer's package, you can expect gratuity to be a line item in your contract. However, if it isn't—or if you hired out your bartender separately—vendor etiquette suggest that you tip ten to fifteen percent of your pre-tax alcohol package bill. That being said, a tip is extra money based on met or exceeded expectations. If your bartender(s) did a phenomenal job all evening, consider tipping an amount that reflects that.

## The Pros and Cons of an Open Bar
Final cost aside, there are various pro's and con's to hosting an open bar at your wedding. Whether money is of no issue or you've figured it all out, but need some more to think about, consider the following.

- __Pro: Guests will appreciate it__. The biggest pro of having an open bar is the satisfaction of your guests. Your loved ones are sure to appreciate the freedom to enjoy themselves without fussing with cash or worrying about their budget.
- __Pro: It keeps things moving.__ When you have an open bar, bartenders don't need to worry about processing tons of separate transactions. Everything's already paid for. Guests, too, don't need to waste time fishing around their wallets. This results in a faster line, which in turn results in more time the wedding guests can dance, chat, and celebrate.
- __Con: Guests can over-indulge.__ A legitimate fear of having an open bar is the potential for a guest or guests to take advantage of it. Too-drunk friends or family run the risk of ruining your night, if not making a temporary scene. To avoid this, you can ask the bartender to limit certain individuals or have a drink ticket system in place.
- __Con: It's more expensive for you.__ Typically, the hosts of the wedding are the ones responsible for picking up the open bar tab (usually before the wedding takes place). With a cash bar, your guests share in some of the financial burden. However, with an open bar, you pay for everyone to enjoy.

Generally, in the end a cash bar might help you save money, but an open bar will ensure everyone has a stress-free, good time.

## Tips to Save Money on an Open Bar
At the end of the day, you might decide that an open bar is the right call for your wedding reception. However, that doesn't mean you can't still try to save some money. Here are a handful of our favorite tips when it comes to bringing down that bottom line.

- __Ask if you can BYOB.__ As we previously mentioned, supplying your own alcohol can drastically cut down costs. Venues won't always allow this, but it's worth the ask, even if you want a limited bar and to bring your own champagne or rosé.
- __Implement drink tickets.__ When only a certain amount of alcohol can be consumed, only a certain amount of ingredients are needed. This will likely end up being less than what's usually included in a full open bar, naturally bringing the price down.
- __Ask if you can exclude certain guests.__ Not many venues will allow this, but it's worth the ask. If you have a handful of people who don't drink, consider asking your vendor if they can avoid being counted in the total per-person cost.

As you can likely tell, multiple factors come into play when landing on a bottom line for your [open bar](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-bar-ideas) costs. What options are available to you, how much you can customize, and gratuity all come into play and should be given special attention before making a decision. However, once you've gone over the fine details with the appropriate vendor, you should have no problem coming to the best decision for your wedding. We're betting your guests would cheers to that.

How Much Should You Budget for an Open Bar at Your Wedding? 

Picture this—you and the love of your life have just committed yourselves to each other in a ceremonial display of affection. The ceremony went off without a hitch, and you couldn't be happier with how your wedding day is turning out. It would stand to reason that you are filled with unfathomable joy, and understandably giddy with love. In other words, you’re ready to celebrate this milestone event, so let the celebration begin.

While your wedding day is most certainly all about you and your partner, once the ceremony is over, the day shifts from a reverent affair to a joyous celebration. Don't forget that you have invited others to share in the happiness you’re now celebrating, and it’s your job as host to ensure that they are well taken care of. 

The planning you put into your wedding will shape how your guests can enjoy themselves during the reception. The happiness you experience in the minutes and hours after your wedding ceremony is mirrored by your guests' shared desire to celebrate that happiness. It’s vital to remember that the delight of your guests is an essential part of the reception. Their happiness hinges on the cocktail hour.

## Drinks That Are Served at Wedding Cocktail Hours
One of the most critical pieces in the puzzle that makes up the perfect reception is the cocktail hour. The cocktail hour is the foundation on which the rest of your reception will stand. Ask anyone who has ever attended a wedding, and they will tell you that a well-planned cocktail hour can make or break a reception. 

Usually, a cocktail party includes some form of [entertainment](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-entertain-guests-between-the-wedding-and-reception "How to Entertain Guests Between the Wedding and Reception"), socialization, hors d’oeuvres, cocktail party games, and, of course, libations. The wedding menu is different for every cocktail hour, and it’s up to the newlyweds to decide what kind of drinks will be served. While there’s a wide variety of drinks to choose from, there are some standard cocktail options that are outlined in this [wedding alcohol list](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/the-ultimate-wedding-alcohol-list-power-ranking-the-best-adult-wedding "The Ultimate Wedding Alcohol List: Power Ranking the Best Adult Wedding Beverages") below.

### Beer and Wine
Serving beer and wine during a cocktail hour is a common practice at most weddings. Beer and wine might not be your guests' first choice in cocktail hour beverages, but it will undoubtedly do the trick. 

Serving beer and wine at the cocktail hour ensures that no one gets too crazy, too quickly. The last thing you want is for people to be doing tequila shots before cocktail hour food is served. A best practice for a successful cocktail hour is to keep things light. Light hors d 'oeuvres pair perfectly with a small selection of beer and wine.

Remember, there’s still a long night of toasts, speeches, and other traditional reception events to look forward to. These events will go a lot smoother if no one is inebriated. Ensuring that your guests don’t get too intoxicated too early is just one of many reasons to wait on serving hard liquor. 

