A couple from Chicago shares how they pulled off their $265k traditional wedding with support from loved ones.
Last updated February 5, 2024
__Welcome to Zola’s Wedding Budget Diaries, where we break down one of the industry’s greatest mysteries: how much weddings actually cost. __
But no two couples are the same, and neither are their weddings. Each wedding budget, big or small, has its backstory of unexpected surprises and compromises.
This week, a couple from __Davenport, Iowa __ shares how they pulled off their $265k Chicago wedding.
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A bird’s eye view of this couple and their wedding budget.
Fields of Work: Education & Automotives
Ages: 25 & 26
Location: Davenport, Iowa
Combined Salary: $140,000
Wedding Date: 7/16/2022
Wedding Location: Chicago, Illinois
Venue Type:
Ceremony - St. Basil Greek Orthodox Church
Reception - Field Museum of Natural History
Wedding Party Members: 5 bridesmaids, 4 junior bridesmaids, 5 groomsmen, 2 flower girls, 2 ring bearers, 4 ushers, 1 stefana (crown) bearer
Wedding Style: Black Tie, Traditional, Elegant
Original Wedding Budget: $200,000
Actual Wedding Budget: $265,000
Payment Breakdown: Bride's parents covered 100% of the wedding costs including dress, tuxes, reception, ceremony, etc. Groom's parents covered 100% of the costs for the rehearsal dinner.
How did you keep track?: Spreadsheet designed by wedding planner (google sheets).
How did you pay for your wedding?: Parents support.
Time for the budget breakdown - their original budget vs. actual spend on each wedding item or service.
Original budget: $32,000 for Field Museum Stanley Hall
Actual spend: $32,000
What we got: Included room rental, some tables (others provided by design company), premium bar package with additional specialty alcohol, staffing, security, and open museum exhibits
Original budget: $50,000
Actual spend: $56,000
What we got: On-site staffing, bartenders, all rentals, 9 passed hors d'ouevres, plated course meal, late night snacks, coffee and tea station, and all vendor meals.
Original budget: Included in venue and catering costs.
Original budget: None
Actual spend: $13,475
What we got: Bride's Dress, Veil, and specialty bow for dress: $11,000, Brides shoes: $475. Groom's custom and personalized tux and shoes: $2,000.
Original budget: $30,000
Actual spend: $61,000
What we got: Included all bouquets, boutonnieres, corsages, table florals (low and high top), church florals, specialty marble tables, all table decor including candles, linens, specialty tableware, 2 lounge seating areas, specialty escort display with custom 1965 black mustang car cutout with florals (then utilized for the photo-booth backdrop), bar backs, specialty bars, unlimited design proposals and customization, and floor planning.
Original budget: $10,000
Actual spend: $14,500
What we got: Included 6-hour coverage for an 11-piece band and DJ for cocktail hour, dinner, and dancing.
Original budget: None
Actual spend: $16,500
What we got: Photography $11,500 - full-day coverage (10 am-midnight) and second photographer, as well as included engagement photos. Videographer $5,000 - included 12-hour coverage, 2 videographers, drone footage, 3-minute instrumental song highlight mini-video, 7-minute instrumental and song choice highlight video with speeches and artistic shots, ful-length day edited video with ceremony, grand entrances, speeches, and important dances, and all raw footage.
Original budget: None
Actual spend: $7,800
What we got: Included save the dates, invitations and response cards, postage, all wedding day signage, table numbers, menus, bar menus, and thank you notes.
Original budget: None - not included in overall wedding budget
Actual spend: $3,700
What we got: Bride's band - $3,200 Groom's band - $500
Original budget: None
Actual spend: $2,000
What we got: Church costs, priest fees, organist fees, church planner fees, etc.
Note: Individual figures may not total overall budget due to approximations + omitted items.
A deeper look into all the decisions – what’s important, what’s tossed, and more.
My parents decided upon the original wedding budget as a starting point. I am the only daughter in my immediate family and the eldest cousin, so this was all very new to us. We knew a Chicago Greek wedding would be more expensive, so we chose 200,000 as a starting point and knew that some items might be pricier or even cheaper than expected.
The budget mostly fell to the wayside as planning got underway. We would have a budget for something in mind, and then once we began planning things out, it would expand from there. Oftentimes, we would want to include more than what we had originally budgeted for, and going over budget allowed us to include the things we really wanted for our wedding day.
We utilized a personalized google sheet created by our wedding planner. This tracked all deposits, due dates, and contracts.
Top 3 priorities went to the venue, food, and decor. Our venue, the Field Museum, was the highlight of our wedding day, and we wanted guests to have a grand experience. This meant creating a space that perfectly accented the museum and our personalities. I come from a major foodie family so there was also NO way we were skimping on food or drinks.
I do not think anything really hit a "bottom priority" list for us. I found that we were really thoughtful about each element of our day. From the decor all the way to custom chocolates and welcome bags for guests. We even had custom paper towels made for the bathrooms. Each detail was gone through with a fine tooth comb and for some elements, it was less about the money and more about the experience for guests or for ourselves as a couple.
We hired a full wedding planner right away and it was the BEST decision we made. She truly made our vision as a couple comes to life and is the reason that wedding planning was so exciting at each step of the way and not stressful in any way, shape, or form. I believe for the cost of her and her team, we gained access to the best vendors in Chicago and the expertise that you cannot find on the internet alone.
There are aspects of your wedding day that you simply do not think about and it was incredible to have a team of people taking care of all the small details so that me, my husband, our bridal party, and my parents could enjoy each moment and not have to worry about a single thing.
I feel extremely thankful to say that we personally did not face challenges in budgeting for the wedding. As a couple, we were incredibly thankful to my parents for covering all the wedding costs.
Nothing was cut out.
Our over-budget expenses were due to adding additional decor and floral elements, adding entree options and additional hors d'ouevres, including customized drinks, providing all transportation for guests to and from wedding locations, paying for suites for the bridal party at the hotel, hair, and makeup for all bridal party members including groomsmen.
We included numerous extras that we did not initially plan for. This included:
Truthfully, we did not do much to actively cut costs for our wedding. Our thought process was that we wanted to give all the people we loved so much an incredible weekend in Chicago and an amazing wedding experience. We wanted to alleviate costs for our guests and show them how much we cared so this meant providing transportation and covering room costs for the bridal party and many family members.
My husband and I were thankful to have kept our finances completely separate from our wedding budget thanks to my parents and his parents covering everything for the wedding. This allowed us to focus on our financial well-being as a couple and prepare for what we wanted in the future
Nothing in particular comes to mind.
I was most surprised by the costs of staffing that were needed for catering, floral, decor, and the venue. I do not think this was something I would have thought of when originally budgeting for those elements. I think it is important to remember that staffing costs, taxes, tips, vendor meals, and other smaller expenses add up quickly. Sometimes the proposed cost of something looks way different after all those other costs are added on top. For a city wedding, these types of charges became very familiar to us throughout the process. It is just the price of doing business.
Unsure if this counts, but I paid for my junior prom dress to be altered into a shorter dress for our rehearsal. My husband and I are high school sweethearts and that dress was his favorite that I wore to a dance. It was a fun and sentimental nod to our past.
I am not naive to know that money directly allowed me to have the wedding of my dreams and create an unforgettable experience for everyone involved. However, at the end of the day it is important to recognize that whatever money may buy for your wedding, the focus should remain on the couple, their story, their love and this new season of life they are about to enter. Our marriage is not our wedding day and we value the day itself, but know that even without such a grand and beautiful day, our wedding would still be perfect.
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