One of the other reasons for going with beer and wine is that it’s a far more cost-friendly option for you. Hard liquor is expensive, and while beer and wine are not a cheap option, they’re far more budget-friendly than a bottle of vodka or gin. 

Typically, couples who choose to do beer and wine will offer a red and a white wine option and a domestic and imported beer option. Offering options is a great way to keep your guests happy, even when you’re limiting the type of alcohol that you're serving.

Being that they’re both budget-friendly and helpful with incident prevention, beer and wine are excellent cocktail hour beverage options.

### Signature Cocktails
Wedding signature cocktails are a fantastic way to serve liquor without getting into too much trouble, and they can capture your [wedding theme](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-themes " 70 Wedding Themes to Inspire Every Type of Couple | Zola"). Offering a signature wedding cocktail or two is a great way to serve liquor without being too aggressive about it. Many couples pair their signature cocktail with beer and wine service, and it’s common for a wedding couple to provide a free signature cocktail at a cash bar. 

Your signature cocktail, or cocktails, can be anything of your choosing. From a classic Old Fashioned to a modern twist on a mint julep, the signature cocktail should be a reflection of the couple. Some couples offer two signature cocktails—one of the bride's choosing and one of the groom's choosing. Often the difference in taste between the two will provide a big enough range for your guests to be happy with at least one of the offerings. 

![What Drinks Are Served at Cocktail Hour?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4AGj2waCvwn0bLGDZBPi1t/b81bb04593324cdd635c18aff4a2377d/INLINE2_TheUltimateWeddingAlcoholList___.jpg) *Photo Credits //* Zola Inc

### The Open Bar
Ask any event planner, caterer, or venue, and they will tell you that an open bar during cocktail hour is risky business. Here are a few of the pros and cons of an open bar during the wedding cocktail hour:

__Pros:__
- It's free booze, and people will be really impressed by your hospitality.
- There will be little complaining about selection or variety.

__Cons:__
- You run the risk of overserving your guests. 
- Opening the bar this early on will put a big dent in your budget.

While it may seem like a good idea to offer your guests a variety of free alcohol, doing this early in the evening may end in disaster. If you’re dead set on providing an open bar, try going the signature cocktail route with beer and wine during the cocktail hour. This is referred to as a modified open bar. 

With the modified open bar, your guests won't have to pay for a drink all night, yet you control the types of drinks they have access to. This method is not only useful for keeping your costs down, but it's also effective for keeping your guests sober enough to remember the first dance. 

Save the full bar for after dinner, as it will be a welcome surprise for your guests. No one will complain about free beer and wine during cocktail hour, especially if there’s a signature cocktail, and you still look like a hero for opening the bar later on. For more information, see our guide on *how much does an open bar at a wedding cost?*

### The Cash Bar
Like the open bar, the cash bar provides your guests with an assortment of spirits that they can choose to indulge in. The difference is that a cash bar often limits the number of trips each individual will take to the bar. 

Because your guests will be paying for their own cocktails, they will be much more judicious with the amount of liquor they’re consuming. This method of serving drinks gives people the freedom to drink what they choose, while mitigating the risk of someone becoming intoxicated too early in the evening's festivities.

Standard practice for cash bars is to offer one or two freebies, such as a domestic beer or a red wine, with everything else being out-of-pocket for your guests. Remember, you can always pull an audible and open up the bar later in the evening during dancing. 

Often with a cash bar, drink service will shut down completely during dinner. It is tradition for wine to be served with dinner, and, as a result, the bar is often closed for this portion of the evening's festivities. Some couples will keep one bar open during dinner service, but only for beer and wine in the rare case that the wine being served is not preferable to a guest.

### Non-Alcoholic Options
Whatever kind of drink service you offer to your guests, make sure that soft drinks are free. Whether your reception is an adult-only affair, or whether there are kids in attendance, no one should have to pay for mixers. 

Make sure that you offer those who don’t drink alcohol something to sip on other than water. This is often overlooked, and those guests who just want a soft drink will be grateful for your thoughtfulness. If you really want to go above and beyond for your non-drinking guests, a signature mocktail is a fun way to keep it classy for those keeping it PG. 

Most catering companies will offer you the option of serving coffee and tea later in the evening. We recommend you absolutely offer your guests coffee, especially if alcohol is served. You never know who may need a cup of coffee late in the evening, and it’s far better to have it and not need it than the other way around.

## Know Your Audience
You created your guest list, so it’s up to you to decide what kind of drinks you want to serve during cocktail hour. You know your family and friends better than anyone. Your insight into their habits as consumers will ultimately play a significant role in the decision you make regarding your cocktail hour. 

It’s important to note that when deciding what drinks to serve at your cocktail hour, you should make your choice based on what is best for your wedding. However, what’s best for your wedding, and the popular choice (ie., an open bar) may not be in alignment. 

It may be strange to think of yourself as the host, but remember that this wedding reception is your celebration. As such, it’s your job to find a balance between showing your guests a good time and ensuring that the event isn't derailed by an alcohol-fueled scene. As stated earlier, you won't have to worry about any of these things on the day of, but planning for them ahead of time is crucial. 

Whatever drinks you choose to serve, make sure you get to enjoy them too. Your wedding is a celebration for you and about you, and you deserve something nice. Whether you want to have a special bottle of champagne set aside or do some shots with the wedding party, it's important that you take advantage of a night you will never forget.


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What is a wedding registry? How do they work? What should you put on your registry? We guide you through getting your wedding registry set up, go over can't miss registry essentials, and give unique and practical tips to creating the best wedding gift registry.

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